The child is a blank page, and the beautiful picture of the future is inseparable from the influence and guidance of the father

"A person's talent is a part of life, and when life is over, talent is the only continuation of life", this is the most classic sentence of Shinan in the "Waisha Collection", and it also gives nostalgia for his father. Shi'an's father, Sha Ou, was a talented poet, and the Huaisha Collection is an essay by his son recalling his father's past.

Through The recollection of his father in the Waisha Collection, it is not difficult to see. Sand Gull was not only a famous poet, but also a very good father.

The father's growth process in the child will affect the child's thinking and habits. In the child's heart, the father is an example to imitate and learn. When he was a child, his father Sha Ou was already a very famous poet. Under the influence and encouragement of Sha Ou, Shinan began practicing writing from an early age. This laid a solid foundation for Shi-an's later writing and creation.

In the "Huaisha Collection", Shi'an's father, Sha Ou, gave us three very good examples in educating and guiding the growth of children.

01, fathers should lead by example, with encouragement and companionship to cultivate children's interests and habits

When a child is young, it is like a blank piece of paper. And what kind of painting can be drawn in the future by this white paper must be inseparable from the influence and influence of family culture.

When Sha Ou was very young, he began to encourage and guide his son to engage in literary writing. In this way, he made his son interested in literature and constantly encouraged him to keep writing. If you want your child to focus on one thing, the best way is to make your child interested in the thing itself. Only with the blessing of interest can habits be formed smoothly.

In the process of growing up, encouragement and companionship are very important for children. Mr. Sha Ou did these two things, and when Shi An began to write, his father Sha Ou always accompanied him and constantly encouraged his son to write boldly. Without the patient encouragement and companionship of Mr. Sha Ou, I believe that the literary path of Shi-an would not have been so firm.

The American philosopher Eric Fromm once said: Mother is nature, earth and sea, and represents the hometown in the process of children's growth. The father represents the other extreme of human beings, and in the process of growing up, it affects the child's thoughts and habits.

Carefully savoring Eric Fromm's words seems to make sense. In family education, it is often the father who can really guide the child's thoughts, not the child's mother. Therefore, if you want to be a qualified father, you must be a good learning example for your children.

02, the influence of the father's circle on the child should not be underestimated

In the adult world, the word "circle" is often mentioned, and these two words determine our state in real life. The "circle" represents an atmosphere, just like the soil in the field, and the crops grown from different soils are naturally uneven.

Good circles can promote us to continue to learn, and our abilities will continue to improve. Sha Ou was a talented poet, and the cultural attributes of his circle were naturally inseparable from the word "literature". As the son of Sand Gull, he also benefited a lot in his father's circle.

Fathers are always the other side of the child's imitation, and sand gulls are no exception. In the circle of sand gulls, almost all of them are some literary masters. As the son of Sha Ou, Shi-an, sees the cultural attributes of his father's circle and will naturally be influenced by it. In the subtle, form their own communication concept, paving the way for building their own circle in the future.

We often say that fatherly love is like a mountain, and fathers not only love for their children, but more importantly, they must set a good example for their children by example.

We often watch the animal world on TV and movies, and it is usually the child's father who teaches him hunting or survival skills, not the child's mother. Animals are still like this, then we humans should surpass it.

03, the father is only a guide, cultivation still depends on the individual

In the "Huaisha Collection", Shi'an mentions the chapter where Sha Ou was sick and hospitalized, and Sha Ou still did not forget to create when he was seriously ill. His words to Shi-an were: Let your life be free of regrets.

Mr. Sha Ou's words are not only saying to himself, but also setting a final example for his children. In the process of children's growth, parents are only the guides on the child's life path. As for the future of children, it is still up to the children to strive for it.

When children are young, parents set an example for their children by example. To help children establish a correct outlook on life and values, the rest of the road still depends on the children themselves.

Shi-an was able to lay his own world in the field of literature, and only 30% of his father's edification and guidance, while the remaining 70% was completely earned by his own efforts.

In the Waisha Collection, Shi-an also mentions that his father, Sha Ou, encouraged him to write more and read more. Accumulate literary materials in daily reading, and explore writing skills in frequent writing. His father, Sha Ou, knew in his heart that there were no shortcuts to success. Only by working diligently and taking every step in a down-to-earth manner will future success be expected.

In summary: when people live a lifetime, they must do their best to do their best to do their best, so that their lives will not leave any regrets. Also as the father of the child, we must also set a good example for the child in life, and do not let the child have regrets in the process of growing up because of the absence of the father's love.