People are old, and in the advanced living method, these three words are permeated

Life, ups and downs, life, a variety of forms. Can't keep the face, can't stop the time. In that hurried year, Gu Panjian had no more than him.

At different stages of each person's life, they have to face different selves. At different stages, the needs and expectations are not the same.

Although the grass and trees in this world are only open for a short season, they are also secretly storing energy in order to obtain the most beautiful blooms.

We have only come to this world for one lifetime, so we must live better. Slow down, no longer rush forward, set aside time for yourself, and slowly and steadily do what you like.

A person with a book and a pot of tea, leisurely, do not have to race with life, do not have to rush forward, fully immersed in their own world, quiet and comfortable.

Floating world, thin water long stream, red dust strange, green Luo whiskers.

Life is a practice, life is not easy, cultivation is coming, mountains and rivers can become more beautiful.

When you are old, the best state of life, hidden in these three words, please taste carefully. In this way, you can live your own world at the flick of a finger.

penetrate

Maupassant wrote in A Lifetime: "Life cannot be as good as you think, but it cannot be as bad as you think." Sometimes I may cry with a single sentence of vulnerability; sometimes, I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way. ”

The most important thing for people to live is to know the upper limit of their abilities and understand what they want.

Many times, only after we have experienced a dark life, we can be reborn from the fire to see more clearly what is most important.

After seeing through people's hearts and understanding human nature, we have become more cherished and cherished our families.

There is nothing wrong with living tacky, close to life, pay attention to health, not reluctantly, simple and simple, coarse tea and light rice.

When things are seen through, you understand how to move forward; when human feelings are seen thoroughly, you understand how to protect yourself; when family affection is transparent, you understand how to get along; red dust is transparent, and you understand that there is no need to force...

Everyone will go through an extremely difficult time, survive, life will suddenly open up, be defeated, and learn to shake hands with it.

put

Sanmao once said: "Give yourself time, don't be anxious, step by step, cooperate with your upward heart, and don't forget to be kind to yourself." ”

For people after 60 and 70, parents are old, their children are growing up, and they have worked hard all their lives, which has scarred and exhausted themselves.

In the old age, we must know how to be alone and learn to wash the past in silence. It's more important to learn to let go, give your child space, and give yourself time.

It's a pleasure to get your children and grandchildren around the knees, but remember not to get overly involved in your children's lives. For older people, being appropriately selfish is a way to maintain good boundaries with their children.

Children are not as vulnerable as you might think, and as adults, they have the ability to arrange their own lives. Your excessive concern will become a burden on him, so you might as well give yourself more time and grow up again with your children.

People are too close to each other, and it is often a disaster. This theory applies to everyone, including children and relatives.

Learning to let go of the hand, living rationally, not mixing with their small family, and only taking the handle when the children really need it, is not only a real care for the children, but also a responsibility for their own lives.

subtract

There is a sentence in the "Augmentation of The Sages": "The good fields are only three meals a day, and the Guangsha Ten Thousand Rooms only sleep on the bed for three feet." ”

When people reach middle age and old age, they must learn to look down on money and fame, reduce their desires, and do not be too greedy, otherwise it will be difficult to harvest water.

Reducing undesirable desires, learning to subtract life, not forgetting the form when proud, and not losing ambition when frustrated are the attitudes and life concepts that mature people should have.

Streamline those unnecessary circles so that you can't be tied up in unnecessary things. As Bai Yansong said in the speech "The Story of Time": "Some people desperately do addition in their 20s, but forget to subtract for life at a certain time." ”

The words that were originally speculated about repeatedly, but did not say them, after a while, have become meaningless; the things that were originally thought about repeatedly and made you grumble about not being able to do it, looking back, are just passing clouds.

Health and happiness is their own capital, life is actually not so long, not more true, not angry, should eat and sleep.

All our lives, we are simply paying for our own cognition. Don't waste time on calculations, it's rare to be confused, and it's delicious to live.

At this age, no one has to please. Live your life well, not hurriedly, not in a hurry.

Bai Luomei once wrote: "True love, light and light, flat and neat, quietly placed there, never need to work too hard." ”

Old love, old love, cut and tidy, do not have to pick up again. People are old, seven points cool and three points warm, in the precipitation of the years to learn the correct way of life, contentment and happiness, the rest of life can be stable.

Don't be entangled, go down, and at a certain age, learn to have a Yunshui Zen heart. Slow down the days and warm up the feelings.

Time has changed, and the vicissitudes have traces. The trivialities of life are fair to everyone, everyone has their own sufferings, and the long flow of water is life.

With a calm state of mind, we can learn to "penetrate, release, and reduce" in order to find the highest way to live for the rest of our lives in that place where the lights are dimmed.

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The world is so big, thank you, you can see me!

[Wen | Wei Wei'an: the pen has temperature, for the voice of emotion, an atypical writer who loves words, invites you to perceive life together]