Galton in England did an experiment in which he studied two questions: First, if the parents were taller or shorter, would their offspring be the same? The second is the question of grades, which people are very concerned about: if parents have good grades, can their children maintain such grades?
Experiments have shown that if parents are very tall or very low, then their children have a high chance of deviating from normal levels, they may be taller or shorter than the average person, but they will not be as tall or as low as their parents.
The growth of children is also in line with this trend: the higher the achievement of parents, the higher the probability of children's achievement is 36%. Although this possibility is much greater than that of children in ordinary families, it is also a phenomenon of returning to normal.
In other words, regardless of the parents' height and achievements, the direction of their children's development will be biased towards the "majority".
Most people in this world are mortal.
We expect our children to be successful and excellent, which is understandable, but it is very difficult to make this idea full of hope and blessing a reality.
Only by accepting the ordinary can we live an extraordinary life. Being able to feel love, experience happiness, and exert the greatest value of life in ordinary life is the greatest success of a child.
Let the child become a happy ordinary person, no shame! Many parents, throughout their lives, struggle to achieve such goals. Children are excellent, we are happy, children become the inconspicuous majority, and parents should not panic and be annoyed.
No matter what kind of life state, children try their best, we have worked hard, so that life can bloom in the process of companionship and joint efforts.
Zhou Guoping once said: "Everything in the world is extraordinary, and in the end it must return to the ordinary, and its value must be measured by ordinary life." Great, wonderful, successful is nothing, only the ordinary life is really good, life is complete. ”
As the saying goes, "Good medicine is good for the sick, and good advice is good for the ear." ”
Regarding family parenting, if you have more insights, you can leave a message in the comment area to communicate~
Share articles with friends and family who have children around you to help them improve family relationships.
——————————
[Author of this article]: Director Li of Orangutan Village
[Original Statement]: Some of the content of the article is excerpted from the Network, if there is infringement, please contact the author to correct and delete.
[Column Introduction]:
"Orangutan Ball Has Something to Say" is a parent-child education column of the new media channel under "Orangutan Ball Village". We aim to help more families improve their parent-child relationship and let the flowers of the motherland have a good childhood.
For more content, click on your avatar to follow us.