Girls are almost 30 years old and have no object, waiting for people to ask the yellow broccoli are cold, the best way is to dress themselves, package themselves, reduce requirements, and sell themselves.
There are no ugly girls, only girls who are lazy and don't like to dress up. There are no stupid girls, only girls who don't want to go out. There are no girls who can't marry, only girls who don't want to marry. Relatives, friends, colleagues around you, casually say a word, you still lack an object, say something, minutes will be someone to advise you, think which boy is OK, go try a place, maybe it is the cabbage you want.
Marriage is everyone's own business, can not always passively sit and wait, even if the girl is a sought-after commodity today, can not be so passive, practice has proved that there is no ideal result. Or in the past, it was also excusable to have this kind of thinking, and now you can no longer hold on to the old idea that you are a girl and you are superior.
It is also an older single woman, who knows a little about the physiological conditions of men and women, and love is a special period of life, there is no need to look forward and backward, just like animal courtship, you can be desperate. Of course, to look at the object, such as a shy, know that he has the intention of getting married, just because the family does not have that condition, dare not fall in love, as long as his three views are basically the same as you, you can chase, and even stalk and beat.
Now society is not like before, women have the ability to be independent, do not have to rely on their parents, rely on men to support, can take the initiative to pursue what they want, is not ugly if they fail. Wang Anshi said: "If you do your best and strength, you can have no regrets." It means that as long as you do your best. If it didn't work out, you don't have to regret it. So if you see something good, go chase it. If you don't chase it, you chase someone else away.
Why don't women in their 50s like to be called aunts? I think it's the psychology that's at work. This person may think that he is still young, I am called an aunt, am I so old? It should be called the eldest sister. What people call them is actually related to the age difference between the other party and themselves. If your own age is more than 20 years older than the other party, you can give birth to each other, you can be regarded as the elder of the other party, what is wrong with calling auntie?
People want to be young, not old. Therefore, some people are very taboo about what others call themselves. If others call her aunt, she feels that she is much older and psychologically uncomfortable. In fact, when encountering this matter, it should be seen lightly. What others shout is just a title, can not change their own age, go with the flow, there is no need to worry about this. To call a person, to see what kind of relationship with the other person, strangers, try to shout younger. As the person who is shouted, don't care, don't be unhappy, shout what's not ok, and don't know, right?