As the saying goes, a one-day couple is a hundred days, and the ex-wife for men, no matter what the reason for the breakup, will still be a worry that is difficult to let go in their hearts. After all, she was his first wife, and they gave each other real affection, no matter what the reason for the divorce, no matter how time passed, nor could they erase the complicated feelings he had for his ex-wife.
Some people have said that the years are not magnanimous, and there is always a chance to regret and regret, especially for divorced couples. The two people who were once in love eventually parted ways, some missed, some became strangers, and some became enemies who did not interact with each other. When men talk about their ex-wives again, even if they have a new family after divorce, they still can't be as calm as water, when they hear that the other party is better than themselves, what kind of feelings will they feel in their hearts? Three second-married men told the big truth.
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"It's a mixed feeling, but bless her"
Mr. Luo and his ex-wife originally came together because they loved each other, and they thought that the two people could grow old together in vain, but they did not expect that the trivialities of married life had worn away their love, and the endless quarrels had exhausted each other's sincerity. Mr. Luo sighed: Details beat love.
The two of them from the beginning of nothing to say and then nothing to say, the pain in which only they know, she suspects that there are other women outside, he is tired of her unreasonable teasing, at the beginning, the two people can not move to quarrel over this, in the end, even the fight is too lazy to quarrel, the two people have no trust in each other, no tolerance, and no communication. Finally, the two men parted ways in calm.
After the divorce, the two people remarried separately and did not interact with each other, Mr. Luo only occasionally heard some things about his ex-wife from his daughter, knowing that she had remarried a year after the divorce, and the living conditions were very good, the two couples were very loving, and the man also regarded his daughter as his own. Although Mr. Luo also has his own new family, he feels that his current wife and himself are not so intimate, and the two people just make up their lives, it doesn't matter whether they are good or bad.
When he learned that his ex-wife had a better life than himself, he had mixed feelings and mixed feelings. He said: "The mood is strange and complicated, I don't know if it is regret, jealousy, or regret, I really can't say it clearly, but I still bless her, after all, she was once married, not to mention that she is still my daughter's mother." ”
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"I'm a little remorseful and regret not cherishing her"
Mr. Wang's ex-wife is a woman with a virtuous wife, and he has just started a business and has suffered a lot with him. Probably because of the habit of saving, after they earn money, she is still reluctant to eat and wear, in fact, she was very beautiful when she was young, but after marriage, busy with her livelihood, do not like to dress herself, Mr. Wang slowly began to dislike his wife, more and more like to mess with flowers and grass outside.
After Mr. Wang's wife discovered his behavior, she advised her to restrain herself, but he did not listen, and he did his own thing, and later, he met his current wife and divorced his ex-wife with an iron heart.
After the divorce, Mr. Wang married the beautiful and fashionable incumbent, she only cared about dressing up and shopping every day, and rarely cared about Mr. Wang's affairs. Because of the divorce, the ex-wife divided a part of the property, coupled with the lack of the ex-wife's management, his career plummeted, he was troubled by this, he had no intention of appreciating the beauty of his current wife, and he even missed the days when he struggled with his ex-wife.
Mr. Wang's ex-wife's remarried husband, who helped people work before, and after marrying her, the husband and wife started a small business together, the husband sang with the woman, the husband loved her very much, and the family lived happily. Even Mr. Wang's son often runs to live with his mother, saying that there is a feeling of home there.
Mr. Wang said: "Knowing that my ex-wife is better off than myself, I really regret it, but everything is too late." Now that I think about it, my ex-wife is really a Woman of Wangfu, and losing her is my biggest mistake. ”
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"I'm a little resentful, maybe that's my fate."
Mr. Yuan's ex-wife is a more materialistic woman, who married Mr. Yuan because of her old age. Mr. Yuan cherished this marriage very much, in order to win the favor of his ex-wife, he worked hard, but unfortunately, contrary to his wishes, his income still could not meet his ex-wife's desires.
Especially after having children, the family expenses are getting bigger and bigger, and Mr. Yuan's income still has not increased, the ex-wife dislikes him, does not show up, insists on divorce, and ruthlessly abandons his daughter, who is finally less than 3 years old, and goes alone to find his own happiness.
Mr. Yuan cursed her that she must not be able to get her wish, hoping that she would one day come back crying and begging for herself. However, he was disappointed, only a year after the divorce, she remarried, although her husband is older, but very rich, and he is very obedient to her. Mr. Yuan, also remarried, although the current wife did not dislike him, life can be passed, but because they are two marriages, there is always some estrangement between the two people, it is inevitable that there will be some contradictions. This makes Mr. Yuan lack confidence in the life of remarriage.
Mr. Wang said: "Maybe I am stingy, when I know that my ex-wife has a better life than me, I do feel a little indignant, why fate is always thick and thin me, I obviously pay more than her, why is it worse than her." Think about it, maybe this is fate. ”
It is said that the husband and wife who broke up should be different and wish each other well. But in fact, every couple really comes to the step of divorce, there will be some reluctance and reluctance, especially after remarriage, seeing that the other party is better than themselves, they will naturally feel a lot, there are good emotions, there are also bad emotions. However, in any case, since the relationship between husband and wife has been exhausted, then we should completely let go and not be bothered by the past. Cherish the love affair behind it, and believe that as long as you manage it with your heart, your remarried life will surely get better and better.