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One night in 1993, at a social gathering, Xu Wei met Yuan Li, who was 11 years younger than him. It was love at first sight, and he seemed to be madly infatuated with this young girl, and began a passionate love that transcended ages.
Although there is a huge age difference between the two, Xu Wei wholeheartedly supports Yuan Li to pursue his acting dream. On the material level, he did not hesitate to pave the way for Yuan Li, as long as it was any request she made, he would do his best to meet it; At the spiritual level, Xu Wei is always warm by her side, surrounding her with all her love.
In this way, with Xu Wei's funding and care, Yuan Li paved the red brocade and green all the way. She has starred in the martial arts film "Flying Tigers" directed by Wang Jixing, a soldier and the urban drama "Very Love" produced by Beijing Film Studio, as the heroine, and her career is booming.
Yuan Li even publicly stated that she did not engage in acting for money or fame, and she did not lack these at all.
But just when Yuan Li was popular all over the country, some rumors began to spread in the circle. Some people say that Yuan Li has a too close relationship with several actors in the same crew, which caused strong dissatisfaction from his colleague's wife and was reprimanded by the other party; Some people also said that Xu Wei's indulgence and connivance with Yuan Li had reached the point of saboteurs.
Although Yuan Li repeatedly explained and tried to clarify all kinds of rumors, those bloody scandals were lingering endlessly. Xu Wei's heart also began to be filled with jealousy and doubts, and he couldn't get used to all kinds of decay in this entertainment industry.
As a seed of infatuation, he finally mustered up the courage to break up with Yuan Li one night in 2005, hoping to keep the last bit of good memory.
A love of life
The haze of the breakup shrouded Xu Wei for a long time, and he seemed to have lost the direction of his life. It was not until the arrival of the 2008 Beijing Olympics that Xu Wei regained his love and vitality for life.
When he saw Zhang Yining appear on the field, a scene of lofty and heroic posture, Xu Wei's heart seemed to be slammed by something, and tears welled up in his eyes.
The table tennis player's superb skills, tenacious perseverance, and confident demeanor all deeply touched him.
"You are the glory of my homeland!" Xu Wei couldn't help but shout out loud and became a loyal follower of Zhang Yining. He developed an unprecedented attachment to the sport, and I can't even describe the excitement in my heart.
What's even more interesting is that fate seems to be dictating the encounter between Xu Wei and Zhang Yining. At a social dinner the following year, the two met unexpectedly. At first, it was relatively unfamiliar and reserved, but soon the embarrassment was broken, and you and I talked word by word.
From their love for table tennis to their mutual interests, the two gradually established a deep friendship.
Seeing that the time was ripe, Xu Wei mustered up the courage and took the initiative to confess his thoughts to Zhang Yining. As a hero of the motherland, Zhang Yining is undoubtedly the hope and motivation that Xu Wei has once again ignited in his life.
He hopes to be with this "big devil" on the field hand in hand and walk the road of the rest of his life together.
Cross-age romance
In the face of Xu Wei's enthusiastic pursuit, Zhang Yining had difficulty making up his mind for a while. As a well-known sports star, she is worried that once this relationship across the 20-year age difference is exposed, it will be criticized and questioned by society.
In order to make a wise decision, Zhang Yining decided to seek advice from relatives and friends, especially her dearest mother, Wang Fengying. As a wise elder, Wang Fengying used her unique insights to resolve her daughter's concerns.
"Ningning, you are over thirty years old, and it is not a bad thing to find a stable and reliable partner to accompany you. Wang Fengying said gently, "As a mother, I only want to see you happy, not to become a so-called impeccable champion."
These words were like an initiation, which made Zhang Yining feel relieved. What mothers value is never those false names and honors, but the happiness in her daughter's heart.
Wang Fengying obviously saw through Xu Wei's infatuation with Ning Ning, and gave full support to this relationship.
The mother's support is undoubtedly the biggest help, and the obstacle of the age gap is suddenly resolved. Soon, the relationship between Xu Wei and Zhang Yining burned like a fire and entered the ecstatic period of love.
The two began to actively plan the major events of their marriage and prepare for the joy of their families in the future.
Stay together
After some in-depth communication and preparation, at the end of 2009, Xu Wei and Zhang Yining finally stepped on the red carpet and entered the palace of marriage.
As a husband, Xu Wei takes care of his wife meticulously, as if he wants to protect her in the palm of his hand. Whether it is daily life or spiritual comfort, he will do his best and be considerate.
And Zhang Yining also found the sustenance of her soul in this marriage and lived a stable and happy life.
However, as soon as the newcomers who crossed the 20-year age difference went out, they were criticized and questioned by the society. Some people say that Xu Wei is "supporting" Zhang Yining, and some people say that Zhang Yining is a "white-eyed wolf" who seduces the rich.
All kinds of invective and gossip reached the ears of the two of them, causing them to suffer great mental stress.
In the face of these, Xu Wei has never wavered in his love for his wife. Whenever he saw Zhang Yining's worried expression, he would gently reassure: "My dear, we are all ordinary people, why do we need to care about the gossip of others? Happiness is right in front of me, and I will walk with you for the rest of my life."
It is precisely with such mutual tolerance and understanding again and again that the relationship between the two has become deeper and deeper, and the marriage has gradually stabilized. Although cross-age marriage has been criticized and questioned by many people, as long as they support each other and stay together, Xu Wei and Zhang Yining will definitely be able to go through the hardships of life.
Xu Weili stood up and escorted
Although she lived a happy and stable life after marriage, Zhang Yining is still often overshadowed by the shadow of her past sports career. In 2010, the Chinese women's table tennis team was defeated by the Singapore team at the World Table Tennis Championships in Moscow, which made table tennis fans across the country angry about Zhang Yining's retirement decision.
Soon, doubts and pressure poured in. Whether it is acquaintances and friends, or former teammates and coaches, they are secretly looking forward to Zhang Yining returning to the arena and creating brilliance for the national women's table tennis.
For a while, Xu Wei often saw his wife crying insomnia every night, and he was in a dilemma about whether to come back again.
As a considerate husband, Xu Wei saw it in his eyes and felt pain in his heart. He said warmly: "Winning or losing sports competitions is a common thing, and the strength of Chinese table tennis does not necessarily depend on your strength."
What's more, your health is the most important thing, so many years of high-intensity training have made you physically exhausted, and continuing to persist will only increase the pain.
In his coaching career, Zhang Yining has suffered several serious injuries. Even if you have extraordinary perseverance, your body has its limits. Xu Wei knew his wife's hardships very well, so he would give such persuasion.
He hopes that his wife can let go of the burden in her heart and recuperate.
Xu Wei not only enlightened his wife verbally, but also appealed on social media, imploring fans to cherish Zhang Yining and not to put too much pressure on him. "She's just an ordinary person, not a god.
Although this move made Xu Wei the target of public criticism for a while, he was not surprised and had no fear. As long as he can protect this family, even if he bears the criticism of the world, he will not hesitate to do it.
Hand in hand
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, Xu Wei and Zhang Yining's marriage has gone through more than ten years. This cross-age couple has endured social doubts and criticism, and finally walked through the hardships of life hand in hand.
Looking back, Xu Wei and Zhang Yining's love road was bumpy, but they understood and supported each other with an extremely tolerant and tolerant mind. from Xu Wei's abandonment by his ex-girlfriend Yuan Li's career, to his infatuation with Zhang Yining at first sight; From Zhang Yining's mother Wang Fengying wisely supporting this relationship, to the two stepping into the marriage hall and being fiercely attacked by public opinion... Each stage was accompanied by insurmountable obstacles, but in the end they all survived with courage and determination.
Xu Wei never regretted the decision to give up Yuan Li and embrace Zhang Yining instead. Compared with his ex-girlfriend's obsession with Vanity Fair, Zhang Yining's dedication to his career and his dedication to his family are the happiness he really yearns for.
Even if he has been criticized and slandered by others, Xu Wei has never had a trace of doubt and wavering about his wife's choice.
And Zhang Yining always remembers her mother's teachings and knows how to cherish the happiness in front of her. Although the outside world once put great pressure on her to make a comeback after retiring, she still bravely insisted on her decision under Xu Wei's explanation and care.
It is with her husband's full support that she can finally get rid of the entanglement of negative public opinion and live a stable life.