34-year-old husband cheats on an older divorced woman, 25-year-old wife asks for advice, mother-in-law: son is very good (2)
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In the face of Chao Wei's silence, Deng Ying once suspected that he had become unattractive because he had given birth to two sons.
It was also after discovering that her husband was cheating, Deng Ying began to investigate her husband's cheating object Liu Xin.
Liu Xin is not only four years older than Chao Wei, but also a full round older than Deng Ying, and she has had a failed marriage.
During the investigation, according to Deng Ying's friends, Liu Xin had a lot of surgery on his face. The cost of the operation alone is nearly 200,000 yuan, but maybe this is the money spent. Liu Xin didn't look like a middle-aged woman in her nearly 40s. Instead, she looked younger than Deng Ying
Chao Wei did not make a sound, but Deng Ying decided to confront Liu Xin.
However, after waiting at the door of Liu Xin's house for more than half an hour, the mother-in-law who had been following her daughter-in-law suddenly pulled the reporter aside and whispered. The marriage of the son and Deng Ying has come to the current situation. As a mother-in-law, she did not do anything to apologize to Deng Ying, only Deng Ying was sorry for herself. In addition, the mother-in-law believes that the biggest reason for the son's marriage to this step is from the daughter-in-law. However, the reporter said that it is precisely because of his son Chao Wei's cheating that the marriage has come to the present. However, the mother-in-law said that her son did not cheat. The mother-in-law said, "To catch a thief is dirty, and to catch a thief is to be on the bed." I also watched the video. My son and the woman were both dressed, and my son was a very good person. I'm sure he wouldn't do such a thing."
The mother-in-law said that her son was very good since he was a child, and now that his career is successful, she will not believe that his son will betray his family.
After that, the mother-in-law quietly told the reporter, "It was my daughter-in-law who pestered my son at the beginning, and finally got together." At that time, many people pursued my son, but after getting married, my daughter-in-law put too much pressure on my son. ”
The mother-in-law said that in her son's marriage to Deng Ying, Deng Ying had to find her own responsibility, not just blame her son.
The mother-in-law also complained to reporters. She said her son had a fight with her daughter-in-law. As a result, her daughter-in-law told the family. As a result, the mother-in-law called herself in the middle of the night and asked what had happened.
The mother-in-law believes that Deng Ying's performance in the marriage has put a lot of pressure on the son, so this is the main reason for the breakdown of the marriage.
In Chaowei's mother-in-law, chaowei's evaluation of Chaowei is also very poor. The mother-in-law said that although Chao Wei had a decent job, she could not say anything when she married her daughter. After five years of marriage, her mother-in-law also summed up the "five noes" for Chao Wei, no face, no skin, no heart, no lungs, irresponsible, irresponsible.
Deng Ying revealed that she and her husband have been married for five years, and she loves him and the family very much, but now she does not know whether her husband Chao Wei loves herself.
In addition, Deng Ying also revealed that she once saw a message sent by her husband to a friend on her mobile phone, which actually showed that she was angry with her ex-girlfriend when she married Deng Ying.
After reading this information, Deng Ying was hit hard. She thought that she and her husband had formed a family because of true love and had the crystallization of love. However, it was never thought that it was just a substitute.
So after seeing this text message, Deng Ying and her husband talked all night long, but most of them were Deng Ying questioning the reason for her husband's texting, and Chao Wei mostly responded with silence.
This knot was buried in Deng Ying's heart for many years, but for the sake of her children and relatives, she chose to be patient.
Only this time, Deng Ying couldn't stand it.
After the reporter left the room, Chao Wei finally spoke.
He said that he did not use Deng Ying as a substitute, and he had also loved Deng Ying deeply, but he did not love her since Deng Ying found out that he had cheated on her.
As for the reason for the affair, Chao Wei said: "There was pressure, but I was not with that woman"
Chao Wei said that he and he did not have much contradiction, but he could not achieve the life expected of the Tang family. He felt more and more pressure and could not find someone to talk to, so "silence" became his protective umbrella.
I just didn't expect the crisis to break out in silence.
The reporter also found Chao Wei, and then found Chao Wei to understand it alone.
Chao Wei said that since getting married, he has worked hard and later became a doctor and took up administrative positions. However, her wife is very strong in life. She spoke loudly and was not gentle. Gradually, there were fewer and fewer conversations between Chao Wei and his wife, and finally, it was basically replaced by silence.
Later, the career rose steadily, but the chores became more and more numerous. In addition, the family of his two sons requires him to pay a lot of fees, but when he tries to communicate with his wife, he is often unable to express his feelings. As time went on, Chao Wei became more and more silent in life.
So his desire to talk about failed to resist the temptation of the outside world, and this four-year-old Sister Chao Wei made Chao Wei feel that life could be relaxed and stress-free, and it was comfortable to communicate with her. Gradually, Chao Wei began to take the sister around often.
In the exchange with reporters, Chao Wei also discovered his own faults in the marriage. Plus, he didn't want his family to break up. He hoped that Deng Ying would forgive him.
Later, under the coordination of reporters, the two families sat together to mediate the marriage of the two juniors.
Chao Wei said that she did not do enough in marriage, she is willing to go in a better direction, and she is not willing to divorce for the sake of her children.
However, throughout the mediation process, Chao Wei remained silent in principle, neither acknowledging nor denying what Deng Ying was most concerned about.
In the face of the attitude, Deng has withstood a long test, for the sake of the child, she also wants to continue to maintain. But now her heart is no longer together, so she can no longer maintain the marriage. In the end, the two ended in divorce.
Chao Wei revises the divorce agreement again and again, but this still does not reflect his responsibilities as a husband and father. Deng Ying said she would negotiate with Chao Wei again.
In many divorce cases, a big reason is the lack of communication between husband and wife. From the passion of love to the blandness of marriage, from love to affection to final numbness between husband and wife.
