Text: Flipping through the books in his spare time
"Honey, no one in the world can accompany you for a lifetime, if you can't find a reliance, please learn to get along with loneliness." 」
——Zhang Defen, "We will eventually meet love and loneliness"
Loneliness is a very special feeling.
If a person does not hate loneliness so much, he may be able to get along with himself more clearly about what his heart wants.
But we also know that being alone can sometimes be difficult. When people's emotions occur, no matter which one is happy, sad, excited, or depressed, they are eager to let the emotion have a place by sharing and talking.
We know how to use language, and when we master this tool of communication, loneliness becomes unbearable.
Unless one is no longer interested in anything.
Loneliness highlights the self while also stripping away emotional dependence on others.
So, if possible, when loneliness strikes, try not to match its rhythm and try to break it.
If we look at the development of life as we are pessimistic, we will eventually return to ourselves.
Look at how many people in the world are trying to postpone this from happening.
I think this effort is not meaningless, although we have to take the inner voice seriously, but this does not mean that a person should surrender to loneliness in advance because of some predestined ending.
We strive to make life full of warm emotions, which is not an escape from loneliness, but an exploration of the possibilities of life.
This reminds me of the story of "fools move mountains", sometimes, some things, people just lose in too smart.
For example, loneliness, we should not see through everything too early, and then let ourselves accept the "destiny". Perhaps, this kind of cleverness comes at an inopportune time.