At the age of 46, Yuan Li tasted being a thief for the first time.
What she was going to steal was a dog, a very stable and elegant Welsh Licorky.
Yuan Li loved this dog very much, and once said that it looked like a beautiful man.
Therefore, when he and his boyfriend were on the verge of breaking up, Yuan Li looked at the dog and was still unwilling to be separated from it.
Her heart beat like a drum, she took the dog's leash and lowered her head.
Taking advantage of the fact that the ex-boyfriend was not at home, he took the dog out of the door with him.
The ex-boyfriend checked the surveillance to find the real murderer, and constantly chased her, so that she also paid 26,000 yuan to buy a dog.
A few years later, Yuan Li faced this matter and only sent three words: fake news.
Yuan Li's love for pets seems to outweigh her love for her lover.
Flowing lover and husband, flooding her life.
One
Yuan Li was born in Hangzhou in 1972.
Since she was a child, she has grown very sweetly and has a pair of bright eyes.
When Yuan Li was five years old, her father carried her out to play, and she met an aunt outside.
Auntie jokingly asked her: Looking so beautiful, do you want to be on TV?
The speaker has no intention, the listener has a heart, and Yuan Li's heart has planted a seed of desire to film.
She blinked her eyes and asked her aunt: How can I get on TV?
The aunt was amused by her earnestness, and chatted with her father for a while before the two left without hesitation.
After Yuan Li returned home, he went to watch TV again, saw the people singing and dancing in the TV box, and watched it several times over and over again.
She found her notebook and wrote down a grand goal in one stroke:
When you grow up, you must become an actor.
At the age of 19, Yuan Li was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
Her second interview was prepared for a poetry recitation.
She confidently recited verses about the spring rain,
Peeking at the prospective examiner,
But her heart was inexplicably a little panicked:
The examiner watched her performance, expressionless, not even the corners of her mouth moved, and gave her a smile.
Yuan Li suddenly had some lack of confidence.
In the second half of the poem, she sleepwalked and read it.
When this poem was finished, Yuan Li stepped down from the stage, and he just wanted to cry bitterly and happily.
On the day when the release notice was issued,
Yuan Li did not have the courage to look at the list of admissions,
She wanted to entrust her father to help her see,
father
But the relative told her that this was her own memory of life, and some roads had to be walked by herself.
Yuan Li beat the drum in her heart, her breathing was stagnant, and she was under tremendous pressure.
After going through the list of lists, I looked at the bottom from the beginning,
Her heart is getting colder and colder: the drama really shuts her out, and there is no trace of affection to speak of.
Fortunately, after the exam of the play, there is also the middle play,
Yuan Li adjusted his mentality, turned his head and plunged into the examination room of the Chinese opera.
This time, Yuan Li's play was no longer hindered, and finally fought a beautiful battle and successfully entered the Campus of Chinese Opera.
It was also after this that the young Yuan Li left such an impression in his heart.
Some roads must be walked alone; some things must be resisted and fought by themselves.
Two
In 1993, Yuan Li was 21 years old, and she accepted an invitation from another girl in the Chinese opera, who told her that there was a dinner party recently, can you come?
Yuan Li is eager to try, which is undoubtedly an opportunity to quickly gain contacts and accumulate resources.
So, she carefully dressed up, from a simple girl to a beautiful girl, with eyebrows, red lips and heavy makeup, and changed into a dress she had carefully selected and bought in Wangfujing.
At that time, Yuan Li did not have the concept of fashion, and a long dinner dress studded with beads was a decent symbol of entering high society in her eyes.
As everyone knows, after entering the dinner, she found that her clothes did not stand out from the crowd, but appeared to be a little out of place, too strong, and the beads were too vulgar to set off her temperament.
Yuan Li's eyes couldn't help but dim down, and at the dinner table, she had been standing at the edge of the crowd with a wine glass, trying to isolate herself from the crowd and try to hide.
The feeling of powerlessness and pain that was not confident when she was admitted to the audition at the age of nineteen once again swept through her.
But unexpectedly, it was such an inferior appearance, but it was looked at by another man.
Even in the center of the banquet, even if he was sought after by countless people, he stood in the crowd, but his eyes were focused on the woman in the outer circle.
At that time, the man was thirty-three years old, the "wolf of Wall Street", and there were many legends about him in the rivers and lakes.
He made his fortune in his youth, talking and laughing about finance, wealth and family business across China and the United States.
This time he returned to China and received the treatment of the stars and the moon, and at the liquor bureau, he wore a straight suit and dress, and the style was flourishing.
However, he walked out of the crowd, walked to Yuan Li, and graciously invited her to dance, he held out his hand, gracefully and gentlemanly bowed to her slightly: "My name is Xu Wei, may I ask you your surname?" ”
Yuan Li was flattered, self-signed, took his hand and walked into the dance floor together, the two danced under the laser light of the dance floor, after a dance, Yuan Li was completely impressed by this funny and humorous and gentlemanly man.
At this time, Yuan Li was only in his sophomore year, usually on weekends there was a luxury car to pick her up and go out on a date, Xu Wei was very fond of her, and sent her a handmade silk dress, from the skirt body can smell the atmosphere of high society, no longer like when Yuan Li was on the street, spent a month of living expenses, bought the kind of skirt.
Xu Wei not only gave her some small gifts to please her, he really planned to live with Yuan Li for a lifetime, so he valued Yuan Li's future very much.
With the help of Xu Wei, Yuan Li had the opportunity to successfully board the screen and entered the crew "Flying Tigers".
Most rich people are very possessive, want their lovers to be caged birds, and lock their wings with flashy fame and fortune, but Xu Wei himself has worked Wall Street, and he has adopted a conniving attitude towards his lover's professionalism.
But he did not understand: there is a kind of woman's ambition is difficult to satisfy, she has been growing upwards, but on her way to progress, Xu Wei's existence began to become insignificant.
When she was just in her sophomore year, Yuan Li was still ignorant and naïve, and she had never seen the big world, and Xu Wei's existence suddenly surprised her years.
But as the years passed, he was now, in her eyes, just an ordinary old man twelve years older than her.
In the time of the dragon, it kept growing up, and then looking back, I found that the grave grass of love had been swept high.
In 1999, Xu Wei decided to show her a showdown, decided to ask her inside, asked her what she was thinking, why did she keep dragging on not getting married?
He deliberately took her to an upscale restaurant and personally ordered her a truffle that she loved, as well as a glass of red wine.
However, in the atmosphere brewed in the Western restaurant, Xu Wei cautiously opened her mouth and asked her about her future marriage plans.
Yuan Li was stunned, or said that he hoped to get married again when he was thirty years old.
Just such a sentence made Xu Wei's eyes light up again in an instant: three years, waiting for his little girlfriend who was like a flower to change his mind, then, he could really wait.
However, in the past three years, things have changed.
In 2004, Yuan Li filmed a new work, "Being a Woman", and Xu Wei found that Yuan Li gradually lost contact with himself.
Soon after, the newspaper reported that there was an ambiguous relationship between Yuan Li and the director.
He was a little uneasy and panicked in his heart, and specifically picked up this newspaper to find the crew, and looked for Yuan Li in person to ask for clarification.
Yuan Li didn't think so, and comforted him: It doesn't matter, don't you remember when you filmed "Iron Tooth Copper Tooth Ji Xiaolan" before? The media listened to the wind and rain, Zhang Guoguo's lover came to visit the class, and they also said that she had come to slap me.
Xu Wei finally relaxed his heart under her comfort, and he secretly thought that all this might really be like her
What has been said is just media hearsay.
But the scandal intensified, and Xu Wei even saw a photo of Yuan Lihe and the director in the newspaper.
Xu Wei finally understood, it turned out that he had not been concerned by her.
Twelve years is enough for a person to see the truth of the heavy life, even if he was once a child who did not understand the world, twelve years of time is enough to grow into a tall teenager.
In twelve years, Xu Wei has clearly seen Yuan Li's desires, ambitions, flowers and greed, and in Yuan Li's heart, he is just a vulgar middle-aged man who is jealous of his girlfriend and flirting with other men.
Three
Who would have thought that The marriage threshold that Xu Wei had not touched for twelve years had only taken three months.
While filming the TV series "The Colonel's Daughter", Yuan Li met a handsome-looking man, Zhao Ling.
Xu Wei himself is not handsome, but the manners and temperament of those who are in power in the financial circle have put a filter on him.
And Zhao Ling's handsomeness is emitted from the inside out, from the surface and inside, he grows a face like the male protagonist of Qiong Yao's novel, tall and handsome.
Moreover, he also has a charming voice, has voiced many radio drama works, and has won the "Five One Project Award".
When Yuan Li met Zhao Ling, Zhao Ling was not as famous as her, and was a small actor with no name.
However, this is only because he entered the industry much later than Yuan Li.
Before changing careers in 2004, Zhao Ling had been a literary and artistic soldier in the General Political Repertory Theatre, and he even received a third-class meritorious commendation for his outstanding performance in the flood rescue in 1998.
Therefore, it is not surprising that Yuan Li will fall in love with him, nor is it a cliché story of a "big star favoring a soft rice man".
It can only be said that Yuan Li is superficial, loves money when he is young, loves sex in middle age, is often accompanied by rich businessmen when he is young, people are over thirty, and after gradually enjoying enough glitz and fame, he began to like handsome men with a manly taste, and the manly taste emitted by Zhao Ling attracted her.
In 2007, the two fell in love for three months, and lightning generally entered the marriage hall, but at the end of that year, Yuan Li suddenly proposed a divorce.
Zhao Ling thought about it, still angry, and tore Yuan Li on social media, saying that "if you don't apologize, you won't divorce."
With the strong intervention of the court, the marriage was divorced, and the spectators also watched a farce, and there was a roar.
Later, when Zhao Ling was recording a musical, he met an editor from the Central Radio, Yang Yang, Yang Yang was like a spring breeze, blowing into his heart, making him realize that there are obviously so many choices in marriage, in addition to the strong big woman, there are gentle little women.
This time, Zhao Ling grabbed Yang Yang's hand and did not let go, the two worked hand in hand for many years of wind and rain, and now Zhao Ling appeared in front of the world, still elegant.
In 2011, Yuan Li once again put on a white wedding dress, held a bouquet of flowers, and walked into the marriage hall with a tall, handsome foreign man.
After marriage, the foreign man Lin Bowen guarded her like a knight and took her back to his hometown.
However, Lin Bowen's hometown is in Canada, where there is a large area of uninhabited forest, sparsely populated, sometimes walking two or three miles, and not seeing a single person.
Yuan Li is a woman who needs to constantly fill her vanity, she can't learn to be free at all, and she doesn't want to live this kind of independent life, she is born with a high profile, and here she is lonely like a bear without a companion in the dense forest.
Yuan Li chose to divorce and returned to China, and although Lin Bowen was very sad, he still decided to respect her decision.
After three failed relationships, Yuan Li still had no intention of stopping looking for love in the red dust.
And after experiencing so many things, her mate selection orientation is constantly changing, she has loved rich people, handsome men, foreigners, and this time she decided to love a talentless and faceless poet.
In 2019, 47-year-old Yuan Li finally came together with this man named Liang Taiping.
The man was eleven years younger than she was, looked older than she was, had a plain face, wore black-rimmed glasses, and was slightly hunched over.
After getting married, Yuan Li lived with him in a dilapidated residential building, where the voice-activated lights often broke, and it became dark all around at night, far from the bustling city center.
The furnishings in the house are also very simple, and the only furniture that can be seen is a large bookcase full of books.
People can't help but think of Su Mingyu's question when su Daqiang asked: What does she want you to do? Figure how old are you? Figure you don't take a bath?
But Yuan Li does not care, Yuan Li, who has been picking men all his life, seems to be like a dream waking up: he has loved so many times before, he has lost, and he must not repeat the same mistakes and love a man of the same type as his previous lover.
Yuan Li first met Xu Wei in 1993, and now in 2022, a full twenty-nine years have passed.
In the past twenty-nine years, the lives of both of them have ushered in many changes, Yuan Li and Liang Taiping, guarding a broken house, taking money to fund their lovers to publish poetry collections, going to the side of the road to drink coffee and hang out.
Yuan Li does not mind her man eating soft rice, but also knows that she has more money than her husband, she talked about it when she was on the show, "My investment channels are very diversified", when the host asked her whether she had income for public welfare, or could only eat the old money.
She replied frankly: there is no income, but she has been selling her things for a lot of money.
Xu Wei married olympic champion Zhang Yining, they married the most luxurious wedding in Beijing's most luxurious hotel, many national team friends of the General Administration of Sports came to celebrate, they have two children, good things come in pairs.
In 2021, Zhang Yining celebrated her 40th birthday, hugged her young son at the birthday party, smiled brightly, like a flower, and was spoiled by her husband into a millionaire in the mansion with a sports room.
The man who had fallen in love with Yuan Li seemed to be hurt very badly, and in the end, under the intolerable situation, the marriage ended in a mess.
However, the men who have fallen in love with Yuan Li also have a similar characteristic: after leaving Yuan Li, they have all found a better woman, accompanied by a lifetime, and loved for a lifetime.
Possibly, some waves are destined to belong only to the sea, not to meandering rivers.