The baby is more than three months old, he needs to return to work (currently working from home), there is no way but to find an aunt to take the baby.
However, on the third day of my aunt's arrival, I found a problem, the child was at home with wide eyes and looked very energetic, but after being carried out by the aunt for more than ten minutes, the child fell asleep. When I woke up, my eyes were unconscious, I had been dazed, and I didn't respond to my screams, and I felt a little strange.
To put it bluntly, I suspect that the aunt fed the baby sleeping pills, after all, there has been similar news on the Internet, what should I do?
This is a mother on the Internet to initiate a request for help, I understand her mood, after all, the baby of more than three months will not express, if the aunt in a state of no one, to the child with sleeping pills, if not carefully observed, it will be difficult to find.
Is there a good solution?
Don't tell your aunt about this matter directly, and don't show doubts, in my experience, although my aunt has a high salary, her quality is uneven. A good aunt can take the baby as her own child, and a bad aunt can do anything, and it is not too much for the mother to have such doubts.
First of all, we can't directly determine that the aunt fed the baby sleeping pills, because for babies who are more than three months old, sleep is not regular. Some aunts are very experienced, as long as they hold the baby in their arms, they can quickly fall asleep, and they are particularly well-behaved when they are awake, which may be the aunt's superpower.
Secondly, try to arrange the place where the baby sleeps, in a place where you can see at any time, and don't give the aunt and the baby too many opportunities to be alone. Moreover, consciously or unconsciously, they suddenly broke into the baby and aunt's room to see the aunt's reaction. If the aunt is very calm, there is basically no problem, and if the aunt suddenly panics, she needs to increase her suspicions.
Finally, it is recommended that every once in a while, take the baby to the relevant hospital for development assessment, see if the child has any development lag, whether there are special performances, in the chat process with the doctor, you can find a lot of answers. Moreover, doing so is also putting pressure on the aunt.
As long as after a period of observation, it is found that there is no substantial evidence, it means that there is no problem, because doubt can not be used as evidence, perhaps they have thought too much.
Please aunt should pay attention to what?
First, find a professional intermediary
Be sure to understand the level of the local intermediary, it is best to chat with the mothers who have used aunts, or search online to see how the reputation of the intermediary is. Moreover, be sure to sign a contract with the intermediary, such as the aunt is not satisfied with the change at any time, and can be refunded at any time after the replacement.
Moreover, it depends on whether the aunt has a certificate, because these certificates are recognized by the state, the professional level is guaranteed, there will be credit inquiries before the issuance of the certificate, and the personnel with criminal problems are refused to issue certificates.
Second, install a camera at home
The purpose of installing the camera is to supervise the aunt, this does not need to be embarrassed, the professional aunt does not care, only the thief will be disgusted with the camera.
Moreover, in case something happens, there is a video recorded by the camera, and the matter can also be restored, which protects both the baby and the rights and interests of the aunt, because the baby's problem is not necessarily the aunt's fault.
Third, carefully observe the baby
Many things should be observed from the details, such as the baby's daily state, how much to eat, how much to pull, how long to sleep, how much diaper to use, and so on.
The more you care about the baby, the more your aunt dares not be sloppy, if you don't care about yourself, it is easy to give the bad guys an opportunity. Therefore, it is necessary to observe and record every day and grasp the status of the baby at any time.
Written in the end: the heart of harming people must not be there, the heart of prevention is indispensable, after all, there is no blood relationship between the baby and the aunt, and the Internet has also reported the news that the aunt hurts the baby, so it is still good to leave some hearts and eyes.
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