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In 1999, the employer ran away, and the 22-year-old nanny insisted on raising two abandoned women: I would rather not get married, but what happened next?

"Mother is gone and there is a sister, and my sister will never leave you!" When Li Zeying made this promise to the two sisters who were crying heart out, she probably did not expect how difficult the road to relying on her two children was.

Li Zeying was 17 years old when she became a nanny sister, and Li Zeying was only 22 years old when she became a nanny mother. Along the way, how did Li Zeying go from not knowing anything to raising the two sisters who were not related by blood?

Sick abandoned sisters

Aunt Zhuo is a nurse at the Affiliated Hospital of Guiyang Medical College, and she had just left the evening shift that day, and while waiting for the bus, she vaguely heard the cries of babies on the street corner. She walked over and found a pair of abandoned babies under the stone bench, both girls. It was late autumn evening when the temperature was low, and the two children were cold and hungry, so they cried incessantly.

Aunt Zhuo recognized the bed sheets used to wrap the children, which were from their hospital. So Aunt Zhuo took the child back to the gynecology department of the hospital, thinking of contacting the child's family.

But as soon as others heard that these two children were thrown under the stone bench, they all advised her to forget it, and being thrown away showed that people did not want this pair of children, you contacted, people ignored you, and maybe they would be scolded. It is better to take it home to take care of it for two days and contact the child to contact a better orphanage, which is also a good thing.

Aunt Zhuo stared at the two children in her arms, thinking how to see how to have a relationship with herself, such a hug, she was a little reluctant. Then she suddenly thought of something, so she paid for a full body examination for the two children out of her own pocket. Sure enough, as she thought, there was something wrong with the two children, but it wasn't a big problem and could be cured.

Since this is a curable disease, and some people are willing to throw away their flesh and bones, it means that the child's parents cannot live a difficult life. Aunt Zhuo thought about it and went home.

Originally waiting for his wife to come home to eat at home, Mr. Zhuo was a little angry, and as a result, when he saw Aunt Zhuo enter the door, he had two children in her arms, and he was even more confused: "Child? Where did it come from? ”

Aunt Zhuo teased the children all the way, comforted the two children, and had already cultivated feelings, ignoring Mr. Zhuo's questioning: "Quick! Go get something to eat, the two kids are going to be hungry! ”

Since that night, the twin girls have stayed at the Zhuo family. The Zhuo family couple had been married for many years without children, and the two children were very pleasing, so they went through the adoption procedures, left the children around, and named them: Huan Huan and Xin Xin.

Love is definitely a good medicine in the world, and the small problems on Huan Huan and XinXin's body are quickly cured under the careful care of the Zhuo family and his wife. After recovering their health, Huan Huan and Xin are like ordinary children, they want people to sleep, they have to cry on the pillow, they must be held, and their faces are full of food. But the Zhuo couple loved the twins so much that they plunged headlong into the happiness of having children.

The Zhuo family suddenly became lively, but with happiness came trouble. The Zhuo family and his wife have never had children, and they are busy with parents for the first time. Usually, there is a newborn, and the adults are tossed and turned haggard, not to mention the Zhuo family. The neighbors saw that they were wearing two dark circles every day, so they suggested that they find a country nanny, cheap and experienced.

So, Li Zeying came.

Nanny sister

Li Zeying was born in 1977 in Shanhou Village, Gaozhen Town, Huishui County, Qiannan Prefecture, Guizhou Province, which is a well-known poor village in ten miles and eight townships. The infrastructure is backward, the educational resources are backward, everywhere is backward, young people often have to help the family farm after a few years of schooling, and when they are teenagers, they go out of the mountains to work in the city.

Li Zeying is also a member of this life trajectory, she came to Guiyang at the age of 16, she can only work part-time with low education, her income is unstable, one day her fellow villagers asked her if she could do the job of a nanny, and she responded.

Maybe it was Huan Huan who felt that she had been abandoned since childhood, only the Zhuo family and his wife hugged them, they were willing, and others wanted to hug them, they would all cry. But Li Zeying was particularly magically very close to the two children, Li Zeying hugged them to tease them, rejoiced and did not cry or make trouble, handed over the two sisters to Li Zeying, and the Zhuo family couple was also very relieved.

Can throw away the flesh and bones, presumably The birth mother of Huan Huanxin did not add much nutrition when she was pregnant, plus the twins would have competed for nutrition in the mother's fetus, so although Huan Huan and Xin Xin were already half a year old, they grew far thinner than their peers, Li Zeying felt that it was not OK, she had to find a way to raise Huan Huan Xin to be white and fat.

Although the Zhuo family can afford to hire a nanny, the wages of the Zhuo family are not high, and it is already very good to be able to feed a large family, and it is still a bit stretched to buy high-nutrition milk powder.

Li Zeying thought that in the past, in order to raise children's bodies, li Zeying would boil big bone soup, so Li Zeying also went to buy tube bones and take it home to boil soup. The old heat is boiled for a long time, and then the soup is mixed into the rice paste. Day by day, soon within half a year, the size of the two children jumped sharply, and the gap with their peers became smaller and smaller.

The growth of HuanXinxin made the whole family very happy, especially Li Zeying, somehow, obviously she has not yet reached the age of motherhood, but seeing Huanxin growing bigger and bigger, longer and stronger, there is an inexplicable maternal love growing in her heart.

Doom is at stake

Time flew by, and in the blink of an eye, Li Zeying stayed in the Zhuo family for four years, and Huan Huanxin was also four years old and went to kindergarten. Every day, two small sweet mouths call Li Zeying "sister, sister".

Li Zeying made breakfast for the two sisters every morning, combed the best horn braids for the sisters, sent them to school, picked up the sisters from school in the afternoon, came back to make them small snacks, and accompanied them to write homework in the evening.

The three of them are inseparable every day, and happiness is in the midst of a bunch of bland little things.

However, soon after, the Zhuo family and his wife had an emotional crisis, and Mr. Zhuo applied for divorce to Aunt Zhuo, and then moved out of the family of five.

Aunt Zhuo could not bear the pain of divorce, first washed her face with tears every day, and did not want to go to work. Later, the neighbors couldn't see it, so they thought of taking Aunt Zhuo to play cards and change their mood.

At the beginning, Li Zeying was also very supportive, playing cards to relax the mood, divert attention, maybe Aunt Zhuo can sweep away the haze and go back to work.

But later, Aunt Zhuo became addicted to cards, and she was uncomfortable every day without playing cards, and her mood was grumpy, and when she was serious, she would lose her temper with the two sisters for no reason.

Li Zeying is kind and does not want to think of people in the worst place, she feels that Aunt Zhuo is now cloudy and uncertain, all because she has been hit too hard, and it will be better to wait for a while.

However, contrary to her wishes, Aunt Zhuo's gambling addiction became bigger and bigger, and at first she only played for a few dollars, and then she got bigger and bigger. The family's expenses are not enough, and Aunt Zhuo often does not even go to class in order to play cards.

The family's economic situation is poor, and Li Zeying's salary has been delayed for many months. In fact, Li Zeying is just an ordinary person, she and Huan Huanxin are kissed again, she is always a nanny hired by this family, she also needs money to survive, and she did not leave this home, because she was reluctant to rejoice and no one to take care of her, suffering.

The days were so broken day by day, until the birthday of the two sisters, Li Zeying felt that there had been no happy event in this family for too long, and today he said that he should celebrate it well. Before picking up the sisters from school, she went to the cake shop in front of the station to customize the sisters' favorite cream cake.

When she got home, she was surprised to find that Aunt Zhuo did not go to play cards today, but cleaned up the house at home. Li Zeying did not think much about it, she thought that Aunt Zhuo was like her, thinking of celebrating the birthday of the sisters, so she deliberately did not go to play cards, but came back to decorate the house.

During the period, the two also talked and laughed, not knowing that this home with only a little warmth was about to fall apart in an hour.

After arranging everything in the house properly, Li Zeying went to the kindergarten to pick up the two sisters and go home. Along the way, the two sisters listened to the nanny sister say that they were going to celebrate their birthdays, bought cream cakes, and happily bounced all the way home.

Before they could enter the house, Huan Huan and XinXin shouted, "Mom! Mom! We are back! But no one answered. Li Zeying was suspicious, did Aunt Zhuo go out to buy something? The three of them decided to wait for Aunt Zhuo first and eat later, but they waited left and right, and waited until the afterglow of the slanting sun spilled through the window onto the cream cake that was about to melt, and there was no sign of Aunt Zhuo.

Li Zeying had to go out and look for it in the major chess and card rooms that Aunt Zhuo usually patronized, but there was none. Li Zeying had a vague sense of foreboding in her heart, she did not want to rejoice and rejoice and be sad, so she used the excuse that Aunt Zhuo had an urgent matter to go back to her hometown and wanted to prevaricate.

But the paper could not contain the fire after all, one night, Li Zeying got up at night, and before he could finish his hand, he heard an earth-shattering cry coming from the room. She hurriedly got up to go out to see, only to find two little ones standing in the doorway holding hands, sobbing loudly.

Li Zeying understood, the two children actually understood everything, knowing that after not seeing Aunt Zhuo for so many days, she must have gone and did not want them, and now what they are most afraid of is that the nanny sister will also leave them alone.

In the darkness, Li Zeying's eyes were filled with tears, and before she could feel sad, she hurried forward to hug the two sisters into her arms and tried to comfort her: "Don't cry! Mother is gone and sister, sister will never leave you! ”

It was 1999, Li Zeying was just 22 years old, she did not understand the meaning of motherhood, did not understand this heavy burden, but she understood one thing, that is, love.

help each other in time of need with what little we have

Years later, when facing reporters, Li Zeying commented on the reckless decision he made that year: "Before I was young, I didn't know how to raise children, and I thought it was just two pairs of chopsticks and two bowls..."

How can Li Zeying, who has not been involved in personnel, understand such a big thing as raising children, but she not only understands it clearly in her exploration, but also does a beautiful job in practice.

After Aunt Zhuo left, the house could not be lived. Because this house was originally a room for Aunt Zhuo's unit, but since Aunt Zhuo became addicted to cards, she rarely went to work.

Aunt Zhuo's unit has already given Li Zeying and the two children the maximum period of residence, Li Zeying has no employer, there is no income, she had to go to the suburbs of Guiyang to find low-cost housing.

Fortunately, the neighbors are very kind, can contribute, can borrow money to borrow money. Li Zeying quickly settled down in the suburbs with her children.

Both children are very sensible and have strong self-care ability, which makes Li Zeying, who takes two babies alone, save a lot of heart. In addition, Li Zeying's family also gave her a lot of help. Li Zeying's mother knew that her daughter had adopted the abandoned daughter of the employer's family, deeply understood, and praised her daughter for doing the right thing, and even sent her young daughter to Guiyang to help Li Zeying.

Although the days were poor and hard, Li Zeying and his two children were very happy and content. In 2001, the community street office where Li Zeying lived wrote a manuscript of her deeds and sent it to the local newspaper, and Li Zeying's story was published and attracted the attention of many well-wishers.

They sent children clothing and nutritional items, as well as school supplies and a considerable amount of donations.

Li Zeying was very grateful for the help of all the caring people, but she only accepted the school supplies sent by the well-wishers, and all other items and money were refused.

It can be seen from here that Li Zeying is not only a kind person, she is also a very self-respecting and self-loving person, and she teaches her two daughters: whatever can be earned with both hands, do not ask for it.

It is precisely because Li Zeying was born in a place where educational resources are scarce in dashan, and she knows that education is a stepping stone to change her destiny, so she has strict requirements for her two daughters in learning, but it is not that they are very top-notch in learning, but they must cherish the opportunity to go to school, and they must be serious and cautious about their studies. Huan Huanxin obeyed Li Zeying's instructions and took his studies seriously.

The family's life was calm again, and Li Zeying's personal problems were solved in 2002, when she was working in the hotel, she realized her current husband Liu Yi, the two are fellow countrymen, very chatty. However, Li Zeying always seemed hesitant when faced with Liu Yi's desire to further develop marriage. In her opinion, she must think about rejoicing, in case this man is not good for them, then she would rather not get married.

But after a long time together, she found that Liu Yi was a kind person like her. Soon after, the two stepped into the palace of marriage, and the two had a daughter after marriage. In this way, a family of five simply lived together.

In 2010, Li Zeying's story was reported by newspapers, so that Li Zeying's story of taking two children with an elderly child after his employer abandoned his daughter and did not raise them was known to the world. The local government named her a "national model of honesty and trustworthiness". This award is not only a spiritual reward, but also a material reward. The Central Civilization Office brought the family a total of 170,000 bonuses of additional income, and Li Zeying deposited the money in the bank, did not spend it, and set up a name for this money: the reserve fund for Rejoicing to go to college.

Huan Huan and Xin Xin listened to the words of "Nanny Mother" since they were young, she asked them to read good books, and they did it. In 2012, both sisters were admitted to a good university, and this good news brought Li Zeying a heartfelt relief and comfort to her hard work in the past ten years.

Today, the "nanny mother" has raised them for 23 years, and for Huan Huan and Xinxin, Li Zeying is their mother.

epilogue

When Li Zeying, who was only 17 years old at the time, entered the Zhuo family for the first time and saw the two sisters of Huan Huanxin, she could not imagine that these two girls would be tied up with her for a lifetime. A promise to soothe the sisters in the dark, Li Zeying has done it for more than ten years, she may not have a good education and come from a humble background, but she understands the great love of the world, which is enough for her to become a good mother.

bibliography

1. Xinhua Net: "In the world of nanny sisters, there is "unprovoked" love"

2. China Civilization Network: "The Central Propaganda Department and the Central Civilization Office Visited Guiyang in Guizhou to Pay Tribute to Li Zeying, a National Moral Model"

3. Communist Party Network: "The Deeds of Li Zeying, the Second National Model of Honesty and Trustworthiness"

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