Daughter is the father's palm pearl, holding in the hand afraid of shattering, in the mouth afraid of melting, this sentence is simply the endorsement of the contemporary daughter slave, at home afraid of stuffing the child, go out and afraid of others to remember, their own good and evil is also prestigious, treat their daughters eager to throw five bodies to the ground.
When he has raised a treasure for more than ten years, but he has been "abducted" by other people's boys, his father's heart can be described as sad!
The father sent his daughter back to the school gate before he came out, but he saw his daughter being picked up by the boy.
This incident happened in Zhengzhou, Henan, his daughter received the notice of the start of school, when the father quickly packed his daughter's luggage, eat, wear and use all kinds of things, lest he lack his daughter.
The next day also specially asked the unit for leave to send her daughter to school, do everything possible to send her daughter into school, her feet have not yet stepped out of the door, the baby daughter turned her head and was held by other boys, when the father suddenly burst into tears, this is really the female university does not leave the father Ah, now see their daughter and other boys to go hand in hand, after getting married, what can they do?
Here's why:
Daughter called Duoduo, now a sophomore, before being affected by the epidemic, has been at home online classes, just after the epidemic, the daughter received the news that she was going back to school, the father was busy before and after preparing a variety of daily necessities for the daughter, eating with the clothing of the full 3 large bags, afraid of not giving the daughter comprehensive care.
The thought of their daughter going to school immediately, the daughter has become unloving to go home since she went to college, the distance from home is not very far, because of the epidemic, sealed at home, every day with a small bird like a father call, it is rare to enjoy the long-lost parent-child fun between father and daughter, and now the daughter has returned to school, and it may be summer vacation to meet again.
All kinds of small frictions in life, the battle of wits between father and daughter, in order not to let the daughter stay up late to play mobile phones, in order to protect her eyes at night to cut off the wireless network, the daughter uses the traffic, wants him to get up early in the morning, deliberately puts the TV in the living room A big sound is useless, although it is quite sad but watching the daughter everything is good, tired is also worth it.
Home is not too far from the school, just sent to the daughter, the daughter only has a sentence to pay attention to safety when she goes home, turn her head and run back to school, looking at the daughter's "no heart and no lungs" look, when the father is also crying and laughing, he wants to freeze the time in a moment, sighed, has not yet come out of the shadow of separation, he saw and found a surprising scene.
A sunny and confident boy rushed towards his daughter, the two laughed and chatted, the boy took his daughter's luggage, and the other hand held his daughter's hand and walked together, and the daughter's smile was even more incomprehensible to him, even brighter than the smile of his daughter when she learned the news of the start of school.
Dad has mixed feelings, knows that his daughter is in love, happy that his daughter has grown up, the love sinus has just opened, and it is sad that his daughter does not even talk to himself about such a thing as love.
Netizens have left messages on this matter
Optimist: Dad is happy about this, the boy is still very good, and he is a good match with his daughter.
Pessimists: What if a boy hurts his own child.
There are also netizens private message message: the child has gone to college, is already an adult, has his own opinions on his love, when parents support their children can be, do not want you to know that it must be in daily life when the parents are too strong or communication problems, resulting in daughters dare not tell you that they are in love.
Dad thought about it for a while, before he was really grumpy because of the problem of work, he often traveled, and the contact time with his daughter was also short, if it were not for the cause of the epidemic, he might not say a lot of words with his daughter, and his daughter was now older, and the previous education methods did not work much on her daughter, which may be these reasons that led to such a layer of separation between her daughter and herself.
I believe that many parents and children to communicate may still use the old way of communication, as a parent to know that now in front of us is no longer not two or three years old children, but a group of one or two decades old adults, they all have self-esteem and sense of autonomy, like the protagonist this situation is that their previous communication methods are too extreme to cause their daughters to choose to hide their love affairs in order to reduce unnecessary quarrels.
Listening is the first step to become a good friend of the child is also a crucial step, many parents with high emotional intelligence, when the child is very young, will give the child enough respect, learn the relevant words, to communicate with the child, then the parents with low emotional intelligence will be more inclined to use commands and even quarrels to achieve each other's concessions, so that the child is insecure, over time will let the idea locked in the child's heart, do not see the day.
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