Xie Lan, a strange woman who came out of her suffering
The deepest impression of Xie Lan is the playful, cute and aura Xiangxiu girl in "The Gate of the Mansion".
Throughout Xie Lan's life history, many people will be amazed.
"This is really a strange woman who has come out of suffering!"
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From the recently exposed photos, it can be seen that the years have also left traces on Xie Lan's face.
Not only is her skin in poor condition, but even the left and right sides of her face are asymmetrical.
Fans who love her exclaimed: "What has Xie Lan experienced over the years!"
Some netizens bluntly said: "Get out of China!"
Why is that?
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1. The family background is miserable but self-reliant
In 1973, Xie Lan was born in a special family in Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province, and her parents were both deaf and mute.
When Xie Lan was a child, he had been living in the ridicule and white eyes of others.
Growing up in such an environment for a long time has made Xie Lan more tenacious in his bones.
She hopes that she can bring a better life to her parents later in life.
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Parents also love Xie Lan in every way.
In the eyes of his parents, as long as Xie Lan studies hard, it is enough to find a job to support herself in the future.
Every time Sheeran was sent to school, his parents would start to get far away from Sheeran when they were about to arrive at school.
They knew that they were special and didn't want Xie Lan's classmates to laugh at her.
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At such moments, Xie Lan would always secretly wipe away tears when he turned his head.
During the PE class, the PE teacher found that Xie Lan's flexibility was still very good.
So he suggested that Xie Lan could apply for a sports school to practice Xi gymnastics and conduct professional training.
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At first, Xie Lan was reluctant, she felt that she would be a little Xi to staying with her parents for a long time.
But then she learned that if she could win, the prize money would be very high.
After consulting with his parents, 8-year-old Sheeran began her gymnastics career.
Xie Lan often gets injured when she practices Xi gymnastics, but she grits her teeth and persists every time, she knows that she can't give up.
As long as she is diligent in practicing Xi, she will definitely be able to shine in the future, but she didn't expect fate to play a joke with her soon.
During a training session, Sheeran accidentally fell off the balance beam.
The coach immediately sent Sheeran to the hospital, and Sheeran did not shed tears in the process.
It wasn't until later that the doctor examined him and said, "You have a very serious fracture in your left arm, and you may be disabled." ”
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After hearing this, Xie Lan cried bitterly.
She knew she was saying goodbye to the gymnastics she loved.
Her parents were always by Shelan's side when she was sad.
After doing a long period of ideological work, she finally persuaded Sheeran that she agreed to go to school again.
After graduating from junior high school, Xie Lan was favored by the Zhejiang Burlesque Troupe with her excellent appearance.
She was officially introduced to acting.
It was also at this time that Xie Lan germinated the idea of applying for the Beijing Film Academy in the future.
But she knows that everything requires her own effort.
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She not only assiduously learns Xi professional knowledge but also Xi cultural knowledge.
With her efforts, she was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and became a student of the 92nd class.
When she first entered the school, Xie Lan was invited by the crew of "Sister and Brother in the Distant Mountains" to participate in the filming because of her outstanding temperament.
In the crew, Xie Lan has learned a lot Xi, and her acting skills have been improved accordingly.
After the release of this drama, it directly won the Best Story Award at the China Film Huabiao Awards.
Being able to have such a resounding work when I was a student is something that many people can't compare.
The success of this show did not make Sheeran proud and complacent.
On the contrary, she clearly realized that she had to be better to be able to match the hard work of every staff member of the crew.
The surrounding classmates began to introduce the role to Xie Lan after learning about her family situation.
Even if some roles are small, Xie Lan will also play them.
She felt that it was about experiencing different roles so that she could master different ways of acting.
Every time she gets paid, Xie Lan sends most of it home.
The parents were very happy for her when they saw that their daughter could make money outside, and at the same time, they felt very sorry for their daughter.
In her sophomore year, Xie Lan ushered in her highlight moment.
She collaborated with Leslie Cheung on "Singing in the Middle of the Night".
This is Xie Lan's first time working with such a big-name star, and she did not have stage fright in the process, but treated it with a normal heart.
successfully completed the performance, and her acting skills were also recognized by everyone.
After graduating, she decided to stay in Beijing for development, knowing that for a family like hers, making money is the primary goal.
A big city like Beijing is the right one for you, and you can give yourself more opportunities.
She has also become an actor at the National Theatre with a number of excellent works.
During the filming of "Walking Through the Bitter Winter", Xie Lan played a medical worker whose husband was a drug addict.
She used her sincerity to influence her husband and let him stop taking drugs, such an excellent work touched countless people.
also won Xie Lan the Huabiao Award for Outstanding Actress.
She became a household name actress, and at the same time, she also gained precious love.
2. Meet true love and settle abroad
The crew of "Yellow Earth, Blue Land" invited Xie Lan to star, and in the crew she met Shi Xiaohong, who was 11 years older than herself.
At the first glance of Xie Lan, Shi Xiaohong was attracted to her.
Xie Lan was very strong when the crew was filming, and she was also very strict with herself, and Shi Xiaohong was impressed by her professional attitude.
But Xie Lan didn't have a lot of communication with Shi Xiaohong, Shi Xiaohong always used the name of caring for her partner to send Xie Lan some food and drink.
Once Xie Lan was sick, Shi Xiaohong immediately went to the pharmacy to buy medicine after knowing about it.
When he came to Shelan's room, Sheran said, "Just leave it at the door." ”
This sentence directly made Shi Xiaohong stunned in place, does this woman not like herself?
What exactly does she think about herself?
Shi Xiaohong thought that the fate between the two was over.
Unexpectedly, the two met again later during the filming of "Yi Bo Yuntian", and this time, it was obvious that there were a lot more words between the two.
But he always felt that Xie Lan had a sense of alienation.
Later, by chance, he learned about Xie Lan's family situation, and he understood why Xie Lan had such a character.
He also felt more sorry for her.
He decided to pluck up the courage to confess to Xie Lan, but he didn't expect to be rejected, Xie Lan said.
"I don't have any thoughts of falling in love at this stage. ”
Shi Xiaohong was very sad, so he and his friends decided to drink and vent.
I didn't expect to be in a car accident on the way back.
It was also after experiencing this incident that Shi Xiaohong decided to confess to Xie Lan again.
During the meeting, Xie Lan saw the wound on Shi Xiaohong's forehead and wanted to ask him what was wrong.
Unexpectedly, Shi Xiaohong said.
"Listen to me first, I really like you, and I really want to give you a future, I'm not joking with you, I'm willing to protect you for the rest of my life. ”
Xie Lan's eyes were full of shock when she heard this, she had never heard such a direct confession, she was also very moved, she agreed.
The two began to dating, and in the process of dating, Shi Xiaohong took the initiative to take care of Xie Lan.
He turned off a lot of shooting assignments, and he was there whenever Sheran was filming.
The people in the crew saw that Shi Xiaohong was so infatuated, and they were also very envious of Xie Lan.
Such sincerity touched Xie Lan, and after only half a year, the two entered the palace of marriage.
It was also at this time that Shi Xiaohong proposed to Xie Lan: "I'll take care of the family, you can rest assured to work." ”
He knew that the general husband and wife model Xie Lan couldn't accept it, she was very strong.
As her husband, you should respect any ideas she has, not bind her.
Hearing this, Xie Lan hugged Shi Xiaohong tightly.
During Xie Lan's absence, Shi Xiaohong began to learn Xi sign language and practiced Xi day after day.
He gradually became proficient in sign language, and he communicated more and more with his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
At this time, the famous director Guo Baochang wanted Xie Lan to play the role of Bai Jiali in "The Gate of the Mansion".
But Xie Lan said that she preferred Li Xiangxiu.
Maybe she saw a shadow in herself in this role.
Xiangxiu, like herself, has become a big heroine from an obscure small role.
In this drama, Xie Lan's performance was very good, and she also received wide acclaim, and her popularity also increased.
Seeing that their daughter's career is so busy, the parents also hope that the young couple can have a child as soon as possible.
Sheeran was unwilling.
Because she took into account that her parents were deaf and mute after all.
If your own family genes are inherited, then it is irresponsible for this child.
She also doesn't want her children to live under the strange eyes of others like she once was.
After learning about Xie Lan's idea, Shi Xiaohong said that he respected Xie Lan's idea.
As long as she doesn't want to, she won't give birth, and Shi Xiaohong's mother also hopes that the two can do it as soon as possible, but Shi Xiaohong said that she didn't want to give birth.
But in 2011, Xie Lan unexpectedly became pregnant, which was both nervous and uneasy for Xie Lan.
She was afraid that the child was unhealthy, and her husband Shi Xiaohong comforted her on the side: "It's okay, don't be too nervous, it'll be fine." ”
Xie Lan, who has always been a "workaholic", also pushed away the work at hand and raised the baby with peace of mind.
Fortunately, the child was very healthy after birth, and Xie Lan also felt the joy and happiness of being a mother.
At this time, Xie Lan was 41 years old.
She hopes that she can spend more time with her child, be able to accompany him to grow up, and witness his changes at every stage.
She cut back on her work and shifted her focus to her family.
As a mother, she also wants her children to receive a good education, so she took her children to settle in the United States.
As a public figure, going to the United States in China has always been concerned by netizens.
Xie Lan has never responded positively to netizens' questions about her, and she has recently returned to China.
Xie Lan, who had not seen him for a long time, came to Jining, Shandong Province to visit the "Three Holes".
In the video, it can be seen that Xie Lan's current state is not as good as before.
The skin and the female star are not touched at all, they are all small bumps, and the left and right faces are not symmetrical, netizens are speculating whether there are too many needles?
But all this is Xie Lan's own choice, and everyone has a love for beauty.
As bystanders, we don't have much to say.
There was no clear response to the question of whether she settled in the United States, and it is believed that the truth will not be known until later.
epilogue
I have to admit that Xie Lan is very strong, and she dares to rebel against fate.