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Hello everyone, I'm Sister A, a single female editor.
I was assigned to write today's Valentine's Day theme tweet, and if you still have a shred of sympathy for me, please read it.
Today's content comes from 11 people who "picked up love" or "were assigned" in the new world, 2 of whom are married.
I want to write, on what basis did they get love? (This is also a question from my own soul)
It's like this, a while ago, our editorial office received a red envelope and happy news from a reader @ Tan Junping:
That's right, she got married, and the groom met when Shinsei attended a 48-hour CP event.
(If you don't already know "48 Hours CP", which is our online dating internship program, registration opens every other Tuesday.) A group, 48 hours, a few small tasks to help you meet someone. After 48 hours, the group disbands and you can choose to disappear from each other's worlds or take a step forward. Since its launch in 2017, it has been carried out to the 228th issue, with a total of more than one million pairs of CPs. ）
If you are in a hurry to get the object, you can slide directly to the end of the article. I have already signed up.
But this is not my first time signing up - the first two times I failed to match, and my colleagues said that I had no fate.
Why can't I find the object? Those who can meet fate and turn it into love, what is different from me?
So I specially visited these readers who were successfully matched in the 48-hour CP and finally became dependents.
To be honest, it's pretty sweet. Depend on.
I also probably understood why fate always passed me - although I took the initiative to sign up, but... My heart may not really open yet.
I'll try again this time. Come on guys too.
How did love fall from the sky?
Author: Users of 48 Hours CP
I want to find someone to talk to. I met a sad thing, I have few friends, my parents don't want to talk about it, on the contrary, strangers are easier to talk to.
In the advertising and marketing industry, I was curious about how to play the activities of Xinshixiang, so I came to participate.
It's kind of like looking at a case for work.
Didn't think about participating. But accidentally clicking on the registration page of the 48-hour CP, some of the options in it made me curious about this event.
- There is a same-sex option?
Come in for fun. I was in '01, the family is not in a hurry, and I am even less in a hurry. But I thought I might be able to make friends.
I'm here to find a partner.
I think people who like to watch the same public account will have a common language.
The result is too much of a common language.
——The three views are completely the same, everything can be talked about, even the personality is very similar ... People can't have a heart-warming feeling about "themselves", and the two of us directly become "old friends", which did not succeed.
But the "old friend" said: to introduce him to a friend, saying that we are absolutely suitable.
Then my boyfriend came out.
The more you talk to your match, the more you feel that something is wrong.
It turned out that it was a girl from the same bar exam training class 5 years ago, when they prepared for the exam together, discussed problems together, and then passed together.
She was married at the time. Then match when she is single.
By the way, your public account is still recommended by me to pay attention to back then.
I participated in an event and didn't find a suitable one. Later, I ate melons in the activity group (everyone who participated in the same matching session was in the same group): there was a boy who couldn't chase girls, and asked his friends for help.
At that time, all the "red lady" in the group was on the upper body, enthusiastically teaching him how to do what he liked, how to give girls gifts... But in the end, he didn't catch the girl.
At the time, I thought this boy was stupid in love, but he worked so hard.
After almost half a year, suddenly I was matched with this person.
My boyfriend said that two days after we were matched, one night I was "crazy" in the activity group, Aite him, calling him his wife.
At that time, he thought I was silly and cute. This was the turning point in his attitude towards me.
——Actually, at that time, I thought he had a good voice and wanted to "harass" him. Plan to √
Originally, when a friend chatted, the more we chatted, the more happy we were, but he suddenly didn't reply to the message, and then simply blocked me.
Because he felt that it was impossible for us to be in a different place.
I didn't accept the ambiguous end and took the initiative to call: Let's meet, I'll go to his city.
He was immediately impressed -
A girl who dared to take the initiative so much after being blocked, then try it.
I'm in Hebei and she's in Hainan. She was admitted to graduate school, and I flew for more than 4 hours to accompany the exam.
After the exam, we went to the beach together and watched the sunset.
After chatting for a while, I felt that each other's personalities were very different and became a stranger on the list.
Suddenly, one day, the matching object posted a circle of friends, saying that his roommate cooked deliciously, IKEA.
In that photo, the dilapidated small kitchen of a shared house, a rather thin back, quite gentle.
Wow, it's a heartwarming feeling.
Resolutely went to the match and asked for the contact information of his roommate.
Once I wanted to buy him bouquets, and yes, I was the girl who would buy flowers for my boyfriend. But he felt that it was a waste of money, and we had a bad communication for a while, and we quarreled.
Then it turns out that he likes to run away from problems. So I told him seriously several times that the cold war was not allowed after the quarrel. Now you know how to communicate with me well, it's good.
When I first came into contact, I didn't think we were suitable. My society is afraid of cows, other society cattle, personality and life experience are too different. I didn't want to continue, and even blacked him out twice.
But he insisted -
On two dates, he invited me to dinner, bought gifts, and didn't charge me to transfer AA, so I had to buy him clothes from the Internet. But when the clothes arrived, he was ugly and asked me to return them.
I deleted all his contact information, and he found me on Taobao.
After regaining contact, I found that he was very good at taking care of people, and his mood was very stable, and he could always calm me like a grumpy kitten. Now we are engaged.
Once unable to accept a different place, I chased after the person who asked him to release me from the blacklist, and then we got married for me to come to my city.
Now I'm rotten on the couch and he's washing me strawberries in the kitchen.
I recommend my favorite Japanese drama, "Bouquet of Love", to him.
So when we met for dinner for the third time, he confessed to me with the lines inside: "It is said that if you have eaten three meals together and have not confessed, you will become ordinary friends." ”
Now of course not ordinary friends.
The first time we appeared, we sat down and looked at the menu, and then she suddenly said to me, it's over, what should I do?
——The person sitting at the next table happened to be her friend. We were both arrested.
For the rest of the meal, her friend kept smiling at her. And I cooked in silence alone.
Finally, I said casually: Do you think I am too good to eat?
She said: No, eat more, fat and cute.
At that moment, I felt like her so much.
One day I came home after work, cooked and ate step by step, and after eating, he washed the dishes and I took a shower. When I was taking a shower, he urged outside:
"Po, why have you been rubbing mud for so long?"
Wait for me to go out around the bath towel: huh? Is it dark? Well? Where did the candles come from? Well? No way?????
I didn't even know if I should cover my mouth or cover the towel with my hand.
He proposed to me.
A special story:
I interviewed my senior, a former employee of Shinsei Xiang, the product leader of 48-hour CP, and the "senior moon elder" Zeo.
After the event went live in 2017, he used a matching algorithm he designed to match himself with a girlfriend.
Now they are married.
I specially asked him to tell his story, and give you some advice if you want to "get rid of the list" -
How did Zeo's love happen?
@ Zeo: "My story is dramatic. When the 48-hour CP was first launched, I participated in the first three phases of the event, in order to experience the logical flow of the event.
I experienced the first two issues, and when I matched my wife in the third issue, I was too lazy to speak.
Unexpectedly, my wife was also in the new media industry and knew my boss at the time. She went directly to my boss and complained that I ignored her.
The boss came to me and said why are you ignoring people.
So what can I do, I can only go and talk to her very honestly.
Just talk like this, a lifetime of ride. ”
48-hour CP users recalled the whole process of love, saying: "Fate is really wonderful. ”
I also asked Zeo: How do you find fate?
@ Zeo: "The big premise of fate is that 'the pool should be big'. Many young children are less receptive to meeting friends online and then developing an intimate relationship.
However, in fact, only if you have a stable and large number of channels and scenes to know strangers, can you talk about fate.
It is necessary to dare to expand the circle and take the initiative to extend its tentacles.
But don't slag, stay sincere.
When going to contact, put down the guard and shell moderately.
For example, when I was 'forced' to start a chat with my wife, I honestly admitted:
Sorry, I just went to play the game and ignored you. ”
Final words:
To be honest, after talking with these friends, I felt more and more that we have been running the 48-hour CP event, which is particularly worthwhile.
In the past 6 years, it has allowed more than 2 million strangers to connect, become a 48-hour CP, become friends, lovers, couples, and become a short or long fate.
Whatever the outcome, the event itself is wonderful.
Now, the latest Valentine's Day CP event is online again. Click here →https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/4AhhX0IRFH1bfRZW3MGHiQ you can sign up today.
But remember: the extent to which its power depends on you.
After fate is involved, you have to operate, persevere, and endure many tests to embrace the right person.
Maybe you still don't like the online dating model, and that's okay.
It's just that if one day you start to desire love, remember to be brave and sincere.
Open that door of your own, and love will burst in one day.
Written by: Sister A
"Meeting the right person is fate
I have to admit
Girls should still be measured
You're going to target the people you want
No more passively waiting
Send people who are truly yours"
——《say u love me》