Many mothers and fathers do not have extra time to accompany their children, and will go to special training institutions to ask their sister-in-law to help.
But the news of the media reporting that the sister-in-law abused the child is frightening, and I really don't know how to hire a good sister-in-law?
These few questions can test whether you have really found a treasure.
Please ask the sister-in-law to either introduce through acquaintances, or search from the Internet for which training institution has a higher score, or find a satisfactory sister-in-law through other channels.
Regardless of which method, we must first let the sister-in-law provide id cards, induction certificates, and health certificates.
Needless to say, the ID card contains basic personal information, you can know whether the age of the sister-in-law is older, whether there is the physical strength to engage in this job.
The induction card knows where she received her training and checks the training location online, and when you have time, you can consult in person.
The health certificate can know whether the sister-in-law has a physical illness, and the effective date of this certificate is generally one year, which should be seen carefully.
There are no questions about these few, we are going to officially enter the questioning session of the interview, and these questions must be asked.
First, introduce the work content of the day
Many people are very confused, the content of the day's work, not a sister-in-law can also answer it.
Shouldn't we ask questions with higher gold content? It's like 1+1=appearing on the college entrance exam paper? The answer is simple.
But there are still many people who dare not easily write down that number, and many question marks will appear in their minds: Is it really so simple? This is a college entrance examination paper, is it not a joke? Such a problem that even kindergarten children can calculate, but there will still be many people who lose points.
So sometimes the more ordinary the problem, the more it can reflect a person's ability. A good sister-in-law will answer this question and arrange the day's work properly, and even what time to do, she will have a number in her mind.
By answering, you can also observe the person's expression and communication skills, and properly understand her family conditions, whether there are any other loopholes.
Second, what to do if the baby makes trouble at night
Most mothers have experienced the situation that the baby does not sleep at night and tosses people, often making us very tired, and this problem also plagues many mothers.
You can ask, when the sister-in-law encounters this problem, how does she usually solve it? The answer of a good sister-in-law will generally be particularly thoughtful.
Children crying at night are roughly divided into two situations:
One is physiological, that is, the reason why the baby cannot sleep is hungry, hot, cold, urine, thirst, etc., these situations should be certified.
If none are likely to be pathological in the second case. The baby's body temperature is not too high, there are no symptoms of cough and fever, once found, tell the baby's mother in time to go to the hospital for a step by step examination.
This situation should also be taken into account, the baby is not sleeping next to the mother, can not adapt at once, it is easy to lack of security, at this time we need to spend more effort to coax the baby, give him a little warmth.
Third, how should the baby bathe
Newborns have very soft limbs, and they are afraid that they will be hurt if they are not careful. A good sister-in-law's answer will take into account some details.
For example, adults and children have different perceptions of water temperature, and they should use the baby's small feet to test the water temperature before going into the water; what things to pay attention to when cleaning up private parts; the towel that rubs the baby's body should be warmed in advance.
If some sisters-in-law are vague and want to pass the puzzle, many parents should reconsider whether this sister-in-law is worth reusing.
The baby is still young, many things can not be expressed in words, can not get information from their mouths, so Bao Mom and Dad asked this sister-in-law to observe carefully from all aspects before finding a satisfactory sister-in-law.