#Autumn Life Punch Season#
Take the children out for a walk and eat at night. The child casually took the snacks from home downstairs, attracting children in the same community. At this time, should the child give the snacks to the children, or help the child get the snacks?
It may be that I am more selfish, but I still mainly focus on my own children's ideas.
The food is the child's own, and if he wants to share it, I will encourage the child to share the food. If the child doesn't want to share, I don't force or blame the child, "Why don't you share?" "I'll just say sorry to the other parent.
If two children exchange food, it will not measure whether the food exchanged by the child is equivalent to the adult's price standard. As long as the child is willing, I will not participate. If the child is exchanging junk food that the mother does not want the child to eat, I may find a way to get the child to eat less, such as telling the child that the mother wants to eat too.
In the process of raising children, I found that children have the idea of property rights from an early age. It is his thing, and the child must protect it. What is not his, he takes it in his hand and thinks it is his own, and he must also protect it. This behavior may begin when your baby is a few months old. When I satisfy the child's desire to protect his own things, I do not fight with him for things that are not his, but let him know that the thing is not his, and let the baby take the initiative to let go of the items and return them. Slowly children learn to distinguish, gradually children are less protective of their own things, and then begin to learn to share food, toys, etc.
Therefore, for children's sharing behavior, I mainly respect children's wishes. If you observe your child's recent sharing behavior and want to leave the food that is not easy to buy at home for your child to eat, then when you take your child out, pay attention to the food that your child can share. In this way, when the child meets other children, let the child decide whether to share or not.
Of course, with the child's sharing behavior every time, you can also summarize the impact of "sharing behavior" with the child. For example, if you share food with other children, some children will also share their food with their children. Some children will be willing to play with themselves, and some children will refuse directly if they don't like it, but they also like to play with themselves. Let your child gradually summarize the password for social interaction.