Today I saw a dynamic, the title is written like this: "After giving birth to a baby, I collapsed at 3 o'clock in the morning", after reading it, I was very touched inside, because I am also a mother.
The content is like this: during the confinement period, I am afraid that the old man is too hard, so I go back to my home, during the day my husband goes to work, I invite my sister-in-law who works the day shift, and my husband comes back at night to take care of the baby with himself. But the baby is very quiet when others hold it, as long as they hold it themselves, they cry endlessly, crying so much that their mothers have collapsed and stayed up until 3 a.m. and have not slept.
1. Sigh that my husband will have to go to work tomorrow, and he will stay up late with himself, so hard!
2. Sigh that the baby does not sleep all night, holding is also crying, breastfeeding is also crying, do not know how to do it, the heart is so helpless!
3. Feel that you work hard to take care of your baby every day, sleep 3-4 hours a day, and leave the only bit of breast milk. The distressed baby can't even eat the mother's milk. Don't know what to do?
The tears could not be held back any longer.
This dynamic triggered the hearts of every mom, and the comments section exploded. I myself was deeply touched, thinking in my heart: "Every mother is too difficult, and she has given everything for the baby." "I cried at the thought of myself.
When my baby was born, it was my husband and my mother-in-law who took care of me, my husband was also at work, and I and my mother-in-law at home took on the responsibility of taking care of the baby and me.
It would be summer, and during the hospitalization, the doctor suggested that we use diapers for the baby and then use diapers when the baby is older, so we use diapers all summer.
As a result, the task of washing diapers is the mother-in-law's.
The mother-in-law said, "You just have to take good care of the baby." The rest don't need you to care" As soon as the baby cried, the mother-in-law was in pain, more anxious than my mother, and has been carefully taking care of her grandson.
Baby diapers have to change many pieces a day, plus my son has been peeing every few minutes, sometimes just change the diaper to pee, sometimes just ready to change the diaper, not yet done, all wet on the bed, hands, body, absolutely. That's how my son pees, the diapers can't be changed at all, and the diapers are a pile as soon as they are washed. #换尿布 #
Especially to clean the baby's poop, with laundry detergent can not be cleaned down, the mother-in-law said: can only be rubbed down with soap. The mother-in-law washed it for 3 months. After that, I used diapers, so I didn't have to wash my diapers.
The clothes were also washed by my mother-in-law.
My son's clothes, including my pajamas, were washed with the help of my mother-in-law, but fortunately the summer clothes were easy to wash, and the baby only wore a top, all of which were small short sleeves and small vests.
When the baby is small, it is easy to spit up milk, coupled with the summer is easy to sweat, the baby's clothes also need to be changed in time, washed, kept dry, and hygienic.
The baby often pulls the poop and the mother-in-law helps to clean it up.
When the baby was first born, it was so small, I didn't dare to move, I was afraid to hold the baby and fall off again, and my husband didn't dare to hold it. When the baby pulls the "stinky", it is cleaned up by the mother-in-law, and my new mother will not. Finally watched my mother-in-law clean up and slowly learned.
(When cleaning the fart for the baby, first wipe it clean with a cotton soft towel, then gently wipe it with a wet wipe, and then wash it with water to keep the fart clean, hygienic, dry, do not cover, easy to red ass, eczema.) ）
I remember my husband always shouting, "Mom! Baby pulled, help over and deal with it. "After that my husband ran away and said stinky, alas! My husband is also unreliable. Only the mother-in-law is the most reliable.
Several meals a day are brought by the mother-in-law.
My meals are all cooked by my mother-in-law, who does not cook in a different way like a sister-in-law, but every day according to the confinement period, "What can't I eat?" What can I eat? "Prepared, I am very grateful to my mother-in-law.
Week 1: Eat light, not greasy;
Week 2: Nutritious soup, toning the body, (my mother-in-law specializes in how to make rib soup)
Week 3: Replenish qi and blood, and have a diversified diet, including fruits, vegetables, and fish soup. (My mother-in-law put the fruit in porridge and let me eat it hot.) ）
The mother-in-law said: drink more water, drink more soup, eat less and eat more meals, eat 5-6 times a day, "milk".
That's basically how I confinement.
At night, my mother-in-law slept with me, because the baby cried at night, and I couldn't handle it myself.
The baby is fine during the day, especially staying up at night, waking up countless times in one night. Either poop or breastfeeding, or wet and uncomfortable. So the night is the time when the baby is most tired of motherhood.
I slept very lightly, and as soon as the baby cried, I woke up, and I didn't know that I had been thinking about the baby in my heart, so I didn't fall asleep at all. Anyway, my son hummed and chirped, I woke up, sometimes the baby hummed a few times, fell asleep on his own, made me wake up and sleep again, sleep and wake up, it was a collapse.
Fortunately, there is a mother-in-law next to me, and when I can't sleep, my mother-in-law can also help me, otherwise I don't have to sleep all night, because I usually can't sleep, and my mother-in-law will fall asleep for a few minutes. But I generally don't wake up my mother-in-law at night, I can handle it myself, really the baby can't cry, and the mother-in-law is also woken up.
So I especially thank my mother-in-law for taking care of me and the baby after giving birth and not making me feel helpless. Thank you! Thank you