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Bao's mother was secretly filmed by her son, the video became popular unexpectedly, comment area: This is real life

"I've been playing short videos for a long time, and I didn't expect that I would also become popular one day, let alone become popular in this way..."

Waking up early in the morning, a 97-year-old mother had not yet had time to freshen up and dress, and hurriedly dressed the baby unkemptly.

Unexpectedly, the little one took a video of his mother with his mobile phone, and posted it on the Internet, and then this video exploded.

After opening her mobile phone, she found that she had become popular, and the video taken by the child had received more than 70,000 likes, and the number of likes on her previous videos had never exceeded double digits.

This mother was a little confused and a little emotional.

She opened the phone album and found that since giving birth to the baby, almost all of the more than 2,500 photos were recorded in the child's life, or a group photo of the whole family.

The little girl who liked to pick up her mobile phone and take a selfie with a beautiful picture has disappeared without a trace in the album.

Baoma explained in the comment area:

"I'm not sloppy all the time, but the exhaustion after being a mother can't be covered."

Yes, after becoming a mother, no matter how delicate a girl is, she will also be pulled off the altar, give up her own aesthetics, throw away the "idol baggage", and everything revolves around the child.

In the comment area, many netizens also sighed:

"This is what life really looks like!"

"As long as a girl becomes a mother, her youth will be gone."

From a delicate, fashionable beautiful girl to a middle-aged woman who does not care about her appearance, there is only one child in between.

After becoming a mother, the standard of dressing has changed...

"Niangniang" Sun Li once posted a dynamic that poked the hearts of many mothers.

She said:

"I used to buy clothes, how to look good."

"Now when I buy clothes, all I think about is whether I can open my legs and open my hands at any time, in case the child runs away, I can rush up with an arrow, and the clothes can't hang me."

"Can't shed hair, children will be allergic; The fabric must not be too fragile, otherwise it will not resist manufacturing; The collar should not be too low, otherwise it will be pulled with the child, and the neck will be seen directly from the neckline; Don't think about high heels, sneakers are the kind that can put your feet in. ”

After becoming a mother, good looks are no longer the absolute criterion for choosing clothes, and children are always in the first place.

Plain face and do not apply powder, not because they don't care about their appearance, but because they are afraid that their children will eat cosmetics into their mouths;

High heels are replaced with sneakers, not because I don't like fashion, but because I am worried that I will encounter an unexpected situation and will not be able to rush to my child in the first place.

As the saying circulates on the Internet:

"What can make a woman willingly change is not a man, not a marriage, but a child."

Every mom is Superman

At the 2016 Olympic Games in Rio de Janeiro, the mother of a gymnast over 40 was embarrassing.

Her name is Chusovikina.

Originally, she retired as early as 20 years old.

But because he treated his son for leukemia, he almost ruined his family.

At the age of 27, she chose to return to the ring.

This age is already too old for gymnastics.

But this great mom said:

"When I see the child, I'm not afraid of anything."

She only has one thing on her mind, and that is to win the game.

On the field, this woman, who is only 1.53 meters tall, burst out with energy that attracted everyone's attention.

There was even a time when she was seriously injured during a match and ruptured her Achilles tendon, and everyone thought she was retiring and announced her retirement.

But she broke through the limit, got an extra 10 cm long scar on her calf, and returned to the arena.

We often say that "a woman is weak, but a mother is strong", for the sake of children, no matter how delicate a mother is, she can also become hard-working.

Cooking with one hand, taking the baby with the other, as for what to get up early to send the baby to school, tutoring the child's homework, it is even more hand-to-hand.

After becoming a mother, from the outside to the mentality, she has become an omnipotent superman, all for the sake of the children.

The child is the mother's weakness and armor

Mu Xin said:

"Maternal love is a kind of selfless selfishness."

Mothers love their children, in addition to their nature hidden in their blood, but also because they are satisfied in the process of loving and caring for their children, and they are full of strength because of their children.

Children are both weaknesses and armor.

I remember reporting this news before:

In the ice and snow, the mother was wearing a shawl and bare feet, carrying her child to the hospital.

It turned out that her child's high fever did not subside, and because the snow hindered traffic, she had to pick up the child and rush to the hospital in an emergency.

In this regard, some netizens questioned:

"How much time does it take to wear a pair of shoes? Is it necessary to put on such a show? ”

But all mothers should know that when their children have a high fever and convulsions, how can they care about wearing shoes?

The only belief is to save the child in danger and do everything possible to get to the hospital as soon as possible.

Mothers can do their best for their children and protect their lives with their lives, which is the most selfless "selfishness" and the greatest and most selfless love.

Epilogue:

With children, the life of the old mother is indeed devastated, and sometimes she does miss her youth a little.

But at the same time, because of the encounter with the child, we also unknowingly met a better self and had a better life.

This state of mutual achievement and mutual growth is extremely satisfying.

Today's topic: What changes do you think your life has brought after the birth of your child?

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