There's a word called the top.
On something, on someone.
Above, that often means very interested, comparative obsession, or even obsession.
Yes, in life, everyone is the same, it is easy to like something, and it will also like someone.
If we are above a person, a person will also be above us, that is the beginning of love, and it also determines whether each other will develop.
It's just that in this, even if you go up, sometimes it doesn't necessarily mean anything, because if you go up, you may also go down, become no longer up, and no longer have that kind of interest.
When getting along with the opposite sex, there are always some behaviors that are very low-headed, which will make the relationship directly deteriorate, or even become none.
Lying, there is some deception.
There are always people who, because of their growth environment, because of their own cognition and character, always don't like to tell the truth, and lies always come out of their mouths.
will falsify their identity, will falsify their academic qualifications, will falsify their income, will often like all kinds of concealment and deception, in some big things, in some small things, always very dishonest.
Even if you just ask where you are and what you are doing, you will always habitually lie.
It's not honest at all, it's always inconsistent, it's nonsense, it feels weird, and it's hard to believe at all.
People who like to lie, no one will dare to cooperate with them, they will be afraid of problems, after seeing through the truth, even if they like it at first, they often fall down in an instant, and they will feel that such people are not reliable at all, and they are really not worth dealing with.
No matter what the reason, if a person always has inconsistencies in words and deeds, and there are many lies, this is very annoying, and it will not be able to build trust between each other, and people will not be willing to establish deeper links.
Not single-minded, messing around with others.
In life, different people's attitudes towards feelings are often different.
Some people associate with a person, they will only have a good relationship with this person, and will no longer be entangled with other members of the opposite sex, ambiguous, and too close, but there are always people who don't understand the boundaries at all, and there are people around them, and they always like to be close to other members of the opposite sex.
Anyway, while having all kinds of tenderness and sweetness with the people around him, the affection is lingering, and on the other hand, he has all kinds of intimacy with other people, and his words are very excessive, playing single, and he is looking for another like.
Very disloyal, it may just be a mouthful, all kinds of nonsense, and there may really be some behaviors that shouldn't be, meeting other people of the opposite sex alone, or even something happening.
In this case, it is also very low, most people are looking for a partner, looking for a partner, they will still hope that they are the most important, hope that they are special to the other party, and there is no one else except themselves.
But if you are sober, once you find that a person doesn't know how to be single-minded at all, your good feelings will be gone, and you won't want to continue.
Say something, very offensive things.
It's very interesting, it seems that there are always some people who like to say something very unpleasant, or even very obscene.
I always think it's funny, and I seem to be very powerful.
As everyone knows, even if a person looks good, all aspects seem to be okay, but once he always says something that is flowing, or even makes people feel very uncomfortable, it is very low.
In an instant, you will feel that this person is not good at all, not to be able to socialize, and not to deliver the rest of your life.
People want to be respected, and they are polite and friendly when talking to each other. A person who knows how to respect people and know how to speak will feel more reliable and worthy of understanding.
Otherwise, you will really feel bored, think that it is very unqualified, do not know how to treat the opposite sex well, and naturally will not know how to respect your other half, just forget it, it is not a good person.
Double standard, only ask and don't pay.
There is such a kind of person, when getting along with others, he will always feel how others should be.
Think that others should be good to themselves, should give, should give, no matter how much others give, they will always feel that it is still not enough, feel that they should give more, how is it not enough.
I'm always greedy for others, but I never feel like I should be when I think something else should be.
It's very interesting, never ask for yourself, never ask for each other.
What the other party should do thinks that the other party should do it, and must do it very well, and what they should do is that they will all kinds of indifference, shirk responsibility, think that on what basis, they will pick up all their responsibilities, and look like they have been wronged and suffered.
is very selfish, there will always be only oneself in his eyes, such a person, such a behavior, it is also very chilling, and it will feel very low in an instant, and over time, it will simply not want to be in touch anymore.
Between men and women, there must be a place for each other to be on the top, and the ability to let the other be on the top.
At the same time, it is also important to pay attention to your words and deeds, and do not make the other person bow down too much.
If you can let the other party go up, you won't go down, and the emotional road will be relatively smooth, otherwise, even if you can let the other party go up, it will make the other party feel down in minutes, and there will be no future at all.
After all, we must always know how to deny ourselves and restrain ourselves.
You have to treat others as you want them to be, and you can't always want others to do the same and never ask for yourself.
You must always use sincerity in exchange for sincerity, and you must always treat each other well to have good feelings.
What kind of love we desire to have, we first have to make ourselves that kind of person.
Text / Tan Meng
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