On the day of my birth, I was almost abandoned by adults, and it was my mother's insistence that made me a happy person

In 1990, it was raining heavily that night,

A loud cry, I was born,

The adult outside the door looked at me, and his face showed an embarrassed expression.

Grandparents began to complain incessantly,

I was taken by my father to another strange place,

That night, I didn't notice anything different.

But just after giving birth, my mother searched for a whole night.

It's a story of love in grief.

01. Because I'm a girl

My family is in the countryside, in the countryside in the mountains,

There are three mountains in front of the house, one higher than the other,

Of course, my home is also halfway up the mountain opposite the three mountains.

In my memory, the village chief told the villagers to hold a meeting by shouting by voice.

I don't know if it's the loud volume of the village chief, or if the mountains here are too high, and I can hear several echoes every time.

The mountains isolate us from the outside world, although there is no money, but in the mountains we have rice to eat,

My mother also married into the mountains for this reason,

In the words of my mother: if you live in the mountains, you can eat rice.

The mother and father only met once and got married, and on the day of the wedding, my grandmother made a flower dress for my mother.

It was the first time my mother had worn a new floral dress, and my mother couldn't mention how happy she was.

Since then, my mother has lived with my father in the mountains,

Work at sunrise, rest at sunset, drink from wells, plough fields and eat,

My mother likes this kind of life and looks like this with the people she likes.

But the birth of children one after another broke the peace of happiness,

The first child born to the mother is a girl, and the second child born is also a girl,

The third child I had was me, also a girl.

I've seen the movie Wrestlemania! The people of "Daddy" must be able to imagine this scene,

Outside the delivery room, the desire of a group of people is like buying a lottery ticket to prepare for the lottery,

Everyone is looking forward to it, even at night, the people in the village have to stay outside and wait for the lottery.

Obviously, the answer is the same as adults expected, I was born, a girl,

Because there are too few stories to talk about in the village, and too few strange things to talk about,

When it was a girl for the first time, everyone didn't discuss it.

But when the second was a girl, everyone in the village and outside the village knew about it, and a chat was about this matter.

Some "well-meaning people" think of ways for their fathers, and some "well-wishers" have a set on the surface and a set behind them, just like giving birth to a girl, which is the biggest mistake in the whole village.

I was born, and when everyone knew I was a girl, it was a mess outside.

These "well-wishers" are trying to figure out ways for our family, as if this is everyone's business.

This matter must be handled well, otherwise everyone will be like insomnia.

02. I arrived at a strange place

I was born, and my mother lay feebly on the bed, and she clutched the sheets tightly,

The sounds outside are getting louder and louder,

This group of people can probably be divided into two factions,

One faction is to persuade the father: it's all right, another child is a boy,

How one faction "deals" with me: give this child away, whoever wants a girl.

The two factions quarreled, and the sound grew louder and louder as the night grew quieter, reverberating back and forth between several large mountains.

Finally the grandparents spoke,

So I was carried by my father to a strange place overnight,

I slept soundly and didn't even realize where I was and where I was going.

My mother woke up in the middle of the night and found that I was not around,

She asked my father where I was, and he said I had died prematurely.

The mother, in disbelief, got up from bed with difficulty and began to look around,

She couldn't find me, woke up my two sisters, and asked if they knew where I had gone?

That night, my mother was going out, and it was raining heavily outside, and the thunder was rumbling,

Mother walked on the muddy path by the light of lightning,

That night, the mother, who had always been gentle, she kept screaming like crazy,

Her voice drowned out the thunder, and she shuttled back and forth through several large mountains, alarming the sleeping villagers.

The people in the village woke up, they didn't open the door, no one paid any attention to my mother, they knew in their hearts that they couldn't handle this kind of thing.

An hour after my mother left home, my father, who was sitting on a bench, finally got up.

He rushed out of the house, looking for his mother by the sound,

Finally, on a slope, he saw his mother wrestling, and he went up to protect her mother.

The mother pushed her away and said: You go away, you have to send the child away, send me away!

The father finally cried, he hugged his mother, he kept saying that he was wrong,

He assured my mother that he would take me home and bring me to her.

The mother was also crying, her whole body was soaked, and she couldn't tell whether it was tears or rain on her cheeks.

The father picked up his mother on his back and walked crookedly on the muddy mountain road,

The mother on the back has been pleading with the father: "Be sure to bring your daughter back, I beg you".

When my father and mother returned home, the three mountains opposite had turned white.

The rain stopped, and the green leaves became greener under the irrigation of the rainwater.

After the father changed his mother's clean clothes,

My father, who was wet all over, was ready to go out,

But my grandparents blocked my father's way.

I came to a strange place,

Maybe I slept enough at night, and it was dawn, and I cried with all my strength,

No matter how the strangers around me coaxed me, I still cried,

Am I aware that this is not my home? Maybe!

I don't know how my father got out of the door, or what happened to him and his grandparents.

Because my father never mentioned it,

All I know is that from that day on, my grandparents never interacted with us again.

Eventually my father, mother, and we were forced to leave the mountains.

My father came to pick me up and I came home, and my mother took me in her arms, and I stopped crying.

I sucked my mother's milk, and my mother smiled.

03. After a few years, our family left these mountains

Because of my coming, my family became poorer,

In the past, grandparents would help take care of their two sisters and take care of the family.

Now, there is no one to help, and the grandparents have taken the most used cattle in the family.

Father became a joke in the village, some people ridiculed, some ridiculed, some bullied,

These mothers are all in the eyes, and even she feels that it is all her fault.

The family's paddy fields were released by the village when they needed water;

The crops that my parents worked so hard to plant were harvested by the villagers;

The number of chickens and ducks raised at home is getting less and less every day.

These fathers knew it, but he pretended not to know.

These mothers knew it, but she chose to be patient.

Finally the mother broke out, and the villagers bullied several of our sisters,

The mother became once again intolerant, and the people of the village shouted,

On that day, the father did not protect the mother, but together with the villagers, he blamed the mother,

I think my mother is unreasonable.

From that day on, my mother began to plan to leave these mountains.

Finally a few years later, my mother said that my father moved, and our family left these mountains that were higher than one,

We breathe in the air outside, and no one here cares if you're born a boy or a girl.

No one here will talk about the little thing in your house, and if you work hard enough, your life will get better and better.

In the years that we have been far away from several mountains, the family has lived happily.

Parents are industrious and capable, we seriously study knowledge,

Although we are not rich in life, the spiritual world is very rich,

Our sisters are not inferior because they are female dolls,

On the contrary, it is the love of parents, health and happiness.

Write at the end:

This is me, a once abandoned baby girl,

Because of the mother's insistence,

I became a happy person.

No one knows, what are those mountains?

Those mountains overwhelmed my mother and father,

In those days, in those mountains, how much grievance my mother had to endure.

My mother was a gentle and wise mother who turned her complaints into motivation and did everything she could to keep our family away from these mountains.

A few years ago, during the Spring Festival, I went back to the mountains.

Grandparents are gone, brothers and sisters of the uncle's family are married,

We're about the same age, and their kids are in junior high school.

Also because one child and two children are daughters, they also have to fight for three children,

It can be seen that these mountains have crushed the eyes of many people.

I want to thank my mother, because of her persistence, we came out of these mountains,

Because of her persistence, we are not crushed by these mountains,

Because of her persistence, our sisters became happy people.

Today is Mother's Day, and I thank my mother for having a great wisdom,

And wish all mothers, Happy Holidays, you are truly amazing.