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She is the most well-deserved "big devil" in the table tennis industry, and she has won all kinds of gold medals and championships.
But when her career development was at its peak, her mother, who was thinking about her everywhere, wanted her to marry Xu Wei, a rich man who was twenty years older than her.
What's more interesting is that the rich man also "abandoned" his ex-girlfriend Yuan Li, who had been in love for twelve years.
Can such a person really make Zhang Yining happy?
Big rich man with little girlfriend
Although netizens always ridicule that "rich people always play enough", the rich businessman Xu Wei is really emotional.
And his shares, even if placed in the entire Hong Kong rich circle, can be regarded as quite "strange" unique.
In 1993, Xu Wei met his girlfriend Yuan Li, who was eleven years younger than him, because of a social banquet, and the two fell in love at first sight and soon fell in love, and Xu Wei was indeed particularly good to this girlfriend.
From material satisfaction to spiritual companionship, as long as it is within Xu Wei's ability, he can be like a wishing machine to fulfill his girlfriend's wishes.
For example, after Yuan Li revealed his idea of developing in the entertainment industry, Xu Wei waved his hand to open the way with money.
I have to say that having money is really able to go to the gods.
After his debut, Yuan Li had excellent resources, first starring in "Flying Tigers" directed by the great director Wang Jixing, and then playing the protagonist in "Very Love" produced by the famous big factory "Beiying".
Coupled with the fact that Yuan Li herself does have some strength, the development of her entertainment career can be described as a green light.
Even the familiar unspoken rules of the entertainment industry dare not find her, and she even has the confidence to say no to it.
"I didn't come to act for money, I didn't lack these things for fame."
The unrestrained Yuan Li has almost lived a look that many actors envy.
But this person is sometimes prone to confusion.
I know who gave my brilliance, but I always want to challenge that person's bottom line again and again.
How can disagreements last long?
Xu Wei loved Yuan Li very much and loved her to the bone.
Although Yuan Li did love him, sometimes, he would always do something that was extremely difficult for Xu Wei to understand.
In 2001, Yuan Li, who was a little famous in the entertainment industry, was favored by the crew of "Iron Tooth Copper Tooth Ji Xiaolan", and gained good attention and popularity by relying on the popularity of the show.
This was originally a good thing, but what Yuan Li did made Xu Wei angry.
According to some staff members of the crew, Yuan Li always likes to flirt with actors Zhang Guoli and Wang Gang of the same crew, and their relationship is so close that it is like a partner.
What is even more exaggerated is that the crew worker also claimed that Zhang Guoli's wife Deng Jie also personally came to the crew to slap Yuan Li several times, making him lose face.
True or false aside, but these extremely informative scandals once became the after-dinner talk of good deeds.
Although Yuan Li clarified the matter with Xu Wei, the lace news between her and a male star still appeared one after another, and even made the rich man feel anger and heartache.
He didn't understand why this circle didn't even want his good reputation for the sake of such a little "eyeball".
For the first time, Xu Wei was disappointed in this disgusting circle.
So in 2005, Xu Wei, a rich man who had been in love with Yuan Li for twelve years, took the initiative to break up.
In this way, he wants to keep the last good memories in his heart.
But alas, this is just the opposite.
Xu Wei is a rare lover, even if he breaks up with Yuan Li, he still misses her.
Thinking of the memories with her, and thinking of her good.
Sometimes he missed it too much, and Xu Wei was not even in the mood to engage in his own money-making business.
He was confused for a while and couldn't seem to get out.
Although Xu Wei had humbly mentioned to Yuan Li to get back together, this time, it was too late.
Yuan Li, who has long come out of his emotional wounds, quickly flashed marriage with voice actor Zhao Ling in 2007, cutting off Xu Wei's last thought of getting back together.
However, Xu Wei also knew that this was his own choice, and he could not blame others, so he could only try to start over.
An unexpected affair at first sight
Trapped by his feelings, Xu Wei chose to relax, and it happened that the 2008 Olympic Games were being held in Beijing.
He planned to go to see the grandeur of the Olympics, but this look, but the fog that shrouded Xu Wei's heart was lifted.
I don't know why, Xu Wei always feels a little enthusiastic when watching these sports competitions.
Especially when the game went to the table tennis project, the excited Xu Wei was even so excited that he couldn't speak.
I saw that the table tennis player named Zhang Yining on the screen actually defeated his opponent with overwhelming "strength" many times.
Even those world-class table tennis players are as weak as "white paper" in front of her, and she is like an invincible big devil.
Xu Wei was excited to see it, but he also remembered it deeply.
When Zhang Yining won the championship, Xu Wei even involuntarily cheered for her.
"You are the pride of the Motherland!"
Because of this victory, Xu Wei became a fan of Zhang Yining.
What made him even more excited was that fate also intended to bring her closer to Zhang Yining.
A year after the Olympics, the two people, who had nothing to do with each other, actually attended the same banquet
Out of good impression of Zhang Yining, Xu Wei chose to take the initiative to come forward to talk.
Chatting about table tennis, talking about hobbies, and finally chatting about it, he also gained Zhang Yining's favor.
Seeing that the time was ripe, Xu Wei chose to show his heart, and even wanted to be a pair of free birds with the "big devil" in the arena.
But unfortunately, Zhang Yining was not ready, and she planned to wait and see.
After all, this is a major event in life, and there is no room for casualness.
So on the premise of clarifying that he had a good impression of Xu Wei, Zhang Yining asked his mother Wang Fengying and a group of friends for advice.
But her mother's words made her pause.
"Ning Ning is not young (28), and it is not a bad thing to find a mature and stable partner to take care of her."
"As a mother, I only hope that Ning Ning can have a good time, not be a flawless world champion."
Just this sentence of Zhang Yining's mother actually made the two people with an age difference of twenty years quickly warm up their feelings, and even at the end of 2009, they reached the point of talking about marriage.
Whenever he thought of this, Xu Wei's face was full of gratitude to his mother-in-law Wang Fengying.
He felt that without his mother-in-law's words, he would not have the happiness he has today.
But Zhang Yining, who is Xu Wei's partner, has he also been happy?
Their happiness
Fortunately, Zhang Yining's mother, who had a vicious eye, did not missee Xu Wei.
After getting married, he was very good to his daughter and couldn't wait to hold her in the palm of his hand.
What's more valuable is that Xu Wei will always stand up for his daughter.
In 2010, Zhang Yining, who decided to retire, suffered unprecedented pressure from society.
In the same year, at the Women's Table Tennis Moscow Team World Table Tennis Championships, the Chinese team lost to the Singapore team with a score of 1:3.
And this also casts a thick haze on the hearts of all female table tennis fans.
They were sad, they were angry, and they even felt that it was because of Zhang Yining's retirement that it led to the defeat of the Chinese women's table tennis team.
During that time, whether it was neighbors or Zhang Yining's former teammates and coaches, they unanimously hoped that Zhang Yining could return to the team and create glory for Chinese women's table tennis.
Even a dead horse as a living horse doctor, giving enough pressure.
When it was the hardest, Xu Wei always saw his wife crying in the middle of the night, hesitating whether he should return to the team.
Xu Wei was distressed to see it, and he was also uncomfortable to watch.
"Victory or defeat is a common thing in soldiers, Chinese women's table tennis can't always rely on you, besides, you have to take care of your body."
Long-term strenuous exercise has long made Zhang Yining's body have countless hidden diseases, and she will not retire until she is 28 years old, which is her limit, and if she continues, I am afraid that there will be no good results.
While comforting his wife, Xu Wei pleaded with netizens on the Internet to understand and stop persecuting his wife.
"She is a man, not a god."
"If you really like Zhang Yining, don't force her anymore, okay?"
Although Xu Wei was forced to become the "target" of the whole network because of this sentence during that time, he felt that it was worth it.
He successfully guarded his wife and kept a happy home.
Epilogue:
Perhaps this marriage, which is a full twenty years apart, will always be denigrated and questioned by the outside world.
But how can the happy faces that appear in front of the public be fake?
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