Sheeran's growing tenacity
In 1973, in Zhenjiang, Jiangsu, a little girl named Xie Lan fell to the ground, and she was finally coming to this world. At first, everything was so beautiful, and the parents looked at their innocent daughter, their eyes full of joy and anticipation.
However, the good times did not last long, and soon after, a sudden accident turned the life of this small family upside down without warning.
Both parents became deaf and mute in an accident, and they could no longer communicate freely with their children, and the burden of life suddenly fell on this little girl who was less than 10 years old.
In the face of the family's misfortune, little Xie Lan should cry like other children, full of grievances about life. But the little girl with a strong heart did not do this, she wiped away her tears, straightened her little shoulders, and began to take on the responsibility of taking care of her parents and younger brother.
When she came home from school, she started to do housework and take care of her parents' daily life. Her parents communicated with her through gestures and told her that she didn't have to worry too much and that studying well was the most important thing.
Xie Lan knew that her parents didn't want to be a burden to her, so she studied Xi more diligently, and her grades were at the top of her school. At that time, Xie Lan had already shown maturity and independence beyond his peers.
At the age of 11, little Xie Lan was photographed by a gymnastics coach and entered the gymnastics team for training. She thought that through her own efforts, she could change the fate of her family.
However, as fate would have it, an accident caused her to quit the gymnastics team. However, Xie Lan was not discouraged, but started a new journey again - at the age of 17, she was admitted to Beijing Film Academy and officially entered the road of acting.
Despite the family changes, Xie Lan did not give in, but faced life with maturity beyond her years. While taking care of her family, she also does not forget to be inspirational. Although there were twists and turns along the way, that tenacious heart supported her to consistently pursue her dreams.
It is this tenacity that has created a series of achievements for her in the future.
I met Shi Xiaohong for the first time and got married
In 2001, 28-year-old Xie Lan met Shi Xiaohong for the first time in the TV series "Yellow Earth and Blue Sky".
The two are just ordinary partners, and there is not much intersection in and out of the play. One day a year later, Shi Xiaohong drove out, but suffered a sudden car accident.
Although his condition was not serious, this thrilling experience made him realize the fragility and anxiety of life.
"Life is too short, I don't know what will happen tomorrow, and I don't want to wait any longer. After the car accident, Shi Xiaohong plucked up the courage and called Xie Lan and directly confessed his heart.
This sudden confession caught Xie Lan off guard. Growing up in a poor family, she has always worked hard to support her family. She never thought too much about her feelings, and she didn't expect to receive such a sincere confession.
Xie Lan hesitated, but decided to give Shi Xiaohong a chance. Perhaps, this is the arrangement of fate. Even though the two didn't have much emotional foundation at first, in this moment of impermanence, Xie Lan decided to open her heart and give love a chance.
In this way, the two tied the knot in 2001 and entered the palace of marriage in a flash of lightning. This relationship, which begins with friends and sublimates into lovers, makes people feel a lot of emotion.
Sometimes, love doesn't need much foreshadowing. In ordinary life, there may be surprises and precious fate. It is important to grasp the opportunities given by fate, give sincere trust to the other person, and manage each day well.
The story of Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong inspires us to live positively and love others. Because, you never know that happiness is around you, just waiting for you to find it.
Perseverance in exchange for a happy life
After marriage, Shi Xiaohong completely assumed the heavy responsibility of the family and became Xie Lan's strongest backing. In order to let his beloved wife dedicate himself to his career, he took the initiative to put down his work, retired to his family, and became the rear of Xie Lan's busy life.
Xie Lan's parents need special care, which is not easy for Shi Xiaohong, who has just gotten married. But he didn't complain at all, he just wanted to do everything he could to protect this home.
He specializes in Xi sign language in order to better communicate with his father-in-law; When Xie Lan goes out to film, he will regularly video with the elderly to make them feel the warmth of home.
In the past 12 years, Shi Xiaohong has tried her best to play the role of "home". He always remembered the promise he made to Sheeran that he would support her in all her decisions. Therefore, when Xie Lan expressed the idea that she didn't want children, Shi Xiaohong didn't exert any pressure, and only said, "I will support your ideas."
It wasn't until 2012 that 39-year-old Xie Lan finally had a child. One morning, 10 months into her pregnancy, the silence of the morning was pierced by the cry of a baby. This home ushered in the arrival of a new life and fulfilled the wish of a husband and wife.
After giving birth to a child, the two switched roles again. Xie Lan became a full-time mother, focusing only on the care and companionship of the baby; Shi Xiaohong went out to work to earn money for this happy family.
In the end, with perseverance and perseverance, they built a platform for a happy life.
Love requires understanding and dedication from both parties. Shi Xiaohong used his actions to interpret what commitment is, he did not change his original intention because of the wear and tear of life, but because of the precipitation of time, the protection of the family was stronger.
It is this kind of mutual support that has allowed them to go through ups and downs and usher in the highlight moments of their lives.
Touched and inspired modern women
After reading Xie Lan's story, it is bound to move and think. The story of how an ordinary woman grew up in the midst of change and found happiness in love has brought many inspirations to the lives of contemporary women.
First of all, Xie Lan grew up in a bad family, but instead of being discouraged and complaining, she worked hard to grow herself, and this tenacious quality is worth learning Xi. Each of us will encounter life's problems, and what matters is the mindset.
In the face of adversity, we must work as hard as Xie Lan, believing that as long as we work hard, we can open up the dilemma of life.
Secondly, Xie Lan's emotional path is also very touching. Although she didn't have much affection for Shi Xiaohong at first, she still gave the other party a chance. As a result, Shi Xiaohong moved her with sincerity, and the two eventually became married.
Modern women should also keep an open mind to life on the road of love. The most precious thing about love is the identification of two sincere hearts, even if it develops from friends, it can also cultivate deep feelings.
Again, after Xie Lan got married, she did not give up her career, but continued to maintain herself. She can be a husband and a child, or she can return to work and realize her self-worth.
Modern women need to learn to find a balance between traditional and modern values, to live actively, but not to lose themselves.
In the end, Xie Lan, who gave birth at the age of 39, gave us a lot of inspiration. Should women give up childbearing for the sake of their careers? The answer is no. The important thing is to grasp the correct time to give birth, not only to realize the value of the career, but also to complete the inheritance of life, which is the richness and completeness of life.
Xie Lan used her tenacious qualities to stand on the cusp of the times and become a model for modern women. We all need to draw strength from her story and live our own wonderful lives.
The wonderful life continues
After the baby was born, Xie Lan temporarily withdrew from the entertainment industry and dedicated all his time and energy to his family. She accompanies the baby all day long and establishes a strong emotional bond between mother and child.
After her child went to elementary school, Xie Lan returned to work again, and she had to focus her life on her career again.
However, it turns out that good actors, like old wine, will be endowed with a richer and more moving taste by time. In 2021, as soon as Xie Lan's new drama was launched, it quickly set off a boom, and she became a popular actor again, reaching the peak of her life again.
When we see Xie Lan's unpredictable expression and excellent acting skills on the screen, it is hard to imagine that she is already the mother of a son. The years have not left too many traces on her face, and you can still feel the youthful energy she exudes.
This stems from Sheeran's never-abandoning love for life. Everyone will go through different stages of life, and when youth is long gone, we must learn to find the wonderful in each new stage.
After starring in the major drama, Xie Lan started a new journey. She will climb one peak after another in her career and accomplish greater achievements. In her, we see what a positive attitude towards life is.
No matter how many ups and downs fate brings, as long as we still have dreams and enthusiasm in our hearts, we will never be too late, and we will always have the opportunity to start again and complete a new journey.
Xie Lan used her story to tell us that as long as we don't give up our love for life and always keep a young heart, the excitement of life will never stop, and it will continue with our footsteps.
Life insights, encouraging modern women
After reading Xie Lan's growth story, it is bound to make people ponder and sigh. An ordinary woman, how to grow up in adversity, how to bloom in love, her story has given us many inspirations in life.
First of all, Xie Lan grew up in a poor family, but she did not give in, but still maintained an optimistic and enterprising attitude, which is worth learning from Xi positive quality. We all encounter failures and setbacks in life, and the important thing is the mindset.
Like Xie Lan, we must not be discouraged in the face of difficulties, as long as we persevere forward, we can get out of the predicament and realize our self-worth.
Secondly, Xie Lan was lucky to meet true love in middle age. Although they didn't have any special feelings for Shi Xiaohong at first, the marriage between the two was very happy. This tells modern women not to follow the rules, to give life more openness and expectation, the most precious thing in love is the fit of two hearts, even if it develops from friends, it can also contain deep feelings.
Again, Xie Lan is very successful in her career, and she does not forget to return to work after giving birth, realize her self-worth, she can afford both her family and career, and she is not only a good wife and mother, but also a strong woman in her career.
Modern women should balance traditional and modern values, not lose themselves by starting a family, and make life colorful.
In the end, Xie Lan didn't give birth until she was 39 years old, but it wasn't too late, she just grasped the best time to give birth. Women should not give up being a mother just for their careers, but should choose to have children at the right stage of their careers, so that their lives are complete.
Sheeran's story became a model for modern women's Xi. She teaches us the positive optimism of life, the love of love, the self-realization of career and the timely grasp of childbirth.
These qualities have enabled her to live a wonderful life, and they have inspired us to find direction and strength in life.