Suppose you meet your mother when you were young

May 8 is Mother's Day.

The female is weak, and the mother is strong. "For as long as we can remember, my mother looked like a middle-aged woman." We have never seen her as a teenager, but we remember her busy life all day, confined to the back of the kitchen.

In every ordinary daily life, let us ignore that my mother was also a girl like a flower. When you open the photo album at home, you will find that the yellowed photos record the most beautiful appearance of my mother when she was young.

In the Korean drama "Please Answer 1988", it is said: I heard that God cannot be everywhere, so I created my mother. The word mom, just a scream, also felt choking in the throat. If you could get on a time machine and meet your young mother, what would you like to say to your mother?

On Mother's Day, the reporter interviewed several citizens, listened to them talk about the happiness between themselves and their mothers, and shared the most beautiful moments of their mothers in their hearts.

"Spicy flowers" have also been beautiful

Becoming a mother and becoming a mother in the mountains of Guizhou is the courage of Mr. Xu Qifei, a citizen of Guiyang, to face hardships and struggle to live forever in the face of suffering.

"These simple courages, struggling to survive in the face of suffering, have always been with me and inspired me." Mr. Xu recalled the story with his mother, saying that the mothers in the mountains faced the hardships of life, stoic, strong, in the face of their children's gradual drifting away, there was no flowery words to express love, but they looked at the distance again and again, they knew that they were "powerless", their love was the hot mountain food when they came home, and the mountain goods that filled the trunk when they set out again and again.

They do not have the charm and charm of the mothers in the city, but they interpret the deep meaning of the word "mother" with their lifelong silent efforts.

"Spicy flowers" have also been beautiful

"That day to rush, the mother wrapped a blue turban in a black thick ponytail, wearing a floral dress, she bent over and talked to the street vendors about the price, a breeze blew, the hair and turban fluttered gently with the wind, the picture of that moment, so many years frozen in my mind, so beautiful, that is the most beautiful moment in my mother's mind, I can still clearly remember that picture! That year, my mother was in her 30s. ”

Mother who washed our clothes.

Mr. Xu recalled that the two brothers in the family, he was the old man, from memory, the mother was middle-aged, the rough hands sharpened by life, the big voice... But only when he was 7 years old and rushed to the market with his mother, he discovered his mother's beauty, a real big beauty.

Mr. Xu's mother, Wen Yongfen, is 68 years old. When she was young, she used to be a flower in the village, and the elders in the village used to call her "spicy flower", which is a kind of praise for beauty by the townspeople, and it is also a small name to express the hot personality, good looks, and can rap and sing.

Her songs have resounded on the hillsides of the days when the brigade worked collectively, on the stove of three meals a day, by the fire pit where the children roasted the fire during the New Year...

The mother who cooked for us.

"When I was a child, the picture of my mother singing while doing farm work was also the most beautiful moment in my heart." Mr. Xu recalled that one year, a doctor at the village health center, because of his mother's singing, was fascinated, forgot the dishes burning in the pot, and finally burned the pot.

But it was in those painful years that the mother used her songs to heal the dullness and tastelessness of rural life, and also influenced her children with optimism.

"In the era of lack of clothes and materials, my mother's optimism deeply affected me, and I did not feel bitter in all these years of moving from the countryside to the provincial city to take root in life." Mr. Xu sighed that the "spicy flowers" who still cling to the village now have gray hair and no big braids when they were young, but his mother is always beautiful in his heart.

The love of "Spicy Flowers" is the watchful eye of loneliness

This year's "May Day", according to the custom, Mr. Xu took his children and wife back to his hometown again to accompany his mother for the holiday. In the old house, fireworks were rising, and my mother was still making a large table of meals as usual, waiting silently.

With hard work, fear of trouble for children, silent dedication is a true portrayal of the mother's generation.

Mom and her grandchildren.

Originally, Mr. Xu and his brother both settled in the city, but the mother was still reluctant to leave the homeland, despite the age, but still insisted on planting corn at home, planting rapeseed, planting a variety of vegetables, in short, according to the seasons, stubble by stubble, hoe grass watering and fertilizing, the mother who is only one meter and fifty meters tall, but like a mountain, it is as majestic and stoic.

In the land that her mother has cultivated for many years, it is the mother who beats the barrier, points out the beans, sprinkles the ashes, covers the back of the dirt, sows the wishes of all the way, waiting for the children to come home again and again.

When they were young, no matter how hard life was, their mother also wanted them to study and get out of the world in the mountains. But after cultivating them all into talents, the mother was reluctant to share the blessings together.

"I've been moving to a new house for 8 years, except when my son was born, my mother came to Guiyang for half a year, and I haven't come since." Mr. Xu said that the old house in his hometown was planed out with his hands by his mother and father in the most difficult years, so his mother's feelings for the old house are really not something we can feel. She didn't come, I could understand. Mr. Xu sighed.

As her children reach adulthood and grow older, Wen Yongfen knows that she is "powerless." Today, the way she expresses her love is when Mr. Xu returns home, the table of long-cherished home-cooked food, and when she leaves home, it is filled with souvenirs in the trunk.

Every time I went back to Guiyang, the trunk was filled with vegetables grown by my mother.

Just like Hao Scarlett's mother in the American novel "Gone with the Wind", the 68-year-old Wen Yongfen will never be idle in his hands. It's just that she has always put the needs of her relatives first all her life, rarely considering herself, and her selflessness often makes him ashamed and makes Mr. Xu feel sad.

Today, in the mountain villages of Guizhou, the human world has long been changed. Despite the good living conditions, the mothers in the mountains, such as Wen Yongfen, still live frugally, and they only have gratitude and contentment for life, and silently watch over their children.

Chivalrous tenderness draws strength from suffering

In Mr. Xu's eyes, his mother is generous and kind, industrious and selfless, virtuous, chivalrous and tender, and dares to tell the truth, which largely determines the peace and happiness of their family's family.

In fact, when she was very young, Wen Yongfen's father fell ill and died, and her mother did not even know what her father looked like, and her mother took her and her sister to remarry. But in the mountains of Guizhou in the 1950s, it was normal not to eat enough to wear and not to be warm, and in such a harsh environment, it also created Wen Yongfen's tenacity, bravery, and satisfaction with life.

Mother's back.

"Although my mother is not good at words, we understand more from her the true meaning of being a human being, not bullying others, but also having the ability to protect our families." Mr. Xu recalled that when he was a child, his father worked in the local tobacco system, but one year, he was framed and unjustly imprisoned. The illiterate mother, who was illiterate, went around defending her rights and finally saved her father's innocence.

Wen Yongfen's kindness and integrity, she always has a generous love for people, neighbors who have difficulties, she is always enthusiastic to help, such as the weak people in the village are bullied, she stepped forward, the neighbor's grandmother raised pigs, when sold by the pig dealer, she bravely stopped, let the pig dealer re-call, for the neighbor's grandmother to save a lot of losses.....

"From childhood to adulthood, my mother led by example and established a good image for me in terms of being a person and doing things. Under the extremely difficult living conditions when she was a child, she still maintained an optimistic attitude and a kind and pure character, industrious and frugal, and the optimistic spirit of making fun in the hard years deeply affected me. ”

"She taught me with her actions that I don't seek anyone in everything, and that life will ultimately depend on myself; people are not short of ambition." At the end of the interview, Mr. Xu emotionally said that his mother's story could not be told in a day and a night, and she was a bright beacon that illuminated his way forward. And his mother is also a true portrayal of the rural mother of an era, tenacious, brave and dedicated.

Be a girlfriend with your mother and become a down-to-earth, tenacious, tolerant and kind person like her

Today is Mother's Day, on this special day, are you by your mother's side?

Since we remember, my mother is a middle-aged woman, are you curious about what my mother looked like when she was young?

If you could get on a time machine and meet your young mother, what would you like to say to her?

"If I could turn back the clock and let me meet my young mother, I didn't want her to marry my father..." In an interview, 29-year-old Zhou Xingxiu's words surprised reporters.

She said, "Dad was a good father, but not a qualified husband. Mom has worked hard all her life, but the care and warmth given by Dad is very little, and I hope that my mother can meet someone who can make her live a good life. ”

Talking about the 29 years of becoming a mother and daughter with my mother, the past seems to be vividly remembered. What does Zhou Xingxiu want to say to her mother on this day? "Happy Mother's Day, tell her that she will always be my role model, how she has come from a difficult time step by step, how she gently supports half the sky of the family, and how to keep herself elegant and tolerant... Everything will become a beacon for her daughter on the long road of life in the future. ”

Mom is not superhuman, but she becomes omnipotent for the sake of her children

My mother (right) went to Sanya to work when she was young, and her skin was tanned.

Zhou Xingxiu's mother, Lu Qilan, 55 years old, is an honest and responsible rural woman. "She is not highly educated, timid, has a bad memory, does not like to go out, saves money all her life, always maintains tolerance and tolerance for the things around her, is a woman who looks weak, but she is the most powerful existence in my heart." 」 Zhou Xingxiu said that her mother was not Superman, but became a panacea for her.

Because Dad is a macho, he loves to drink and does not like to do things, and the big and small affairs of the family naturally fall on Mom. "To take care of the family, to take care of the children, always feel that the mother is busy day and night."

Zhou Xingxiu told reporters that when she was 2 years old, because her father suffered an accidental explosion of gas and was seriously injured, her mother had to hand her over to her grandmother to take care of her, and she went to the hospital to take care of her father. "She lied to me about buying me candy, and I waited and waited, but it was 18 days."

Most of the things before the age of 6, Zhou Xingxiu did not remember much, but this incident made her remember it vividly. Because when my mother came back, she really brought back a big bag of sugar, laughing and giggling. "She didn't show sadness and tiredness of taking care of dad, and came back to coax me vigorously." Zhou Xingxiu said that this bag of sugar is her mother's commitment and comfort, and when she grows up, she will know that her mother has endured far more than the amount of this bag of sugar.

Mom used to work in a mine in Qianxian Prefecture, because of financial pressure, coupled with the tuition and living expenses of two children, in the year when her daughter first entered junior high school, she decided to go to Sanya, Hainan Province alone to work. "This is the farthest place she has ever been, she is not familiar with life, planting watermelons for others, up to five or six hundred yuan a month, this is a full three years."

Zhou Xingxiu in junior high school has been a bit rebellious, every time she calls in addition to asking her mother when to come back, whenever she hears her mother's answer of "I don't know, don't come back for the time being", she immediately hangs up the phone, and there is no other concern for parents between mother and daughter.

Since she understood things, she wanted to understand that if it were not for the tuition fees for her and the sharing of family expenses, how could this rural mother, who had never been far away, stay in this hot and strange city for three years.

"Her skin is fair, her features are exquisite, she has not used any expensive skin care products, but she looks like a well-maintained woman." In Zhou Xingxiu's memory, the young mother is also a beauty. Although her mother's old photos were unfortunately lost because of repeated moves, Zhou Xingxiu turned over several photos of her mother when she worked in Sanya, and she held them in her hand and looked at them for a long time.

In the photo, mom wears a white shirt with tanned skin and a standard eight teeth, smiling and giggling with her friends on a pile of watermelons she grows. "Mom had never been so dark before, and I couldn't imagine how she had spent the past three years alone in this strange city."

Zhou Xingxiu said with some heartache, "My mother never complained about how hard she worked, nor did she put pressure on her children, even if it was the most difficult time, her mother only used 450 yuan for 3 months, and the rest of the money was saved and sent home, and she never said a 'difficult' word." ”

The daughter became a volunteer donor of hematopoietic stem cells

Mom was also a graceful and delicate girl, but because of the title of "mother", she faded her childishness, converged on her willfulness, and finally became confined to livelihood and love, and supported the whole family in a porridge and a meal, chai rice oil and salt.

In January 2019, Zhou Xingxiu, because of appendicitis surgery, originally thought that she could get out of the operating room in half an hour, but seeing that the operation was not over for 3 hours, she paced back and forth outside the operating room in a hurry, worried that she could not sit still. Until her daughter successfully completed the operation, she finally breathed a sigh of relief and kept asking her daughter in the ward whether she was in pain and what she wanted to eat...

Until her mother, worried about the pain of her wounds, brought a basin of hot water and squatted down to wash her feet herself. Looking at her mother's stooped body and the white hair on her head, at this moment, Zhou Xingxiu finally couldn't help but burst into tears. "I'm in my 20s, and my mom washes my feet, but she probably hasn't washed my grandmother's feet yet!" How unbearable is this! Speaking of this, Zhou Xingxiu's voice was a little choked.

Looking back on the little things with your mother, as a daughter, what kind of gentleness should you repay your long-term waiting?

Mom was also a delicate girl, but she supported the whole family in chai rice oil and salt.

Mom has six sisters, she is the third oldest in the family, neither the "authority" of two older brothers, nor the younger siblings to be favored, even if the brothers and sisters are unhappy, mom has never blushed with them.

It is her mother's hard work, silent pay, tolerance, kindness, and practical tenacity that profoundly affect all aspects of Zhou Xingxiu, and also make her a helpful and courageous person, and also give her infinite strength to become a volunteer donor of hematopoietic stem cells.

On April 1 this year, Zhou Xingxiu completed hematopoietic stem cell collection at the Guizhou Provincial People's Hospital, and she donated 251ml of hematopoietic stem cell suspension symbolizing the "seed of life" to a 40-year-old police uncle suffering from leukemia.

This is also the 11th case donated in Guizhou Provincial People's Hospital this year, and the 357th case of non-related hematopoietic stem cell donation in Guizhou Province since 2005. Zhou Xingxiu said: "I can do my own little effort to save a life, that is, to save a family, why not enjoy it." ”

"Mom, please love yourself a little more"

On the day of the completion of stem cell donation, Zhou Xingxiu made a video call to her mother for the first time. "In the video, my mother's eyes were full of tears, because she did not understand hematopoietic stem cell donation, she looked at me silently with a look of heartache and did not say a word."

The mother knows that her daughter has done a great thing, a life-saving thing, but as a mother, in addition to the pride of her daughter, it is more worry and heartache. "Later, when I came home and saw my vivid appearance, she completely relaxed her mind! She is like this, always with an inexhaustible heart. Zhou Xingxiu said with a smile.

Group photo of Zhou Xingxiu and his mother.

"If time could travel, I would like to travel back to 2006 to 2009, the three years I spent in junior high school, which is also the three years when my mother went to Sanya to work alone." On the occasion of Mother's Day, Zhou Xingxiu still has some inner words to say to his mother: "When I meet young you, I will find a way to become a girlfriend with you, and then work hard with you, plant watermelons together, enjoy our happiness in the fields together, and accompany you through the loneliest three years." Please also love yourself a little more, think more about yourself, don't give your love to others, wronged yourself, and ignored yourself. Please live a little happier, don't work so hard, don't always be reluctant to buy yourself good food, buy yourself some beautiful clothes, and be a carefree mother! ”

Zhou Xingxiu said, "My mother is very happy because of me, and I also want to tell her that as her daughter, I am happier." May time slow down, I want to love you a little more, and hope that the years will be gentle with mom! ”

You are the "Angel in White"! When I grow up, I become you

May 8 is Mother's Day.

The female is weak, and the mother is strong.

When they have more motherhood, it means worrying, giving, worrying...

Today, we tell the story of Wang Juanjuan, head nurse of the Department of Hepatobiliary, Pancreatic and Spleen Surgery at Anshun 302 Hospital, and her mother Peng Guangxiu.

Peng Guangxiu was young.

Feel the love of motherhood in an instant

On May 5, in the office of the head nurse of the hepatobiliary, pancreatic and spleen surgery department of Anshun 302 Hospital, Wang Juanjuan was busy.

Last year, she became the head nurse of the hepatobiliary, pancreatic and spleen surgery department in the hospital, and she is now busier than her previous simple nurse work. Becoming a nurse is related to her mother, because her mother Peng Guangxiu is also a nurse.

Peng Guangxiu took a photo with his daughter when he was young.

In Wang Juanjuan's impression, her parents are always busy with work, and her mother is even busier due to her profession. Her family lives in the family area of the hospital, where few outsiders enter, so the mother is also at ease to leave the child alone at home, she learned to boil her own eggs, cook her own instant noodles, and learned to be independent very early.

Occasionally, her mother would take her to the hospital to work, place her in a corner, and then go to work.

Once, when Wang Juanjuan was playing in the department, she ran alone to a remote place behind the hospital, accidentally tripped over a stone and bumped her head, and the blood flowed all over her face, and she was also afraid and did not know what to do, sitting on the ground.

My mother did not see her in the department for half a day, breathlessly looking around, when she saw my face full of blood and angry and anxious, she quickly helped me deal with the wound, but at the same time she still said very compassionately: "Well, this time to learn the lesson on the line, next time remember it." At this moment, I instantly felt my mother's love from my mother's anxious and worried look.

In Wang Juanjuan's memory, every time she goes out shopping, her mother always sees if there are any clothes that her daughter can wear, and almost never buys beautiful clothes for herself, and she is willing to spend money on her daughter.

7 years of persistence

Due to the influence of her mother, Wang Juanjuan fell in love with the profession of nurse from an early age.

She remembers that when she was a child, when she and her friends played games together, everyone played the role of nurse, doctor, and patient, listening to each other's heartbeat, measuring blood pressure, and taking infusions.

Wang Juanjuan and Peng Guangxiu.

For her daughter to pursue a career as a nurse, Peng Guangxiu is also very supportive. When Wang Juanjuan was more than ten years old, she went to Zunyi to study. This reading is 7 years.

Peng Guangxiu is a very capable woman. Almost all of the family's affairs are handled by her.

When Wang Juanjuan went to Zunyi to study, she prepared various foods and bedding for her daughter according to the list... Fill the bags.

She was always worried that her daughter would not have enough to eat at school.

Therefore, whenever her daughter goes to school after the holidays, she always prepares all kinds of delicious and long-lasting food for her daughter, which has not stopped for 7 years.

Peng Guangxiu is also worried about his daughter who is studying alone. For 7 years, she always talked to her daughter on time and went out of her way to ask her if she was full and warm.

Mother-daughter tacit understanding

After graduating from university, he also came to the 302 Hospital and became a nurse. Although he and his mother work in one building, they are in different departments, and the time they see each other can be said to be very small.

When they are together, most of the talk is also work.

"A young nurse, infusion is the first hurdle." Wang Juanjuan said that she herself would ask her mother for advice, and her mother would also teach her how to find blood vessels and how to get needles, and she quickly adapted.

Both mothers and daughters are nurses, and many times, there will be tacit understanding.

When the pandemic hit in 2020.

Wang Juanjuan wrote a letter of request for support for Hubei at the first time.

She did not inform her retired mother before writing the petition, and she did not tell her mother until after handing in the petition.

"Oh, there you go." The mother replied.

Family photo.

Wang Juanjuan said that she and her mother knew that as a nurse, when the country needed herself, she would go to the battlefield without hesitation.

Shortly after Wang Juanjuan worked, Peng Guangxiu retired due to cerebral hemorrhage. Wang Juanjuan also took over her mother's burden.

"I know now how heavy this burden is." She said.

When I met my mother when I was young, I wanted to say to her:

Time flies, and the years fly by. I always felt that I was still a child, but in the blink of an eye, I was already a mother of two children. I also have a deeper understanding of the two words of mother, and I also understand the thickness of these two words of mother.

Peng Guangxiu in his youth.

If I could travel through time and meet my mother when I was young, I would say to my mother that I love you. When you were young, you were too tired, so you should rest more when you have time.

Hello, Zhang Huanying

Kaili Zhang Huanying, the protagonist of the movie "Hello, Li Huanying" with the same name, this year is 66 years old, in her children have learned to be diligent and thrifty, and when children talk about their mothers, they will think of magical and loving words such as "dictatorship", strict management, enthusiasm and boldness, and a thousand cups of not getting drunk.

Zhang Huanying is a typical rural Miao woman in Kaili, who has raised three daughters and a son under her knees. At the age of 37, her husband died prematurely, and she took several children alone to pull the children against the acres and acres of the family.

Later, she married her current husband. The man regarded the four children as his own, and with hard work, he pulled the children up and cultivated them into talents, and the couple also supported each other to start a business in Kaili, and the family was relatively wealthy.

In recent years, Zhang Huanying has raised chickens, sold vegetables, and planted frozen mushrooms, fungus, etc. Because of her hard-working spirit, she has successively won the honors of Model Worker of Qiandongnan Prefecture, "March 8" Red Flag Bearer, and Top-notch Local Talents in Rural Areas of Qiandongnan Prefecture.

Today, several children have their own families, especially in their respective industries, and are considered leaders.

On the 7th, the reporter interviewed Pan Yuhua, the second daughter of the four children, who admitted that the success of their sisters was inseparable from their mother's strict tutoring.

Strict tutoring

The second sister, Pan Yuhua, is 37 years old and works in Leishan County, Qiandongnan Prefecture.

"Breakfast 5 cents, fare 1 yuan ..." Speaking of her mother, the second sister was extremely impressed by the strict tutoring, and from the time she remembers, her mother would give the three sisters and brother pocket money for the day's schooling every day, and it was basically rationed.

This was still the case after graduating from college.

The second sister remembers that she just graduated from college in 2008, and she had to go to the county to take the recruitment examination for public institutions.

When she was about to go out, her mother stopped her and stuffed a few hundred yuan into the second sister's bag.

"Hotel 150, round-trip fare 100, breakfast 10 yuan, lunch 15..." After the incident, Zhang Huanying carefully budgeted the cost of the round-trip county examination and the additional expenses.

That time, the second sister probably remembered taking 500 yuan from her mother. Subsequently, the mother habitually said: "Take a good exam, have a job, pay a salary, you have to pay back." ”

Zhang Huanying's family.

The second sister told reporters that it has become a habit for the mother to "keep accounts", and every time the bookkeeping will require the children to remember to pay back. However, decades have passed, and the children have never been collected from debt, but the mother often gives everyone red envelopes and welfare.

The second sister feels that it is the mother's habitual quantification and bookkeeping, and the sisters and brothers do not spend money indiscriminately from childhood. The management method of pocket money condensed the strictness of the mother's home teaching, and because of this, the sisters and brothers were very obedient, and they now have some achievements in their respective careers.

It is also because the mother manages the family and the family business in an orderly manner, and the big and small things in the family are basically made by the mother, which is the origin of strict management and dictatorship.

Passionate "Mom"

The second sister said that her mother has always been very enthusiastic about people, whether it is a customer or a relative or friend, as long as the mother is there, she has never been cold.

Guizhou has the custom of eating planing soup, that is, every year when the new year pig is killed, some relatives and friends will be gathered together, and the good new year pork will be stewed in a large pot, and everyone will talk about wine to celebrate the New Year.

In the back row is Zhang Huanying as a young man.

The second sister remembers that the 2015 soup can be called a banquet to entertain guests and friends, relatives and friends came and brought their seven aunts and eight aunts, and the mother clapped her hands and laughed when she saw the scene.

"Hahaha, there's so much coming." Under the "order" of the mother, the family boiled water, washed the whole pig, and stewed it all.

On May 4th, it was the first time in so many years that the second sister brought her good friends to her home for dinner. Upon hearing this news, my mother simply exploded.

"What to eat... How? "A phone call will be made to the second sister."

After a few friends arrived home, my mother pulled my second sister out to buy vegetables. The second sister told reporters that this was the first time she went to the street with her mother to buy vegetables.

"I'll pay, I don't want you to take care of it." The second sister said that every time she bought a handful of vegetables, she would be pushed away by her mother when she went up to pay for it. At dinner that day, the second sister did not even have the opportunity to pay for a garlic seedling.

Back at home, my mother made the whole rice and then brought the best rice wine to the table, and finally a few friends got very drunk.

Before it was over, my mother also specially prepared a face wash, and each friend sent one. Hair washing face paws in the Miao family is a kind of etiquette, often the host family will do when there is a major happy event, that day the second sister's friends not only drunk, each person also received a veil.

In the original words of the second sister's colleague: "My family asked me where to pick up my relatives and come back?" ”

Zhang Huanying is so enthusiastic about people, the second sister remembers her mother saying something similar, "As long as you are warm to each other, the other party will never give me a cold face." ”

Now Zhang Huanying.

The second sister believes that the business of the two sisters and brothers is doing well now, which is related to the general enthusiasm of "hair papier-mâché", and the sisters and brothers will always have great enthusiasm for their careers and customers, so that today, even during the epidemic period, there is an endless stream of door-to-door sales.

Resolve conflicts with a cheerfulness

Zhang Huanying's family loves to drink, but the basic ration is not bad wine.

As long as the family gets together, the indispensable thing on the table is wine, and the second sister says without exaggeration that the mother's wine is too much to take to the bath.

Wine has a special meaning in the homes of the Hmong people. People drink a cup every time they are happy, the mood is depressed for a whole cup, the work is tired to have a cup, feel wet and stuffy, so the Miao song in Qiandongnan often hears "dry a cup, dry a cup." ”

"Drinking outside is the bureau, drinking at home is called the atmosphere." The second sister said that everyone in the family can have two mouths, there is a happy event in the family, and the mother is naturally the first to serve the wine glass.

The second sister told reporters that the sisters in the family occasionally make some small troubles, and one year the sister and sister had some emotions because of the small things.

After the mother knew, she called the family home to eat, and the mother filled her cup at the dinner table.

"The whole family can drink wine, what is there to talk about?" Saying that a mouthful is dry, this is actually matching the sister and the sister, of course, the sisters also understand the spirit, but also pour a mouthful of wine and dry.

Share your honor with a few children.

"Come, have another drink." The mother is very good at things, and the parents at the dinner table are short and talk with everyone while drinking, until everyone is full of wine and food, she fills herself up again, and lets everyone continue to drink.

"Suddenly, the table was full of people running." The second sister laughed and described the scene to the reporter at that time, and the family was afraid of the mother's massive amount and all withdrew from the table.

Interestingly, the mother also added a sentence: "None of them have the true transmission of Lao Tzu." ”

It is undeniable that the mother's alcohol consumption is very good, whether it is a family banquet or with relatives and friends, it is generally drunk, and the mother is awake.

But the "drinking" hosted by the mother is the best embodiment of the family's communication of feelings and mutual help, many times, many things are solved on the wine table at home, and the family feels that such an atmosphere is very good.

Words to the mother

May 8 is Mother's Day, the second sister said that the mother raised their four children, but also worked hard for most of their lives, as a child, she only hopes that the mother will continue to maintain an optimistic and cheerful attitude, take care of her body, health and health.

Although there are fewer and more, you are the one who has influenced me the most

The years are like songs, and in the blink of an eye, it is another year of Mother's Day. Every year at this time, people want to do something to make the mother happy on this mother's day. As Ostrovsky said, in this world, we always need to repay the most beautiful person, and this is the mother.

Mom's love, hidden and great

On this special day, Guiyang citizen Ya Ya (pseudonym) wants to talk to everyone about her story with her mother...

Born in Guiyang in 1961, her mother's name was Wang Ying, an era of extreme scarcity of supplies but a rapidly growing population, with most families having more than three children. At that time, Nha's grandparents were busy making a living, and her mother, because she was the eldest daughter, had the responsibility of taking care of her two younger sisters since she was a child.

Fortunately, because of his work, his grandfather can get a lot of living supplies, and his mother has not been hungry since she was a child, but she basically has no time with her parents, which has also created a strong and independent character of her mother.

Since childhood, her mother has told her that the only thing that people can rely on in this world is themselves, and only when they are strong can they resist all risks.

Mom gave Bud a birthday.

Unlike most people in that era, Nha Ya Mom belonged to the early "Waking Water" people, when other classmates began to work after high school, and did not care much about the diploma, but Nha Ya Mom went to night school at the same time as working, completed her studies by herself, and obtained a college diploma.

In fact, the childhood of bud is the same as that of her mother, and to some extent, it also lacks the company of her mother, but what her mother gives to bud is another kind of maternal love after sublimation.

In 1994, Nha Ya was 6 years old and had just entered the first grade. Due to the poor family environment, in order to provide her with better living conditions and educational support, Nha Ya's mother chose to work in Guangdong, when the reform and opening up first came into effect, there were many job opportunities in the Pearl River Delta region, and she and several sisters met to "go south". You know, at that time, when the bud mother was 32 years old, she did not live in other cities at all except for tourism.

Later, when she asked her mother why she was so "fearless" at that time, she replied: "Because I have been poor, I have suffered from the indifference and white eyes of others in the most difficult times, that feeling is too uncomfortable, I don't want you to encounter such a thing in the future, since I gave birth to you, I will be responsible for you, fulfill the responsibility of a mother, and protect my children." ”

At that time, buds could not understand her mother's mood. "Although I am about the same age as my mother at that time, I know very well that I am not as brave as my mother. Perhaps only if I am also a mother can understand the mood behind such a sense of righteousness. ”

Gather less and leave more, but you are the one who has influenced me the most

Although it has been more than 20 years, she still clearly remembers that her mother comes back to accompany her every year during my winter and summer vacations, and for 12 months a year, they can only spend two months together.

All children love their mothers, all mothers love their children. This can be clearly known when she is a child, because she will envy other children to see their mother every day, and she can only save her thoughts of her mother and leave it for those two months.

Happy time for 4-year-old buds and mom.

"Mom is not the same. I remember that when I was eight or nine years old, I had begun to love beauty, but because I lived with my grandmother and father, dressing up was naturally ignored. When my mother was in Guangdong, she would buy me a lot of beautiful clothes and dresses to send to Guiyang, and at this time, I would feel very happy, just like when my mother took me to buy clothes. ”

It is said that a child with a mother is like a treasure, and during the two months that the mother was there, the bud was the happiest and happiest child in the world. This kind of gathering less and leaving more days also makes her regard maternal love as the most precious treasure, and there is a time limit for use, so she feels more deeply.

In this way, Nha Ya slowly grew up, because the partial mathematics was very poor, and every time her mother came back, she would tell her the importance of learning in a serious way, and even encouraged her with her favorite Korean idol group at that time, if her math scores could go up, she would take her to Korea.

Although in the end, budding mathematics still became a drag subject, but her mother did not blame her, but encouraged her to do what she wanted to do.

Mom (left) and friends go out to play.

When it came time to choose a major in the college entrance examination, Ya Ya's mother thought that journalism employment was too limited, and once suggested that she choose a finance or management major, but in the end, her mother still respected Ya Ya's decision, she also became a journalist as she wished, and her mother was even happier and proud of her in her heart.

"Looking back on my growth path, although I lack the company of my mother, my mother's love has always deeply affected me, and my mother has led by example, letting me know that being a woman should also be independent and self-reliant, not dependent, not self-contemptible."

If I could meet you then, I would tell you...

Bud: Mom, if I meet you at the age of 20, I will tell you that you are very good, you are very radiant. Although you were born in the era of economic backwardness and hardships, but you still try to do the best, your strength and bravery let you successfully pass through the difficulties in the future life, but if you have the opportunity, you should love yourself well, do not let yourself suffer so much grievances.

Bud: Mom, if I meet you at the age of 30, I will tell you that it is too hard to work south, and you have to think about it carefully. I know how many unimaginable tribulations you have experienced, countless robberies, countless rejections of job searches, and you have gritted your teeth to survive the most difficult years before you can gain a firm foothold. You bring the dawn to your family, but you let yourself spend one night after another in loneliness and fear in a foreign land.

Bud grew up and became "sisters" with her mother.

Nha: Mom, if I meet you at the age of 40, I will tell you that your efforts will eventually be rewarded, and when your daughter grows up, you can rest assured. Although she has not been with you much since childhood, your daughter loves you very much, she knows how much you have paid for this family, and she also hopes that when she is growing up, she can take on the responsibility of taking care of you, so that your busy steps will eventually stop and enjoy a relaxed and comfortable life.

"Finally, I want to tell you, dear mother, that I wish you a happy holiday, and that the person I love most in this world is you."

Planned by Wang Qi

Guizhou Daily Tianyan News reporter He Yongli Gao Qin Zhou Qiang Liao Shanghai Chen Li Huang Yingying

Edited by Piadan

Editor Liu Dan Luo Wei

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