In the interpretation of episode 23 of "Nine Bends of Love".
Through the interpretation of "abiding by the way of women" and "the thoughts of wife and wealth, brotherly love", the author expounds some deeper views and understandings of this "period drama".
Although in the end, I made the speculation that Poplar Shumao might be "blackened".
But I didn't expect such a guess to come so violently and quickly.
It is not even just the "blackening" of Yang Shumao as an individual, but a collective "blackening".
Yang Shumao "lost" Ye Fei for the first time
Remember the scene when Ye Fei left Yang Shumao for the first time?
Under the pressure of Yang's mother to die, Yang Shumao said to Ye Fei on the phone, "Ye Fei, let's blow it, I can't be an unfilial son."
After that, Yang Shumao, as if the world had evaporated, completely disappeared from Ye Fei's life.
This disappearance seems to be a kind of letting go and fulfillment of Ye Fei's love for Yang Shumao, but it is actually not so simple and superficial.
In this showdown, whether Yang Shumao is actively or passively sided.
Ye Fei seems to be a weak person and a bully, but among the many sayings that have been passed down for thousands of years, there is such a sentence that can be used to describe almost all "weak people".
"There will be something to hate for the wretched."
Yes, even Ye Fei, the most pitiful in the entire "Nine Bends of Love", even if Ye Fei looks harmless to humans and animals, he can see the "ruthless" elements from her words and deeds.
When such a change occurred, when Yang Shumao was firmly held in his mother's hands.
Ye Fei chose to wait, and once did not have the initiative to wait.
Since you Yang Shumao informed me by phone to "blow it", then I will only wait for the impossible change of mind in front of the phone.
Therefore, Ye Fei, who was weak on the outside and strong on the inside, chose to go to the northwest for the first time and became a single mother under the name of Xue Heyang.
Yang Shumao "lost" Ye Fei for the second time
Perhaps, as the old saying goes, time is the ultimate weapon that everyone and everything fears most.
When everyone thought that Ye Fei's story was over, it was only because of a chance encounter between Yang Shumao and Hongyan, and only because of Yang Shumao's sentence "I can't forget Ye Fei".
Ye Fei, who let the children run all over the ground, packed her bags and returned to this small courtyard that carried her happiness and pain.
So, Yang Shumao and Ye Fei once again started a happy life where nothing seemed to have happened.
But who would have thought that Chen Yuying, an outsider, would actually reveal some rumors to Zhao Yajing that should have been rumors.
Such a conversation made Zhao Yajing, who thought she would no longer have a play, rekindled her fighting spirit to pursue Yang Shumao.
She started the "Rumors" and "Rumors" action of "rather tear down a marriage than tear down a temple".
And as a man who constantly failed Ye Fei, Yang Shumao actually believed the words of Zhao Yajing and He Xueyang.
So, Yang Shumao and Ye Fei once again opened the silent moment of mutual phone calls.
And at such a delicate moment, whether it is the landline that is there at any time, or the big brother who should be carrying it anytime and anywhere, they have lost their original role.
In that era when letter writing and interviewing were still prevalent, Yang Shumao and Ye Fei were actually separated by thousands of mountains and rivers and heard nothing from each other because of the existence of telephones.
Perhaps such a scene, even in today's era of smartphones, is not uncommon.
All these "pots" should be carried by phone
After learning that Yang Shumao abandoned himself and accompanied Zhao Yajing to the south.
Ye Fei was completely desperate when he couldn't get through to Yang Shumao's phone several times.
So she chose not to be herself the first time she was "abandoned", and he chose to give up the child in her belly.
She wants to say a thorough and clean goodbye to Yang Shumao and the Yang family.
Because Ye Fei is a woman who "pursues a perfect marriage", she can endure evil mother-in-law but can't bear cheating on her husband.
In the end, Yang Shuzang and Ye Fei ended this painful love run in a saber rattling conversation.
These two people did not mention the root cause of the current situation at all, and only blindly blamed each other's mistakes and wrongs.
When Yang Shumao saw with Ye Fei's own eyes, his intimate behavior with Zhao Yajing.
blurted out the most hurtful and unacceptable sentence for Ye Fei: "You are not a clean blank piece of paper."
(This article is an original article of "Hua Yuhan", and the non-"Hua Yuhan" account is all plagiarism and handling!) ）
At this point, Ye Fei's heart was completely cold.
At this point, Yang Shumao's heart was completely ruthless.
Ye Fei raised Ye Yang's child for the Yang family alone without anyone knowing it.
Is this Ye Fei too "miserable"? Or is Poplar Mao too "ruthless"?
Is this Mother Yang too "bad"? Or is Zhao Yajing too "annoying"?
Maybe neither, or maybe both, but what is the root cause? Why did it come to this end?
Is it a lack of "trust"? Or is it too "calculating"?
Since the start of "Nine Bends of Love", 25 episodes have passed (this article does not cover the plot of episode 26).
Whether it is the innocent first love between Yang Shumao and Shi Xiaojing at the beginning, or the deep-rooted friendship between Xie Zhiqiang and Yang Shumao.
It is not just the most basic "trust" between people that can be explained and interpreted clearly.
What's more, under the continuous development of the plot, when everyone is growing and maturing.
The word "trust" seems to represent more of an ideal and standard.
However, "calculation" slowly erodes everyone's heart in those undetectable processes, and replaces the status of "trust" in people's hearts.
Whether it is Mother Yang's seemingly good way of disciplining her children, or Father Yang's seemingly respectful wife.
Whether it is the wandering attitude of the Shi family's parents who seem to respect and understand Shi Xiaona, or Zhao Yajing's mother's seemingly enveloping relationship of frequently entering the Yang family's door for her daughter.
Even Uncle Xu, who did not ask for anything, was because he saw through Yang Shumao's personality and future, so he looked at this honest child differently and repeatedly helped.
Even Xie Zhiqiang, who seems to have no desire and no desire, although he has not pitted his good brother in terms of real money, he also understands that as long as he is worthy of Yang Shumao, he will be carefree and happy.
Even Shi Xiaona and Zhao Yajing, who are as affectionate as Yang Shumao, will weigh the pros and cons from a rational perspective at a critical moment when their lives are at stake.
Even Ye Fei, who has never been sorry for Yang Shumao, will not completely spread his heart in front of Yang Shumao when facing Yang Shumao and his family.
Written at the end:
So much "even if" and "won't" does not mean that "calculation" is inferior to "trust".
For most people, proper "calculation" is a desperate means of protecting themselves.
"Trust" has a bottom line, and "calculation" also has a bottom line.
When "trust" exceeds what is acceptable to the average person, "calculation" will inevitably follow.
It's not a deliberate thought, it's just an instinctive or natural human response.
It is a natural form of self-preservation, an instinct to escape danger.
As Yang Shumao heard from many aspects, Ye Fei was not as simple and pure as he imagined.
Under the pressure of his extreme "trust" in Ye Fei, he hesitated and he retreated.
He began to "calculate" his relationship with Ye Fei and hoped to get a result or answer that would satisfy him.
After continuous "calculations", Yang Shumao made the decision to temporarily snub Ye Fei.
It is also because of this "calculation" that it has finally caused everyone to regret and suffer.
Just as Ye Fei saw with his own eyes Yang Shumao, who did not answer his phone, after hugging his love rival Zhao Yajing on the street.
She had unprecedented suspicion and distrust of this man she had given everything for.
So she began the "calculation" of being a woman, a "calculation" of the woman who suffered the most and the most in the whole story.
It is precisely because of such a character and image that people are full of sympathy for her, forgetting that because of her "calculation", they have caused great harm to themselves.
"Trust" is a positive energy, and "calculation" is a negative energy.
This is originally two opposing terms, and in many people's lives, they actually complement each other.
Just like the men and women, young and old, in "Nine Bends of Love".
Everyone wants others to have more "trust" in themselves, but they unknowingly have more "calculations" for others.
Whether this "calculation" is intentional or unintentional, it will cost people exponentially.
The above is my understanding and perception of the 25th episode of "Nine Bends of Love", more wonderful analysis, let's see you next time!
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