Editor: Nan Nan
When others were still in school, she had become a partner with Leslie Cheung.
At the age of 21, he became famous with "Singing in the Middle of the Night", and then his career rose steadily.
At the end of the 20th century, she found the love of her life.
Because of family reasons, she didn't want children, and her husband promised her Dink for love.
However, at the age of 39, she became pregnant unexpectedly, but she risked her advanced maternal age to give birth to a son for her husband.
What was the reason for Xie Lan's reluctance to have children, and what made her suddenly change her mind at the age of 39?
Destined love
She is the "Xiangxiu" in "Mansion Gate".
He is the general "Yuan Unyielding" in "Marrying the Right Man in the Wrong Sedan Chair".
Two people who seem to have no fate to intersect have come together because of a play.
In 1999, Xie Lan shined in the showbiz because of "Walking Through the Harsh Winter".
The Huabiao Award was firmly held in her hand.
It was also this year that Xie Lan met the love of his life.
In the crew of "Yellow Earth and Blue Land", she met Shi Xiaohong.
This name is like a girl, but the figure is very strong.
Shi Xiaohong was 11 years older than Xie Lan, and fell in love with her at first sight.
Xie Lan is 26 years old, and she is in her prime.
He asked the people around him for Xie Lan's contact information, but got the same answer.
"I advise you to die of this heart, this girl is an iceberg, and it is useless for anyone to chase it."
Seeing the people around him shaking their heads one by one to persuade them to give up earlier, Shi Xiaohong ignited the desire to win in his chest.
When he inquired about the real reason why Xie Lan was unwilling to get married, he felt even more distressed about her.
He immediately decided that Xie Lan would not marry in this life, and he would be good to her for the rest of his life.
After this cooperation ended, Shi Xiaohong inquired about Xie Lan's next itinerary.
He fought for the opportunity to film with Xie Lan and took the opportunity to confess to her during the cooperation.
As a result, as a previous colleague said, Xie Lan rejected Shi Xiaohong's courtship without even thinking about it.
However, Xie Lan sincerely told Shi Xiaohong the reason why she was unwilling to get married.
Deaf and dumb families
"Mom, my daughter shouldn't inherit us."
After Sheeran was born, Shelan's parents worried for a long time.
They are worried that their child will have hereditary deafness.
It wasn't until Xie Lan babbled and learned to speak that the couple's hanging hearts could be regarded as letting go.
Because of the deaf and dumb reasons, the economic conditions of their small family are not good, and they are even a little poor.
But for their daughter, the two always do their best.
They bought Sheeran good food, bought new clothes, and sent her to school.
Every time she went to see Xie Lan go to school, her father always stopped not far from the school and watched her enter the school gate.
Dad was afraid that Xie Lan's classmates would discriminate against his daughter because they knew she was deaf and mute.
This life lasted until Sheeran was 8 years old.
That year, Sheeran was valued by the local gymnastics school.
Dad sends her to school as usual, but the child is not as easy to deceive as the kindergarten children when they are older.
The classmates still knew about Xie Lan's background.
As Dad feared, they began to isolate Sheeran, threatening that whoever spoke to Sheeran would become mute too.
Xie Lan has no friends, always walks alone, and is not even willing to say a word.
She threw herself into gymnastics Xi, wanting to win glory for her parents.
But she didn't expect that she would say goodbye to gymnastics completely after an injury.
After leaving school, Xie Lan resisted going to school for a while.
She wants to drop out of school to work and help her parents share the burden of the family.
Not to mention that she is still a child laborer, no one wants her at all,
How could her parents be willing to let her suffer from the beating of society at a young age.
Mom and Dad were so anxious that they cried because they were afraid that she would really give up the opportunity to go to school.
Fortunately, Xie Lan figured it out in the end, and she still went to school with her schoolbag on her back.
After graduating from junior high school, Xie Lan joined the Zhejiang Burlesque Troupe.
Xie Lan seems to have been born to perform.
As a teenager, she is already slim, tall, and has endless stories in her eyes.
In her 3-year acting career, Xie Lan has made rapid progress.
In 19, Xie Lan was successfully admitted to Beiying.
Huang Lei and Jiang Wu are both Xie Lan's classmates.
At this time, there are still 7 years before she and Shi Xiaohong meet.
An instant hit
Xie Lan's talent in acting is destined for her to be a big step ahead of her classmates.
When she was still studying, she had already starred in "Sister and Brother in the Distant Mountains", "Blood-stained Peach Blossom Water", "Palace Cockfighting" and "The Legend of Emperor Yan".
Xie Lan's original intention was to reduce the burden of his parents to support his education through filming.
Back then, when she was close to Beiying, her parents spent the entire summer raising tuition for her.
I work during the day and work as an hourly worker at night.
Hurry up and hurry, and finally make up her tuition.
Seeing her tired parents, Xie Lan was very upset.
Participating in the filming of TV series can not only make money, but also exercise the sense of the camera and improve acting skills, killing two birds with one stone.
Perhaps it was these dramas that allowed her to get the opportunity to partner with Leslie Cheung.
When "Singing in the Middle of the Night" was preparing for filming, director Yu Rentai came to Beijing Film for casting.
Sheeran stands out from the crowd of contenders.
Being able to play with Leslie Cheung is a dream in the hearts of many people, and Xie Lan easily reached the goal that others can't pursue in their lives.
After this drama, the audience knew about an actor named Xie Lan.
Because Xie Lan's acting skills are superb enough, there are only a lot more dramas in the future.
In 1996, Xie Lan appeared as the protagonist in the films "Naked Blood" and "Camel Road".
Since then, "Little Women", "Red Apricot Out of the Wall" and "Conscience", Xie Lan's acting skills have become more and more proficient.
However, she never thought about stepping into marriage.
until I met Shi Xiaohong.
She is afraid that her children will be inherited from generation to generation, and she is also afraid that others will not look down on her family.
But in Shi Xiaohong's eyes, he was only distressed.
Shi Xiaohong promised her: "After getting married, we can dink, and you can also keep filming, I will not force you to have children, nor will I stop you from pursuing your dreams."
Looking at Shi Xiaohong's sincere eyes, Xie Lan believed him.
Shi Xiaohong hugged the beauty, and got married after only one year of dating.
After marriage, Shi Xiaohong did promise him that he would never interfere with Xie Lan.
Xie Lan is still shining in the entertainment industry.
In 2001, Xie Lan participated in the TV series "Mansion Gate" directed by Guo Baochang.
She created the role of Li Xiangxiu, who has a flamboyant personality and dares to love and hate, and is loved by the audience.
Since then, Xie Lan's career has ushered in a peak period.
In 2003, Xie Lan successfully won the Golden Eagle Award for the role of Ding Xiaoli, who is eager to read in "Snow White Blood Red".
Mu Xin in "Watching Love", Li Yuer in "The Criminal Officer of the Great Song Dynasty", and Yin Xuemei, the teacher in "Yin Xuemei", ......
Xie Lan rushed between various crews, bringing one good-looking TV series after another to the audience.
12 years have passed in the blink of an eye.
One day in 2012, Xie Lan was filming in the crew and suddenly felt a little sick to his stomach.
I thought it was my stomach problem, but I didn't expect to be pregnant with a child.
Faced with the sudden news, Xie Lan was a little at a loss.
She immediately called Shi Xiaohong, and on the other end of the phone, Shi Xiaohong expressed respect for her thoughts.
At that time, Xie Lan was 39 years old, and if she gave up this child, she didn't know if she still had any hope of becoming a mother again in her life.
Xie Lan struggled for several days, and finally decided to keep the child.
conceived in October, Xie Lan gave birth to a son Dandan.
After having a child, Xie Lan is no longer a desperate Sanniang like before.
She spends more time with her children and family, accompanying her son to grow up.
After that, Xie Lan's movies and TV series combined were only 5.
On the contrary, Shi Xiaohong is still active on the screen, whether it is the protagonist or a supporting role, there are several dramas to meet with you every year.
The relationship between the couple has not been diluted because of Dink and the long-distance relationship, but it has endured for a long time.
epilogue
The wrong person will take advantage of your weakness to attack you.
The right person will only feel sorry for the injuries you have suffered.
Xie Lan's worries and fears can all be put down by Shi Xiaohong.
He touched her and made her willing to take the risk of giving birth at the age of 40.
After thousands of sails, looking back is a stepping stone to happiness.
I hope that their family of three can be happy forever.