How deep is a man's love for a woman?
Deep enough to dare not confess, can only silently like; deep enough to escape immediately after the disaster to propose, because of the fear of never seeing again.
The woman he loves is called Sheran, and he met because of filming.
For family reasons, Xie Lan never accepted his love.
In fact, Xie Lan did not know that Shi Xiaohong was her "true son of heaven".
At the end of 2000, Shi Xiaohong and her friends were in a car accident and almost died.
The first time he passed by the god of death, his heart was deeply touched: some things were missed, and it was too late to regret it!
So he took advantage of the wine in the middle of the night to dial Xie Lan's phone:
"I almost died today, I'm afraid I'll never see you again, I'm going to marry you right away, you're the person I care about the most."
After saying that, he fell asleep and fell asleep.....
But who would have thought that this iron man would have countless tenderness and extreme romance in the future.
Their stories feel like cotton candy and make you close your mouth happily.
Acquaintance, deep-rooted love
In 1999, Shi Xiaohong and Xie Lanyin jointly participated in the TV series "Yellow Land and Blue Land" and met.
"Good seniors."
When we first met, Xie Lan's three words were even if they had said hello.
Shi Xiaohong never expected that she would like this cold woman in the future.
Every time I take a break, everyone gets together and laughs and laughs, which is very lively.
But Shi Xiaohong found that there was a person who always sat quietly in the corner and did not like to talk, or just looked down at the script.
The sun sprinkled on her young and beautiful face, and there was a quiet beauty of the years.
This picture often made Shi Xiaohong stunned.
He wanted to come up and say a couple of words to her, but he couldn't open his mouth.
Since then he has taken an interest in Sheran and has kept an eye on her.
He found that Sheran had a good temper and was kind to the staff on the scene.
He felt that this was the woman he wanted.
But Xie Lan usually goes to the restaurant in addition to filming, that is, going back to the dormitory. I rarely get together to chat with everyone, and I don't even have a chance to talk.
However, one day, Xie Lan was watching others acting on the spot and accidentally fell asleep.
It was already quite cold by then.
Seeing Xie Lan asleep, Shi Xiaohong quickly took off his coat and covered her.
Later, Xie Lan recalled: "At that time, I felt hugged by a very warm thing."
Shi Xiaohong's thoughtfulness is far more than that.
Once, Sheran fell ill and rested in his dormitory.
Shi Xiaohong, who heard the news, ran a long way to buy medicine for her and personally sent it to the dormitory.
When it came to the door, Sheran said:
"Just leave the medicine at the door."
In fact, Shi Xiaohong wanted to go in, and as a result, the girls did not let him in.
There was no way, he could only put down the medicine and walk away step by step.
It's really interesting to think about it now.
When Xie Lan saw the medicine at the door, a warm feeling rose in his heart, but he didn't think much about it.
Later, after filming, the two had no contact.
Shi Xiaohong went to Africa and Australia to shoot dramas because she had a drama contract.
For a whole year, he was not in the country.
But coincidentally, people who are related will definitely meet again.
Tough Guy Tears: Confessions After the Adventure
At the end of 2000, the two of them got together again because of the prize.
Everyone celebrated and chatted together to know that they were still single.
In fact, Shi Xiaohong had never let go of Xie Lan, but he still did not dare to confess openly and honestly.
First of all, he thought That Sheran was too beautiful, and secondly, he was so much older than others.
It is precisely because of this concern that he almost caused a lifelong regret.
His friend in Changchun bought a new car in Beijing and wanted him to help drive it back together and stop by Changchun to play.
The friend's driver drove in front, and they were in the back.
When I walked to Beidaihe, the car in front of me suddenly collided with a large truck, but thanks to Shi Xiaohong's sensitive response and timely braking, it did not hit it.
Fortunately, the man was fine, but the car was badly damaged and sent to the garage.
The three of them lived in Beidaihe that night, and drank some wine to suppress the shock.
As he drank, the wine came up, and Shi Xiaohong's eyes were red.
Thinking of the thrilling scene just now, he still had palpitations.
"If I had just left like this, I would never have seen the person I had in my heart again, a lifetime of regret!"
The tough guy Master Xiaohong almost fell in tears.
He couldn't hold back any longer and dialed Sheran's phone, his voice full of tears in excitement:
"I almost died today and will never see you again!" There was a car accident today. ”
Xie Lan asked carefully:
"Are you okay?"
Shi Xiaohong fixed his emotions:
"I'm okay, I drank some wine today. But I especially want to tell you that I will never say anything again... Life is short, you marry me, I must be good to you. ”
"Well, don't answer me, I'm asleep."
This big man who was more than one meter and eight meters was worried at the moment, and hung up the phone before waiting for the other party's answer.
But it's too real! Is it like the uneasy look you had when you confessed to the girl?
After listening to Shi Xiaohong's confession, Xie Lan's heart could not say the taste, and various complicated feelings surged into his heart.
Because of family reasons, Xie Lan has always adhered to the rule of not looking for insiders.
But for Shi Xiaohong, she does have a good feeling, and she feels that Shi Xiaohong's special masters are good people.
Forget it, go to sleep first.
If you wake up the next day and think about it, you can prove your heart.
As a result, the next day she told Shi Xiaohong that she agreed to marry him.
Shi Xiaohong, who successfully proposed marriage, was happy like a child, and the person who had been in love for many years finally had results.
Although he agreed, The concerns in Xie Lan's heart also followed.
"My parents were deaf and mute and couldn't live without me. I also have a younger brother to take care of and I don't plan to have children in the future. ”
Without any hesitation, Shi Xiaohong told her:
"You can rest assured that after marriage, your parents will come and we will take care of them together." As for anything else, I'll respect your opinion."
Xie Lan no longer had any worries, and after telling his parents about this matter, he married Shi Xiaohong.
Because Xie Lan's parents are deaf and mute, Shi Xiaohong deliberately learned sign language in order to communicate with them.
After marriage, the two people are very affectionate, and their careers are also rising.
Shi Xiaohong's "Marrying the Wrong Flower Car to the Lang" and "Black Ice" have received a lot of praise.
He also brought the good man "Yuan Unyielding" in "Marrying the Wrong Flower Palanquin to Lang" to his life.
In order to let his wife have a better development, he took the initiative to quit many roles, willing to be the man behind his wife, mentioning that she took care of her parents.
This man, so reassuring!
Xie Lan devoted himself to his career, and in 2001, after the broadcast of "The Gate of the Big House", Xie Lan quickly became popular and the drama continued.
In 2002, she won the 21st Golden Eagle Gold Award and the Most Popular Actress Award for "Snow White blood red".
Xie Lan's success is inseparable from the dedication and deep love behind Shi Xiaohong.
People fall in love first and then get married, and they are sweeter after marriage.
Although Xie Lan is busy at work, the tough guy Xiaohong plays a romance with his wife, which is called a slip.
A romance from the tough guy's grounding
In an episode of "You See Who's Coming," Sheran shared an incident that happened when they were four or five years old.
Once she came home and there was no one in the house.
Sheran began to work, cooking and packing things.
After a long time, Xie Lan called Shi Xiaohong to ask where he was, but no one answered for a long time.
As a result, at this time, Shi Xiaohong came out of the cabinet, and he walked over to Xie Lan and began to "complain" about her:
"I've been here for half a day, and you haven't found me until now?" Choking me to death. ”
In fact, Shi Xiaohong was already at home, and when he heard Xie Lan open the door, he hid it in the cabinet.
Oh, my God! A fifty-year-old man has such a stupid and cute side.
You can imagine how uncomfortable it would be to hide in a cupboard with a figure like Shi Xiaohong!
Later, recalling this incident, Xie Lan was also crying and laughing:
"How scary! I was alone in the house for so long that I didn't even know there was someone else. ”
Not only that, but this man in the Xie Lan family is still very "virtuous".
One day, Shi Xiaohong came home late and did not go to rest after eating.
Xie Lan thought to himself, why did he go?
As I passed the bathroom, I saw him crouching on the ground with a bunch of Sheran's boots next to him.
He was brushing his shoes hard.
Sheran was amused and said:
"I've got to get a phone to take a picture of you, shoes with you, take a picture."
Shi Xiaohong's shoes were sweating profusely, as if there was still smoke on his head.
This pass "hard work", the result of the next day on the show, Xie Lan did not wear a pair.
Sheran said: "I think this is a kind of romance, a kind of grounded romance. ”
This kind of romance is reassuring and comfortable.
True love doesn't need to be vigorous, it's embodied in everyday bits and pieces.
However, the small things of daily life can also make Shi Xiaohong play with flowers.
Shi Xiaohong once bought a bunch of fresh prickly cucumbers from the old farmer and took them back to give to Xie Lan.
Why send cucumbers? Because it is so fresh, the small yellow flowers on the cucumber are still there, which means "send flowers".
Supporter exclaimed: Is this okay?
"You don't call sending flowers, you call sending cucumbers."
Later, when I asked some questions about personality, it was even more hilarious.
1. Who is in charge of the money at home?
Sheran took a step forward.
2. Who in the family loves to work the most?
Shi Xiaohong took a step forward.
3. Which is the most buckled one?
The two didn't move.
Xie Lan signaled Shi Xiaohong to go forward, and Shi Xiaohong stopped drying:
"I don't knock on the door, why should I go forward?" I am the most generous and best for my family and friends. ”
Speaking of this, everyone knows that the pants worn by Shi Xiaohong are still twenty years ago.
His cuts are all about himself.
4. Who will make overtures after a fight?
The two were motionless again.
The host laughed and said:
"Still romantic? After the quarrel, they did not take the initiative to apologize. ”
Shi Xiaohong explained that he is not a person who is good at expressing himself, but he will apologize with practical actions.
For example, the next day he would rush to work, and he would intentionally or unintentionally touch Xie Lan with his arm.
Such a man is simply too cute.
The mouth is the hardest, the heart is the softest.
Such iron man tenderness, are you moved?
It's useless to be moved! This is someone else's grandfather.
Capable and romantic. Such excellent genes, almost wasted.
Because Xie Lan did not plan to have a child, fortunately she regretted it.
The arrival of the son
That year, Sheran was 38 years old.
Seeing that his friends around him had children, Xie Lan's heart itched.
She had the idea of having a child, and the parents of both families wanted them to have a child.
So Xie Lan said to Shi Xiaohong:
"I regret it, let's have a baby."
Shi Xiaohong was naturally very happy, but at that time, Xie Lan was already an elderly mother and had to actively cultivate her body.
In order to have children, she did not take the role for the first time in 4 years.
A year later, they had a son.
When the child was just born, Shi Xiaohong was too excited to forget Xie Lan, who had just given birth, and went straight to the child.
When asked later if she was angry about her husband's behavior, she said:
"No, because it's human instinct, he's so excited."
Including during Xie Lan's pregnancy, her husband Shi Xiaohong was not around.
Because that year, he had five or six scenes to shoot.
And all this, Xie Lan did not feel anything, all of which she did by herself.
With children, Sheran shifted her focus from career to family.
She said that she had decided to have a child herself, and now looking at this little life, she decided to bring it herself.
But she set herself a small goal of waiting until the child was three years old to go out and shoot.
As a result, when the child reached the age of three, she was reluctant to do so, so she accompanied the child to the age of six.
The six-year-old was already super sensible, and his son said to her:
"Mom, you go to work, I can."
Xie Lan believes that in the process of children's birth to growth, sometimes it is not that children are inseparable from their parents, but that parents are inseparable from their children.
It's an emotional need to be a parent.
In addition to her son, her husband Shi Xiaohong also encouraged Xie Lan to go out and shoot a scene.
Everything in the family has him, and he can do everything well.
One at home, one filming, will inevitably gather less and leave more.
But in their own way, they made this relationship strong and made the family happy all the time.
An enviable way of getting along
For the first twelve years, they spent very little time together. So visiting classes has become a common thing.
As soon as the two return home, they will cook and chat together.
In order to be able to spend more time together, they never go out to socialize.
Xie Lan said that her husband Shi Xiaohong is a man who is very good at cooking and taking care of housework.
When the two are together, most of them are husbands cooking and doing housework.
Despite this, sometimes she felt unsatisfied.
But when I went out to look at it, I saw more people and felt that my husband was really good.
So she told herself: Be content, Sheran.
Needless to say, the entertainment industry, that is, ordinary people can have such love, is also quite lucky.
Shi Xiaohong's relationship with Xie Lan has a sentence that can be described, that is, "I don't envy mandarin ducks and ducks, I don't envy immortals, only envy Xiaohong and Xie Lan." ”
The husband loves and the son understands.
Whether in terms of career or family, Xie Lan is the real winner in life.
Marrying Shi Xiaohong is Xie Lan's best choice!
The tenderness of the iron man, the romance of the iron man.
May you have it too!