A video goes viral, and there is a little girl standing in front of the ping-pong table and collapsing and crying, crying while waving the racket in her hand.
A closer look at everyone found that the little girl actually received each ball accurately, and netizens said: "Crying like this, you can still receive every ball, it is so cute." ”
The little girl's name is Xi Xi, the age is only 3 years and 8 months old, Xi Xi's father said that learning table tennis is Xi Xi's own interest, although the current course is boring and boring, Xi Xi sometimes can't help but cry.
But Xi Xi did not give up, xi xi father also hopes that his daughter can understand what persistence is through learning table tennis.
Through the matter of Xi Xi, it is not difficult for us to find that children are interested in one thing, even if they encounter more difficulties, they will find ways to overcome it, although Xi Xi collapsed and cried.
But the movement of her hand has not stopped, which shows that interest has a positive impact on the growth of children!
What advantages can cultivating hobbies and interests bring to children?
1. The development is more comprehensive
The education given to the child by the family and the school is limited, and if the parent wants to let the child make a breakthrough on this basis, he must discover the things that interest him.
When the child has his own interests and hobbies, and continues to insist, the child's physical and mental development will be positively affected, the child's mastery of the field is expanded, and the future development is naturally more comprehensive.
2. Wider social circle
Social circles are related to the living environment, if the child does not go anywhere other than school and home, then the child's social circle will be limited to the school and family.
But if the child goes to school and goes home, he will spend a certain amount of time every week on the things he is interested in and participate in an interest class.
Over time, children may meet people with the same interests as themselves, so that two people or a group of people together, often have a common language, get along more harmoniously, and the possibility of becoming good friends in the future will be greater.
3. Increased relaxation pathways
People will always encounter some unpleasant things in life, and if a person has no hobbies, then he will have fewer ways to relax.
But if the child likes one thing from a young age and insists on not abandoning it until he grows up, the child's interests and hobbies will become an important way for him to relax and relax. Compared with ordinary people, people who are interested in hobbies tend to be more optimistic and cheerful.
4, childhood is richer
Children grow up only once, and the experience of childhood is relatively rich, which is actually a kind of wealth. Children grow up and mature in all aspects of their bodies and minds.
Whenever you feel tired, think back to how you stuck to your interests in the first place, and you will be healed. In the process of adhering to their own interests and hobbies, each child will encounter more painful things.
For example, learning is difficult, parents are too strict, etc., but even in this state, I still insist on it, which is the valuable point of childhood experience, and I can motivate myself every time I think about it.
What should parents pay attention to regarding the cultivation of children's interests?
1. Let the child try more
Some children do not know what they like at the beginning, and for such children, if you want to cultivate his hobbies, you must first help him find the direction.
Parents can take their children to visit some interest classes to see what aspects of the child is interested in, and they can also encourage the child to try to participate, and after participating, the child's attitude can basically confirm whether he is interested.
2. Do not report many classes
Some parents hope that their children will "blossom" in all aspects, and they are eager to report all the interest classes of the Children's Palace to their children.
As everyone knows, this will not only make the child eat, but also make the child feel very disgusted, even if the child has found something he is interested in, it will be difficult to stick to because of the complicated curriculum.
Therefore, parents should not casually enroll their children in classes, and when their children find something they are interested in and specialize in this matter, it is often easier for children to stick to it.
3. Respect the child's wishes
Parents' understanding of hobbies is often limited to public cognition, parents only know to draw, play the piano, dance, but do not know model aircraft, photography, pottery, if the child's interest beyond the scope of parents' cognition, parents are very likely to oppose.
Here we should remind parents that children's interests and hobbies, miss and then want to cultivate there is no opportunity, as long as the child is interested.
And work in the right direction, the future will be achieved, even if he is interested in a small number of things, parents should also show support.
Therefore, cultivating an interest has a positive effect on the growth of children.
Dear parents, have you ever enrolled your child in a class?