Text/Xuan Xiaolei
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Seeing a report about the prototype of "Dear Child", the prototype of Fang Yinuo in the play is more bitter and tragic, giving birth to two sons with her husband, her husband has a bad temperament, and there is a tendency to domestic violence.
After divorcing her two sons and having leukemia with her eldest son, she was alone, and there were not as many people who loved them in the play. However, many people donated money to help, and later she had another child with her ex-husband, but she did not save her eldest son, and the eldest son eventually died.
When watching the show, many people in the first episode said that it was too real, too depressing, selling anxiety, and the appearance of chicken feathers.
In fact, most people in married life are like that, the state after giving birth to children is also similar, and the collision of different living habits of the elderly, if the husband is lazy or sloppy, the powerlessness and sensitivity in the month, the hand to take care of the child, and the contradictions and conflicts with people.
It is a very realistic life, of course, it does not mean that everyone's life is like this. The point is that the real-life prototype is much more bitter than Fang Yinuo.
Because in reality, many people's lives are cruel and not easy. And the play adds a lot of love components, so that people feel the power and warmth of love while experiencing that life is not easy.
For example, the XiaoLu family, although the high color screen is not very reliable, all kinds of bad habits, and no culture, but kind. Xiao Xu was lazy and unmotivated, but his heart was not bad.
Even Xiao Lu, the ex-husband, although he disappointed Fang Yinuo and divorced, his character was not too bad, and there were only some minor problems.
When he learned that his child had leukemia, he also went all out and did his best to pay for it.
Fang Yinuo's parents also love their children, in addition to the mother is a bit strong and picky, but also a loving family.
Xie Tianhua's family, the parents are very kind, gentle, for this daughter-in-law and the children she brought, they are also very attentive to treatment, as the biological treatment.
The eldest sister's mouth is not sparing, very powerful, but that is also because she loves her family and maintains her family, which is only a matter of temperament, and her character is not a big problem.
Even those supporting characters are good people. Probably the screenwriter wants to make people feel that life is very hard, but we should see that there is love in the world, so that we have the courage to face suffering and impermanence.
For example, Xie Tianhua in the play, not only does not care about the woman he marries with the children of her ex-husband, not long after marriage, the children are sick, the wife wants to have another one with her ex-husband in order to save the children, he loves their mother and daughter, he said that he can accept this matter.
For the role of Fang Yinuo and the prototype, Xie Tianhua's existence will be a particularly important person, a woman with two children alone, and a person who loves her wholeheartedly and takes care of her children as if they were her own children.
Unfortunately, there is no such man in the prototype of reality, but this does not mean that there is no such person as Xie Tianhua in reality, many times we ourselves may not have the charm and personality that makes people love desperately, and do not have that kind of virtue.
It may also be that there are people who appear but we do not find out and miss them, and may even look at people by their appearance and look at the outside, thus missing the truly precious people.
Just like the "One Flash and One Shining Star" watched a while ago, Zhang Wansen, the "crush ceiling" in the play, was lamented by many people as "why can't I meet such a person", in fact, is it possible that we have such a person, but we don't know, or we don't accept it for some worldly reasons?
For example, there is a crush or a single love for us, originally a person who has passed the character and sincerity, but we think that the other party looks average, or thinks that the other party's conditions are not good, or feel that the personality is not interesting, so we reject, ignore, and ignore.
Therefore, in order to harvest such a person, we also have to examine whether we have the wisdom to do it. Is there bias? Is it too narrow and too worldly?
So, if we don't meet true love and warmth, don't be in a hurry to complain or be cynical, in fact, there are still many good people in the world, many people who are worth relying on and trusting.
There are naturally "stepfather ceilings" like Xie Tianhua, and the key is to see if we can meet, discover, and attract each other.
You must have something that is worthy of the other person's love, which is not necessarily ability, talent, but also hard work, kindness, virtuousness, gentleness, strength and other qualities.
At the same time, you must also pay attention to whether there are such people who have appeared, but you have relentlessly refused, abandoned, maybe people are temporarily poor, maybe people are temporarily a little fat, or looks are not the one you like.
If you miss the person who helps you love you and cares for you, it is your own problem, not because there is no love in the world, not because there is no truth in the world, but because you do not have the blessing to grasp and enjoy.
Of course, loving this thing is also mutual, no matter who you get along with, you should give to each other. It may also be difficult to just wait to be loved and taken care of, to get and take.
Just like Fang Yinuo, after she and Xie Tianhua are together, she also has to pay, such as tolerating his sister's various difficulties with him, maintaining the harmony of the family, in order to get along smoothly and happily, she will also actively perform, get along with everyone politely and warmly, and also get up early to cook to please everyone.
In short, we all have the opportunity to meet people who are worthy and truly love us, provided that you yourself are also worthy, and know how to recognize and cherish.