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Text: An Xun
She is the resolute female doctor in "Walking Through the Harsh Winter";
She is also the talented Juliet in "Singing in the Middle of the Night";
She is the playful and pungent Li Xiangxiu in "The Gate of the Mansion".
She is Xie Lan, who became famous on the front foot, and talked about marriage with Shi Xiaohong on the back foot.
After marriage, the two met Dink and put the birth of a child behind them.
Unexpectedly, Xie Lan became pregnant unexpectedly at the age of 39 and gave birth to a son soon after.
What made Sheeran change her mind, and what is her current situation?
Suffering childhood
Xie Lan was born in a poor family in Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province in 1973.
Xie Lan's parents are very special because they are both deaf and mute, and their lives are very difficult.
As the eldest daughter in the family, Xie Lan has a heavier burden on her body.
When she was 8 years old, Xie Lan was sent by her parents to practice gymnastics;
Three years of gymnastics life made Xie Lan more determined to develop on this road.
Sadly;
Injured in an accident, Xie Lan had to leave the gymnastics team.
At that time, Xie Lan was confused and didn't know what to do next;
Later, by chance, Xie Lan entered the Zhejiang Burlesque Troupe with her beautiful appearance.
In 1992, Xie Lan decided to apply for the Beijing Film Academy.
With her own appearance advantages and years of gymnastics training, Xie Lan was also able to successfully enroll.
In the class, Xie Lan is diligent and hardworking, and she treats her acting homework with great care, striving for every detail in place.
When it comes to Xie Lan, her teachers and classmates praise her, thinking that she is diligent and talented.
In her sophomore year, Xie Lan, who was still in school, got a dream opportunity to act.
When the crew of "Singing in the Middle of the Night" came to the school for casting;
Sheeran was pushed to the front of the crowd in front of him;
And Xie Lan became the heroine of "Singing in the Middle of the Night".
When she learned that she could play with her "brother" Leslie Cheung, Xie Lan was very excited.
In order to be able to act in this play, she played Juliet, the heroine of the stage play;
Xie Lan didn't dare to relax for a moment, and even stayed up for several nights to carefully study the details of the script.
When facing the director, Xie Lan conquered the director with his solid and superb acting skills and won recognition.
As soon as this film was broadcast, Xie Lan was noticed by the audience.
Although there are very few shots of Xie Lan in this film, just a "glimpse" is unforgettable.
In the year when he was about to graduate, a well-known film and television company wanted to sign a contract with Xie Lan.
But Xie Lan, who had a plan for a long time, did not hesitate to turn down this opportunity that everyone else dreamed of.
Instead, he went to work in the art theater.
In Sheeran's opinion, the work of the theater is more suitable for her.
The performance of the drama can be said to exercise the basic skills of the actors.
And in addition to drama performances, she can continue to shoot film and television dramas.
Since then, Xie Lan has starred in many film and television dramas.
The in-depth portrayal of various characters is even more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
She has also won the Outstanding Actress Award and the most popular actress award from the audience.
Sheeran is a person who knows exactly what he wants.
Her childhood experiences and the peculiarity of her parents made her see farther and more mature than her peers.
This is also an asset in Sheeran's life.
Love comes
While developing her career, Sheeran also met people who loved and respected her.
Shi Xiaohong, a man who often plays a "tough guy" on the big screen.
Shi Xiaohong, who was born in 1962, is 11 years older than Xie Lan.
With a height of 185, he was synonymous with tall and burly at the time.
In the summer of 1999, Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong received a call from the director to play a couple.
This TV series that made them fall in love is called "Yellow Earth, Blue Land".
At first, neither of them felt much for each other.
Until the end of the filming of this drama, the two did not have much intersection.
But fate is wonderful.
Even if the two didn't rub a spark at the beginning;
But fate also tied the two together.
Because this drama won an award after it was broadcast.
Xie Lan was not available, so he entrusted Shi Xiaohong to bring it to him.
Shi Xiaohong immediately agreed.
Since then, the two have been in contact more and more.
Shi Xiaohong gradually developed a good impression of this independent girl in her heart.
But he never dared to say it, for fear of being rejected.
Until a car accident, Shi Xiaohong, who was fighting with death, decided to bravely express his love under the persuasion of his friends.
So he dialed the phone number that allowed him to memorize it backwards.
Shi Xiaohong told Xie Lan about the accident that had just happened.
After that, he said to Xie Lan with trepidation: "I want to marry you, I hope you can consider it." ”
After finishing speaking, Shi Xiaohong hung up the phone in a hurry without waiting for Xie Lan's reply.
But obviously, the long-term understanding of the two has made the two know the roots;
And Sheeran must inevitably fall in love with him.
When Shi Xiaohong met with Xie Lan and asked for the answer to this question, Shi Xiaohong was both nervous and expectant.
Unexpectedly, Xie Lan smiled, even though his career was popular, he still said to him: "I am willing." ”
No one thought that the two were about to get married before they fell in love.
Soon, the two began to prepare, and then settled in Beijing.
After the two got married, they began to fall in love.
In order to be more with Xie Lan, Shi Xiaohong even lowered her price and played a small role in his wife's crew.
The warm love made Xie Lan feel very happy.
But the good times didn't last long, and the elders put forward the idea of wanting to hold their grandson.
Xie Lan was silent on the surface, but in fact, she already had other thoughts in her heart.
Dink
Once, Shi Xiaohong and Xie Lan talked privately about having children.
Xie Lan suddenly looked at Shi Xiaohong with a solemn face and said, "I don't want children. ”
Xie Lan, who was on the rise in his career at that time, made one drama after another.
Children are still a luxury for Xie Lan.
She didn't want to miss work because of her children.
Shi Xiaohong is not young, and seeing that his peers have children, his heart is also extremely struggling.
However, he loves his wife more than his children.
So he said to Xie Lan: "Okay, all listen to you, when do you want us to ask for it." ”
After that, Xie Lan received a drama "Mansion Gate" that made her more famous.
After reading the script, Xie Lan felt that the role of "Li Xiangxiu" was not suitable for her.
And this character has such a hot temper, and I am afraid that it will disgust the audience after the broadcast.
But the director thinks Sheeran is very suitable for the role;
Although this role is not likable, I highly recommend Xie Lan to try it.
I believe that under her interpretation, it will definitely be very outstanding.
Sure enough, after the show was broadcast, it did have a great response, and Xie Lan also made more audiences familiar with it.
In this way, Xie Lan's acting career is getting wider and wider, and Shi Xiaohong is also constantly playing.
The couple gets together less and separates more, and they only spend a few months together a year.
One dink is 12 years.
An unexpected surprise
Xie Lan, who has been married for many years and has not given birth, will inevitably be urged by her elders.
However, her husband Shi Xiaohong always protected her, saying that he didn't want it because he didn't want it.
I thought that the two of them would not have children for the rest of their lives.
What neither of them expected was that the surprise came quietly when Xie Lan was 38 years old.
Xie Lan unexpectedly became pregnant.
After learning the news, Xie Lan was both pleasantly surprised and a little worried.
The 38-year-old Xie Lan has become an advanced maternal age, and if she does not give birth again, it will be very difficult to have children in the future.
But having a baby will definitely affect the development of your career.
This made Sheeran hesitate.
And when Shi Xiaohong learned about it, she was very happy.
He knew his wife's concerns, so he said to her: "Don't worry, I will take care of the child after it is born, and you will go to filming." ”
He wanted to have a child so badly.
Xie Lan knew in her heart that her husband was a person who liked children very much.
Because she said she didn't want children, her husband accommodated her for so many years and took care of her feelings.
She felt ashamed of her husband's kindness to her.
After careful consideration, Xie Lan decided to turn down the one-year drama contract and concentrate on having children.
Under Shi Xiaohong's meticulous care.
In 2012, 39-year-old Xie Lan finally welcomed her son.
Xie Lan, who planned to go to work after giving birth.
looked at this little life conceived with her husband, but she was reluctant to leave him.
So Xie Lan decided to give up her career and accompany her children to grow up.
In recent years, Xie Lan's son has grown up slowly and does not need to be taken care of all day.
Xie Lan began to gradually return to filming and returned to the public eye again.
However, today, Sheeran has always put family first.
epilogue
Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong's "marriage first and then love" love is really enviable!
Shi Xiaohong, in order to respect Xie Lan, did not want children for 12 years.
When the little life came, although Xie Lan hesitated, she still couldn't resist her mother's love.
She couldn't bear to give up this hard-won little life;
So, at the risk of giving birth at an advanced age, this child was ushered in.
Because of the child, Xie Lan gave up the career he loved.
Take care of your children and family wholeheartedly.
It was her husband and mother's love that made her finally change.
It can be said that in Shi Xiaohong, Xie Lan got all the love.
As long as it is what she wants to do, Shi Xiaohong will strongly support it.
She is also willing to change for the sake of her husband and son.
Love that goes both ways will make people feel happy.
Only by supporting and giving to each other will people be willing to make changes.
Who wouldn't want to have this kind of love?