Back then, 27-year-old Xie Lan married Shi Xiaohong, who was 11 years older than herself, and the two made an appointment with Dink and did not want children, because her parents were deaf and mute, and they were afraid of passing on from generation to generation, who would have expected that 11 years later, Xie Lan, who was already 38 years old, said to her husband Shi Xiaohong that it was better to have a child.
Xie Lan was born in an ordinary intellectual family, his father was a university professor, and his mother was a middle school Chinese teacher. She has been deeply influenced by her parents since she was a child, and she is diligent in learning Xi, and she is excellent in character and learning.
In high school, Xie Lan showed a strong ability to think independently and innovate, and often had intense and constructive discussions with teachers in Chinese and history classes. This laid the foundation for her later choice of law major.
In college, Sheeran entered the law school of a major university to study Xi. At the beginning of her freshman year, she stood up in her Xi studies with her hard work and intelligence, and quickly accumulated solid legal knowledge.
When participating in various debate competitions and law competitions inside and outside the school, Xie Lan's outstanding language organization skills and excellent logical thinking skills have enabled her to win many battles and win glory for the school. In this way, Xie Lan, an undergraduate, made a name for herself in the academic world.
In her sophomore year, at a campus cultural festival, Xie Lan met Xiaohong, a teacher from the English Department. Shi Xiaohong is beautiful in appearance, elegant in temperament, and has a unique intellect and aura in her conversation. The two fell in love at first sight and quickly ignited a fire of love.
Shi Xiaohong was fascinated by the unique charm of Xie Lan's legal profession, and Xie Lan was also deeply impressed by Shi Xiaohong's girlish youthful vitality and wisdom. From the beginning of like-minded interests, the relationship between the two quickly warmed up, and by the third year, they officially entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong's respective careers developed rapidly, and they both became leaders in the industry. Sheeran qualified as a lawyer with distinction and soon became a senior partner in a large law firm.
Shi Xiaohong teaches at a university and is well-known in the world of literary criticism. The two are very ambitious, and the honeymoon period of their marriage has not yet passed, so they have no plans to have children for the time being.
This chic and happy life lasted for about 5 years, and Xie Lan gradually thought more about life. She realized that success in her career alone could not truly achieve the satisfaction and happiness of life.
As a woman, having children is an innate instinct, and this is also her heart's desire. Xie Lan began to yearn for the happiness brought by family and children, and also hoped that the love of the two could continue to a new life.
So, she cautiously put forward the idea of having a child with Shi Xiaohong. At first, Shi Xiaohong was a little surprised and hesitant. But he understands Xie Lan's thoughts very well, and he also knows the deep emotions that parents have for their children.
After several long talks and careful consideration, Shi Xiaohong finally nodded in agreement. He promised to fully support Xie Lan in life, so that she could have children without worries.
In this way, their first child was born when Sheeran was 32 years old. This is a cute and smart little girl, which makes Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong both immersed in the joy of being parents.
Sheeran decided to take a break from work during her maternity leave and devote herself to taking care of her children. Shi Xiaohong also tried her best to spare time and fulfilled her responsibility to accompany his wife and daughter. A family of three often goes out for outings, outings, and enjoying family fun.
When the child was two years old, Xie Lan became pregnant with her second child. In order to better take care of her two children, she decided to officially leave the law firm and start her life as a full-time mother at home.
In this regard, Shi Xiaohong gave 100% understanding and support. He began to work overtime to make sure there was no shortage of warmth in his home. Xie Lan will also use her spare time to help Shi Xiaohong revise the manuscript and give advice, and the two are still in love.
Time passed, and the eldest and second daughters grew up and began to go to school. Sheeran has returned to a career as a lawyer, but has pressed the slow button, leaving more time and energy for her family.
Today, they have a successful career, a group of children, and a happy life. Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong also gained a lot of insights about family, life, and choices in this long process.
Sheeran deeply understands that life is more complete and colorful because of having children. As a mother, she finds great satisfaction in her devotion and companionship.
This is irreplaceable for no amount of success and wealth. Therefore, she is glad that she finally chose to have children and eagerly enjoys being a mother.
At the same time, this experience also made Xie Lan deeply feel that understanding, trust and support are the cornerstones of maintaining a happy marriage. Without Shi Xiaohong's unconditional understanding and support, she would not be able to devote herself to being a mother.
It is precisely because the two of them have the same heart, you have me, and I have you, that their family boat can ride the wind and waves and sail to a better place in life.
