In 2014, the contractor with assets of 80 million participated in "Do Not Disturb". When he came to the stage, he went straight to the point and said: I am engaged in construction, contractor, 32 years old, inspecting the construction site, with a monthly income of 30,000 yuan, I hope to find a gentle and considerate girl who can do housework and be empathetic.
It was the height of summer 2014, and the blind date show "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" was in full swing.
On the same day, a male guest named Zhang Li appeared on the stage.
Dressed in a crisp gray suit, he walked steadily, exuding a low-key confidence.
Zhang Zhang came to the center of the stage and began to introduce himself under the gaze of everyone: "Hello everyone, my name is Zhang Li, 32 years old this year, and I am a contract foreman.
My main job is to inspect the site and ensure that the construction works smoothly.
My monthly income is about 30,000 yuan.
I came here because I wanted to meet a girl who was gentle and considerate, could take care of household chores, and was empathetic.
His presentation was concise and clear, without flowery rhetoric or exaggeration.
In this stage of pursuing external packaging, such sincerity is really rare.
The moment the tension fell, the four female guests almost immediately made a choice - they pressed the button one after another, and the lights in their hands were all extinguished.
The lights on the stage are extinguished one by one, as if to light up the way forward.
However, Zhang Zhang did not appear disappointed or panicked, but said calmly: "I understand that everyone has the right to pursue a better life, and I respect your choice."
But in my opinion, money is not the whole story of happiness.
In order to let the female guests know more about their living conditions, Zhang Zhang specially brought a video of him working on the construction site.
In the video, he is wearing blue overalls and a hard hat, working hard with the workers.
In the sun, sweat drenched his forehead, but his face remained focused.
What the audience sees through the picture is a completely different tension from the stage - a simple image of a laborer.
After the video ended, the remaining lights went out one by one.
Zhang Zhang looked at the empty stage with a little regret, but a faint smile appeared on his face: "I know I don't have a luxury car or mansion to provide, but I have a sincere heart."
I believe that there will always be someone who will understand me and be willing to work together to get through the future. In the follow-up question session, Zhang Li meticulously answered the questions of the female guests.
When a female guest asked him if he would have time to spend with his significant other with such a busy job, he said without hesitation: "I have two days off a week.
In addition to working eight hours, I also have plenty of energy to care for my family.
If the future partner has their own needs, I prefer to have an equal and autonomous relationship. In the end, when it came time to make the final choice, Zhang Zhang chose a female guest who always supported him.
When the two were about to leave, Zhang Zhang suddenly revealed a shocking news - he was actually the major shareholder of a well-known real estate company, with assets of nearly 100 million! This information instantly caused an uproar in the audience.
Many of the female guests who had previously opted out were stunned and regretful on their faces.
And Zhang Li's move not only makes a profound satire on people who pay attention to the outside and ignore the sincerity, but also shows his firm pursuit of true love.
In this Vanity Fair, he proved in his own way that there are still people who uphold the sincerity of their feelings.
As he concludes, "I have a sincere heart, and I trust that someone will understand me." Through the experience of participating in variety shows to find true love, the article tells the story of an ordinary person who has the courage to pursue his true self and does not compromise with the world.
It conveys the idea that human emotions and values need to be valued, and encourages people not to be afraid of external judgment, but to insist on choosing a life in which they feel happy and happy inside.
References: 1. "Do Not Disturb" Program Archives 2. Research on Modern Love Concept and the Influence of Media, 2015, China Social Sciences Press.
