Let love be full of "ritual" small things, learn these few things, and make your love happier
We often say that love needs a sense of ritual, which means that love cannot always be plain and ordinary. Too ordinary love will make our lives tasteless, we choose a person to enter our own lives, it shows that we hope that his existence can bring freshness to their lives, bring them the fun they did not have. So in love, everything we do needs to be full of ritual to make our love more happy.
The first is to take an outdoor trip in the spring and summer.
It's always said that the test of whether a guy meets your life's standards is to take a trip with him. After all, in the process of travel, two people have to get along day and night every day, so the shortcomings of both of you will be particularly clearly seen by the other party, and then you will suddenly find out whether the other party is the right person for you. You go to travel or talk from morning to night, the two people in the early stage of the relationship will increase their understanding of each other, and the person in the middle of the relationship can also test whether the other party is the person you are worth trusting in your life.
Second, a concert or a small movie can bring interest to feelings.
Two people who want to increase the small interest of life, go to the playground, concert or go to a favorite movie together, is a particularly fast way. Sometimes a movie can bring two people different feelings, or spiritual resonance.
The two people have different interests and hobbies, but this movie can let you have a common topic, and at the same time, he can add some small sweetness to your love, and the old-fashioned dating method needs to change after all.
Third, paying attention to the small details of life is the sense of ritual.
Any small detail in life is full of rituals, and the key is that we need a pair of eyes to find it. For example, when she goes out, she helps you tie your tie, which is a sense of ceremony; when you walk, you deliberately crouch down to help her tie her shoes, which is a sense of ceremony; after work, the affectionate embrace of two people is also a sense of ceremony. Pick a specific day and take a set of photos together so that you can have more details of your memories later. In short, the sense of ritual can be fully reflected in all aspects of our lives, as long as we observe with our hearts and prepare with our hearts, we will find it.
epilogue:
Someone stands with you at dusk, someone is warm with you, and companionship itself is a particularly ritualistic thing. If the person next to you is the one you love. Then you will find that no matter what two people do, it is full of ritual, as long as both people can feel it with their hearts.