01.
When men and women start to fall in love, women are often in the dominant position of love. At this moment, in order to win the favor of women, men tend to lower their value, obey women, and carefully put women in the palm of their hands.
However, women are emotional, in the process of continuous accumulation of feelings, women will fall deeper and deeper, more and more invested in feelings, and even in order to get and return the love of men, and gradually lose themselves in this feeling, polish themselves into the way men hope.
Relative to the woman's increasingly deep feelings, men will gradually become the dominant part of the relationship after the relationship between the two people is stable, and will gradually withdraw their time and energy from this relationship to pursue career, money and other interests.
This change in the state of men and women investing in the process of love often becomes a hurt and injustice to women in the end. At the end of the relationship, many women will find out that the more they pay, the more they will not get the man's return, and the more they are humble and perfect in the relationship, the more they will be ignored and hurt.
And when a smart woman faces feelings, she knows the law of emotional change, and knows that only by grasping the balance of the relationship between two people is a long-term solution. So she won't lose herself, she won't let herself be humble and devalued, she'll always be a "expensive" woman.
Smart women understand: the more "expensive" a woman is, the more a man loves!
02.
First of all, to make your love "expensive", you must know how to leave a part of your love to yourself.
In life, we must grasp everything well, only this allows us to move forward and retreat freely, to face problems calmly and calmly, and to follow this truth in emotional matters. It can be said that seven points of love for a person is enough, and the remaining three points are reserved for yourself.
If a woman gives all her love to a man, it is easy to tolerate each other without principle, indulge each other without a bottom line, and even be led by the nose of the other party, and then lose her own ideas, and her joys and sorrows are all based on the control of the other party, and she completely loses herself in love.
Don't think that this is a noble giving, it is a very stupid act to do so. Your indulgence will make him despise and snub your feelings, your excessive efforts will make him numb and not cherish your emotions, and your loss of self will make him trample on your dignity and ignore your existence.
It is difficult for a woman who does not know how to love herself to get true love, and if any woman gives all her love to a man, the price is often to lose all her dignity.
Smart women know that if they want men to love themselves deeply, they need women to love themselves, which is not only an affirmation and protection of the self, but also makes the love they give precious, rather than getting cheaper and cheaper.
03.
Second, to make your people "expensive", you must constantly improve yourself.
The only constant in this world is "change," and this is true of the world, so is the heart of the people, and so is love. The initial attraction of male and female love is easy to become numb and tired in the passage of time, and only under the premise of constantly improving oneself and letting oneself continue to improve will charm and attraction last forever.
If a woman does not improve from beginning to end, just like an amusement park will always be those few game projects, it will not be attractive after a long time.
Men always maintain the curiosity of children in their hearts, and driven by this curiosity, men are eager to enter the world of women, eager to understand all of women. If a woman loses this mystery one day, it is easy to lose the love of a man.
Constantly improving yourself and enriching yourself is an important way to maintain a sense of mystery and a prerequisite for long-term attractiveness. Many women often watch out for men being attracted to other women, but it is better to let themselves reach the height of the sun than to let men surround themselves.
Smart women understand that this self-improvement is not for men, but for the responsibility of the self, which is the source of self-confidence and tenacity in women's hearts. And this also achieves the charm of women, the achievement of women's love.
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Therefore, women should be a "expensive" woman in their feelings, so that men will always let you put your heart!
Know how to grasp the measure of love, pay a degree in feelings, and will not have no scruples because of love, so that your love can become precious, so that you will not be ignored, and your dignity will not be trampled.
Know how to constantly improve yourself, make yourself full of charm and attraction, rather than fading in the passage of time, so that you can have the respect, appreciation, admiration, and follow of the other party.
Every woman is unique, and every woman's love is precious, so women must remember not to make themselves cheap, not to become an obstacle to their love because of their blind pay and stagnation.