Hou Zhao Li is a veteran
Also a military sister-in-law
In order to let the husband of shubian work with peace of mind
At the same time, there is no lack of children's growth points
She takes pictures every day to record the daily life of her two daughters
100,000 photos taken in 10 years
Bind some of the photographs into a booklet
There are more than 60 copies
He's guarding the border
Photos make up for "absent" love
Hou ZhaoLi was also a soldier before, and in line with the military plot, as well as her understanding of the military and her love for the army, she chose to marry Liu Tingfeng, a soldier on the side of the shubian, and became a military sister-in-law.
Last year, in order to better take care of her children's study and life, Hou Zhaoli moved from Xinjiang to Yangzhou, where her parents were located, and separated from her husband.
"The child's father has his mission, because the work is more special, no matter whether I am close to him or far, he can never take care of the family." Although I feel a little helpless, this is the responsibility and mission of the soldiers. Hou Zhao Li told reporters, "He is too hard, we ordinary people can not see and understand, he also wants to participate in the growth of children, if even I do not support him, he will have no momentum, I think I and the child is his motivation, so I should support his work." ”
Hou Zhaoli's idea is very simple: take good care of the children, educate well, take good care of the home, and the husband is at ease at the border.
Even if he was in Xinjiang before, he and her husband Liu Tingfeng were less and more separated. Liu Tingfeng usually has no way to participate in life to accompany children, do not want him to lack the witness to the growth of children, Hou Zhao Li through the mobile phone and Liu Tingfeng to share every photo of the children, want to let Liu Tingfeng in the most tired time psychologically relaxed, can better devote himself to work, so that his concern and thoughts about home can get some comfort.
Children grow up
Understand that Dad is defending the country
During the fight against the epidemic in 2020, Liu Tingfeng's unit belongs to the frontline epidemic prevention, which is both hard and very dangerous. He ate and lived in the office for months, and could not go home or see his children. I sleep up to two or three hours a day, sometimes not even a meal a day, let alone video with my family.
After a few months in a row, once Liu Tingfeng passed by the family home and called Hou Zhao Li in advance, asking her to tell the child that her father would pass by here later and could see his father through the window.
"At that time, the two children were lying there early and watching, only to see their father's back, shouted at their father, did not cry when they shouted, after the father walked over, one of the two children hid in the bedroom and cried, one sat directly on the floor of the living room and cried, crying very, very sad, at that time I did not know how to persuade, because they had not seen their father for a long time." Hou Zhao Li choked.
Nowadays, the 11-year-old daughter gradually understands that her father is defending the country and protecting the happiness of thousands of families, and she is also accustomed to the daily life of her father's absence. It's just that the 8-year-old daughter often asks her mother when her father can go home, whenever this time, Zhao Li's nose is sour, but she still comforts her little daughter and says: "When dad is busy for a while, maybe he will go home to visit his relatives..."
Wait for the child to grow up
100,000 photos were given to them as a dowry
In ten years, 100,000 photos record the bits and pieces of the two children from birth to the present, and contain a mother's deep love for her children. "In the future, I will show my children that when they are older, I will give them as a dowry."
After settling in Yangzhou, with two babies, Zhao Li got up at six o'clock every morning and began the busy day. Most of her time is to accompany the child to study together, because this is the first year from Xinjiang to Yangzhou, the eldest daughter learned the version of the textbook before the different, worried Hou Zhao Li and the child combed the knowledge points together, accompanied by the child to learn together, and even sometimes studied the math problems in Yangzhou, and then discussed with the children. "I'm their tutor."
Under the cultivation of Hou Zhaoli, the two children are lively and lovely, independent and autonomous, and can take care of themselves in an orderly manner, whether it is study or life.
At noon on May 7, the reporter called Liu Tingfeng, Hou Zhaoli's husband, and when he mentioned his wife and daughter, Liu Tingfeng choked up a little.
He told reporters that from kindergarten to primary school for his two daughters, he had not picked up and dropped off from school once, let alone participated in parent-teacher meetings and parent-child activities. Even when he got married, his vow to take his wife to see the sea had not yet been fulfilled.
As a husband and father, he was ashamed and guilty, but as a soldier, he was regretless and regretless.
"The only consolation is to chat with the children on the weekend, turn over the children's photos every day, this is the welfare that my wife gives me, it is a kind of comfort, it is an encouragement, it eases my thoughts about the children and the family, I am very grateful to her for all these years, taking care of the elderly and children in an orderly manner, this is my blessing, but also the child's blessing!" 」
Her husband has been working in Xinjiang for many years
Hou Zhao Li is alone with housework and children
But she had no complaints or regrets
Turn love for your country and husband into action
Prop up a home with love
Tomorrow is Mother's Day
Wish this ordinary and great mother
Happy Mother's Day!
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Jiangsu Radio and Television Rong Media News Center reporter / Ming Yuhua
Source/Correspondent Chen Ye Yuan Juan
Edited by Peach Sansan Rinko
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