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In an unpretentious local restaurant, a simple and warm wedding is in full swing. The wedding, which cost about 30,000 yuan, was a bit simple and unpretentious, but the groom's warmth and creativity were touching – he created a heartfelt short film and played it throughout the ceremony, making the whole ceremony imbued with an indescribable romantic atmosphere.
The bride, Fu Seoul, is only 25 years old, and she is wearing a plain wedding dress with a happy smile on her face. "There was another family planning for the wedding, and the only thing that video did was to silence their voices.
Fu Seoul commented, with a hint of disdain in his tone.
However, when she turned her head to stare at her husband beside her, her eyes flashed with anticipation and yearning for her future life. Liu Yi has always had a deep love for Fu Seoul, and he will write a deep love letter for her, telling her endless longing.
Whenever he goes on a business trip to the bustling city of Hong Kong, even if it is only for a few days, he can't bear it, and he desperately wants to take Fu Seoul to Hong Kong to enjoy the beautiful scenery there and share happy times.
There is no doubt that this is a sincere and deep love! Fu Seoul's mother was not satisfied with Liu Yi's hairstyle, and Liu Yi did not hesitate to cut off his long hair as a sign of respect for her.
After four months of sweet love, they finally walked hand in hand into the sacred marriage hall.
The atmosphere was full of laughter and laughter, and everyone's faces were filled with happy smiles. Looking back on Fu's childhood in Seoul, it was undoubtedly a time full of gloom. Her parents divorced at an early age, and since then, she has lived with her mother in a dim, damp rice barn.
In order to save electricity, her mother almost never turned on the lights, and the whole space was shrouded in darkness, as if even the glimmer of hope was ruthlessly swallowed up, so Fu Seoul spent countless nights in the dark, which also made her have a physical fear of the dark.
When night fell, she would huddle tightly in a narrow corner, trembling, and her eyes would look around in horror, for fear that something terrible might suddenly appear in the darkness.
The night was like a bottomless abyss to her, keeping her vigilant and fearful at all times.
She then began to live in a confined space with her grandmother, who was very strict with her teachings and constraints. The family often welcomes the children of some relatives to live together, and they always ruthlessly occupy the limited living resources of the family, while Fu Seoul can only wait and watch quietly on the sidelines.
This environment never made her find the warmth of home, and she once recorded this sentimentally in her diary: "During this long time, I endured indifference, accusations, expectations, and many demands almost all the time, and I never really experienced the warmth of family affection, and I didn't even know what it was like to be hugged and kissed tightly." ”
Young children have a keen sense of discernment and are quick to identify undesirable children from their classmates and bully them. Fu Seoul, who was often ostracized from school, once described in detail in her diary a harrowing experience: "During my bitter childhood, I was forced to drink dish soap and chew bubble gum in other people's mouths.
Recalling that unbearable past, her eyes revealed deep sentimentality, as if she was once again in that tragic time and space.
Poverty, neglect, bullying...... The various hardships encountered in the process of growing up firmly bound Fu Seoul like a hideous claw, and her heart was devastated.
These scarred memories have become a heavy burden and obstacle on the road of her future life.
However, just when Fu Seoul was in deep trouble, Liu Yi, a kind and optimistic man, quietly walked into her life, like a warm beam of sunshine, bringing her a new hope and rebirth.
In stark contrast to Fu Seoul's experience, Liu Yi's childhood life was unremarkable, like that of thousands of children in ordinary families, with mediocre academic performance and no special standard of living, neither outstanding nor useless.
He's like the most inconspicuous male classmate in the class, and you can't even imagine him being involved in any pranks.
Before meeting Fu Seoul, Liu Yi had an unforgettable relationship, when they met since childhood and were admitted to a well-known university in Beijing together. Fu Seoul studied at Beijing Forestry University, and her boyfriend is from Peking University.
However, this fiery relationship did not last long, and unfortunately ended in failure. In fact, the root cause of the breakdown of their relationship is not external pressure, but a serious communication problem between them, and the common interests and topics that once shared have faded over time.
Just when Liu Yi was at a deep emotional trough, he met Fu Seoul. For Fu Seoul, who has already suffered psychological trauma, Liu Yi's sunny and warm personality undoubtedly gave her the strength to rekindle hope and courage in life.
She seemed to see a new dawn in her life, and the haze in her heart began to gradually dissipate.
Initially, Liu Yi's feelings for Fu Seoul were significantly deeper. He would write affectionate love letters to her, revealing his endless thoughts for her. Whenever he goes to Hong Kong on a business trip, even if it is only a short parting, he will feel extremely missed, and he is eager to take Fu Seoul to his side immediately, enjoy the beautiful scenery of Hong Kong together, and share the joy of family.
In the face of Liu Yi's sincere love, the ice that had been heavily shaped in Fu Seoul's heart began to slowly melt. There is no doubt that this is true love! When Liu Yi knelt on one knee and solemnly proposed to her, Fu Seoul was full of joy and accepted his request without hesitation.
Immediately afterward, their relationship underwent a severe test by their mother. Fu Seoul's mother didn't like Liu Yi's hairstyle, but in order to win his mother's approval, Liu Yi did not hesitate to shave his own hair as a way to express his deep respect for Fu Seoul.
After four months of passionate love, with the blessings of relatives and friends, they finally entered the sacred marriage hall and opened a new chapter in their lives.
However, life after marriage is not as good as they once expected. After tying the knot with Lao Liu, Fu Seoul decided to devote himself to his family's creation and study for a master's degree, focusing on his personal career, and the family's financial responsibilities fell on Lao Liu alone.
Just one year later, their baby son Dole was born, and the originally warm and peaceful world of the two came to an end. The arrival of the newborn has undoubtedly brought them endless laughter, but at the same time, it has also brought more pressure to the already tight life.
In the current context, the couple must work together to find a place to live in cramped space and struggle to pay off the high mortgage.
Sadly, the days ahead are even more brutal. As the only son, he had to shoulder the heavy responsibility of taking care of his parents, and the huge medical pressure made the already stretched family life more difficult.
During that time, Fu Seoul lived an extremely embarrassing life. In order to save money, she did not buy a new dress for three years, and could only live in the old clothes left by her mother-in-law.
Like the most unpretentious poor woman, she daily expects her husband to bring in more income so that he can live a somewhat decent life.
However, Lao Liu's character is content with the status quo, and in the face of his wife's worries and uneasiness, he always responds with a calm smile and comforts Fu Seoul with ease, saying that "there will always be bread". However, where does bread come from? Lao Liu could not give a convincing answer to this question.
The burden of life plunged Fu Seoul into a deep postpartum depression and anxiety, and her emotions fluctuated and she had difficulty controlling herself. One day, they went out shopping together, and Lao Liu took a fancy to a hat with a price tag of up to 200 yuan, and his heart was full of desire for it.
However, when he proposed to buy it, Fu Seoul immediately broke out into strong opposition, and the two had a heated argument in the mall, and the atmosphere was extremely embarrassing for a while.
In the program "36 Questions", Fu Seoul frankly expressed his views to Lao Liu, "I believe in your personality qualities, but I have doubts about your ability. She went on to explain that although Lao Liu is a kind person, this kindness does not satisfy her pursuit of an ideal life.
As a brave modern woman, she aspires to have her own career and live a decent and prosperous life.
However, the current predicament has made her doubly disappointed. The pressure of life, mental distress, and confusion about the future all made Fu Seoul have an unprecedented sense of imbalance in his married life, and the undercurrent of marital conflicts began to stir at this moment.
After several years of baptism, Fu Seoul's acting career has gradually emerged, and her figure is active on the stage of many well-known variety shows, and with her outstanding eloquence and extraordinary philosophical thinking, she has won the highest honor of "BBKING" and become the focus of attention.
However, in strong contrast, her married life with her husband Lao Liu is in an unprecedented imbalance.
In many TV shows, we have witnessed many touching moments of Fu Seoul's affectionate tears, although she has always tried her best to hide the pain in her heart, but the sadness in her eyes is difficult to hide.
However, surprisingly, in the face of Lao Liu's carefully prepared anniversary gift, she was not moved in the slightest; Similarly, when Lao Liu sang the classic song "Small Town Girl" affectionately, she was able to stay calm, and only responded lightly: "Maybe I should go to the training course of the 'Niu Class', so that I can make greater progress in the field of singing."
Her tears were simply because she felt sorry for the trauma and bitterness she had experienced.
For Fu Seoul, the contradiction between him and Lao Liu is irreconcilable. The reason why they have come to this situation is largely due to the huge gap in life philosophy and values.
As a brave modern woman, Fu Seoul aspires to have her own career and live a decent and prosperous life; However, Lao Liu was too content with the status quo and lacked enterprising spirit to meet her expectations.
Marriage does not have to be the sole purpose of happiness, and divorce is also about pursuing true happiness. In the program "36 Questions", Fu Seoul expressed his opinion unreservedly: "Women should not only revolve around men, and similarly, men should not revolve only around women.
She was convinced that such a married life had long since lost its original meaning.
After careful consideration, Fu Seoul finally made a firm decision to divorce and began to find a new path in life for himself. In order to achieve this goal, she even did not hesitate to participate in a reality show, in which she frankly expressed her thoughts to Lao Liu and resolutely announced the decision to divorce.
In this way, this couple, who once had a beautiful marriage, finally chose to part ways after experiencing the trials of life, and each embarked on a new journey in life to chase a nobler and more distant dream in their hearts.