Let me first introduce you to the background, I just turned 30 years old this year, I have a cheerful personality, and I am serious and responsible in my work. My family background is very ordinary, and I am proud of my high background, nor do I have the burden of hindering me from pursuing my dreams. I work in marketing at an IT company, and I am busy with my colleagues between projects every day.
And the object that makes me feel fascinated is my female colleague Xiaoli. Xiaoli is a very good designer in our team, and her talent and beauty always attract the attention of those around her. I first noticed her by chance and we attended a team dinner together. At that time, she was wearing a simple and elegant dress, with elegant makeup and a bright smile. I can't help but feel good.
In the days that followed, Xiaoli and I began to have frequent contact, and we not only needed to cooperate in our work, but also started to communicate more. I found that she was not only beautiful on the outside, but also gentle and kind on the inside. We often ate together, chatted, and even worked late hours together. During this time, I felt that I had a special feeling and fell in love with this wonderful and independent girl.
However, problems also arise. I was in a dilemma and didn't know how to deal with this new emotion. After all, we met in an office environment, and if we choose to enter the world of love, it will spark countless speculations and discussions. It bothered me, it was like a thorn in my head.
In addition, ambiguous things in the office have become common, and many people do not find happiness in this relationship in the end. I hesitated, not knowing whether I should confess to Xiaoli. Every time I look at her focused work, I feel the urge to get close to her, but I'm worried that I'll hurt each other.
However, fate plays tricks on people like this. One day, on a particularly tiring evening, I felt like I couldn't help it. I found an opportunity and asked Xiaoli out for a walk alone. At night, we walked quietly on the streets, the starlight shining on her, reflecting her beautiful silhouette. I swallowed nervously, and finally mustered up the courage to speak.
"Xiaoli, I want to talk to you about something. I want us to be more than just colleagues. I stammered.
Xiaoli stopped and smiled slightly: "Actually, I have always had the same idea. ”
My mood was filled with the breaking sun, and I felt extremely happy and relieved. It turned out that both of us noticed each other's feelings, but we didn't dare to take that step.
Since then, Xiaoli and I have started a formal relationship. We don't get too close to each other in the office anymore, but we find a quiet place to share the sweetness every day after work. Gradually, we found that working more smoothly and living more fulfilling lives in each other's company. We encourage and support each other to grow together and pursue our dreams for the future.
However, occasionally some contradictions and confusions arise. Sometimes differences at work can affect our emotions, but we have all learned how to tolerate and understand each other. In the process, we gradually matured and believed in each other's choices more.
This ambiguous experience in the office gave me a lot of inspiration and made me understand that there are really no fixed boundaries and rules for relationships. As long as we truly love and respect each other, we can find happiness no matter what the circumstances we are in. We uphold the principles of honesty and understanding, support each other in the face of difficulties, and maintain a positive attitude.
Finally, I would like to say to readers who are in a similar predicament: if you really like someone, be brave and pursue it, and don't let go because of the eyes of the outside world. When you find your own happiness, you'll understand how worthwhile the experience was. May everyone be able to find their own home in love.