In relationships, we often hear a word, love brain.
And about this word, most of them are not so good statements.
For example, who loves the brain, the ending is just particularly bad, the end is very bad, for example, even if you like a person, don't love the brain, to maintain a sense of sanity.
Anyway, the love brain is never a good thing.
Indeed, everything is too much, and anything, once too much, will often only be prone to problems.
And the love brain, although many people know that they should not love the brain, but once they love, many people will forget, simply can not care so much, directly began to be in their own hearts, dominated by their own behavior.
Generally speaking, people who love brains, in love, have always been like this, and it is difficult to maintain a lucidity.
I feel that love is more important than anything else.
Falling in love with a person is indeed a very good thing, with such a feeling, a person often feels a lot of joy in his heart, and he will not always feel that he is so lonely.
I have to say that love is indeed an important part of life, but it is only a part, not a person's entire life, most people will have such a cognition.
But for a person who loves a brain, in her opinion, there is no one, there is nothing, and it is important to love someone.
After falling in love, she can't take care of many at all, her former friends will only not want to come and go back and forth from time to time, even if it is her own work, she can't do it so carefully, and will only put all her thoughts on that person.
In her eyes, it is always love first, for a person, she can really give up a lot of things.
It's like, without love, your life is wrong, as long as you have love, you have the whole world.
No matter when, she will always be in love first, and she will always be the person she likes first.
All the time, she will only want to stay with the people she likes, will put all her energy, all on the other person, want to know everything about the other party, and want to participate in every share and every second of the other party.
Once in love, there is no bottom line at all.
Even if you are in love, in a relationship, many people often do the same and do not do anything.
No matter how much you love each other, you will still retain an independence and will leave some love to yourself.
What should not be done, never do, will always be as an independent self, to love each other.
People who love brains are different, she will always be very willing to sacrifice herself for the sake of the other party, and she will always be happy to seek perfection for the sake of the other party, so that the other party constantly breaks through their own principles and makes themselves different from themselves.
As long as it is the other party, even if something is obviously very inappropriate, she will still do it, even if she always needs to become very humble and to please each other, she is still willing.
Falling in love with someone, always very easily, she will lose herself, just see the other person as her own heaven, as her own earth, as her own possession, everything is willing to follow the other person's ideas.
Even if the other party is not good to her, always suppressing her, constantly asking her for something very bad, she will agree, always want to desperately satisfy the other party, even if she will pay a great price.
For many moments, it is obvious that the other party has a problem, but she just can't see it, and will only blame all the faults on herself, always feeling that she is not good enough, that she is not doing a good job.
It's especially easy because it loves to find death and find life.
The matter of love, no one can be so smooth, there will be many obstacles, and sometimes it will be lost.
Whenever there is a contradiction between each other, when a person loses someone he likes, the mood will be bad, there will be some depression, which is more common, but even so, under normal circumstances, a person will accept the reality and let himself slowly come out.
Will look at the problem more rationally, will not be too intense, will continue to move forward, to chase the future happiness.
However, people with a serious love brain, she can't be so calm, when the relationship with each other is very good, she can appear quite normal, and once they contradict each other, she can easily blow up the whole person.
There are always some very extreme ways to vent their emotions and try to get themselves back to themselves.
At that time, even if he gave up his own life, he would not hesitate to do so, and he would not take such care of it at all.
Falling out of love is even more so, you will feel that your whole life is gray, there will be no future, and you will want to give up everything because of this, and feel that only then will you be able to free yourself.
The person in her heart will always let her lose control from time to time, and the other party seems to be the control valve of her life, which can easily control her emotions and easily control her actions.
The so-called love brain is as if there is only love in the brain, and nothing can be seen except that person.
To be honest, sometimes, when the person you meet is good, the appropriate love brain, this is actually not related, the other party will know how to cherish, will be very good to us, and will not fail us.
However, more times, the love brain will only attract people who are not very good, which will only make us very passive and doomed.
A person who does not love himself is very difficult to get the love of others.
In this life, we can pursue love, but we must have a degree.
You don't have to be contemptuous of love information, but you don't have to think of love as important.
When loving a person, even if you love again, you must first love yourself, have your own thoughts, and have your own principles.
Text/Tan Meng
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