The main character I'm going to introduce to you first is John, who is 42 years old and lives in a small quiet town. He comes from an ordinary and warm family, his parents are harmonious, and he has a loving marriage. John himself works for a large company and has a steady income and many friends.
However, unlike most people, John chose to live a sexless life. This is not because he has physical problems or lacks opportunities, on the contrary, he can easily find a suitable partner. But he was convinced that sex was not the only way for him to pursue happiness and fulfillment.
Redefining happiness
John tries to break the traditional definition of happiness, arguing that happiness can come from a variety of sources, and sex is just one of them. He slowly discovered that while giving up sex, he freed up more time and energy to pursue other hobbies and relationships.
Over the past few years, John has become a passionate person for sports and healthy living. Every morning, he would get up and go for a run, feeling the fresh air and a healthy body. He also participated in a number of volunteer activities to help those in need. These experiences made him feel extremely fulfilled and happy, and he considered it a more meaningful thing in his life.
Think and explore
Of course, not everyone can accept John's way of life. He is often questioned and sometimes criticized by those around him. But John was not discouraged, he firmly believed that it was his own choice and did not need to be explained to others.
He thinks about this a lot and also has in-depth discussions with some friends. He found that there are many adults who hide behind society and live a sexless life. Some of these people believe that sex is only a temporary pleasure and not the ultimate goal they pursue, some have been hurt and betrayed and have chosen to distance themselves from their feelings, and some have little interest in sex and prefer to explore other aspects of life.
The diversity of life
Through my conversations with John, I began to recognize the diversity and complexity of life. Everyone has their own unique story and orientation, and sexless life is just one of the many possibilities. We cannot simply judge and define a person's happiness by traditional values.
Everyone should have the right to choose a lifestyle that suits them, whether sexual or non-sexual, and the key is to find ways to truly make themselves happy and satisfied. We should respect and tolerate different choices and not judge or ridicule those who are different from us
Through this story, I hope to provoke readers to think about similar issues in their own lives. Sex is not the only measure of happiness, and everyone has the right to choose a lifestyle that suits them. We should respect the choices of others, while also courageously pursuing the true happiness and fulfillment of our own hearts