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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Affection is a burden that I can't afford, and love words are only lies that are occasionally honored." ”
Women in the relationship, many times have to be careful, because of the fear of being let down, they dare not easily give the truth.
Especially the woman who has been hurt in love, more and more clearly sees the man, all the sincerity when in love, is just a mask of disguise, and the love words spoken are only the means to get her.
Therefore, when women see through this and are completely disappointed in men, they no longer have hope for love.
When women get along with men, they can't see the hope of the future, and they will gradually become cold, so that they will eventually become cold and desperate.
Men's irresponsibility and insincerity to feelings have caused women's physical and mental trauma, and for a long time, it is difficult for women to let go.
They are not greedy for the past, but the regret and unworthiness of the past, at this time, in the face of men who have changed their hearts, women will not have any nostalgia, but will become cruel and break with you.
Usually speaking, a woman's true desperation is to achieve these six words: indifference, let go, and leave.
First, indifference: ignore everything about you
If a woman is let down by you, she won't put a shred of enthusiasm in you, but will become particularly indifferent.
Everything you have, in her opinion, has no meaning, and she will not care, only a non-attention attitude towards you.
In the past, when she loved you, she could give everything for you, and she could also treat you as the most important person and always pay attention to you.
However, when you fail her and make her sad and disappointed, she will gradually become indifferent and will never love you with her heart again.
Her desperation is not innate, but is caused by your long-term neglect and harm, you do not cherish her, naturally you will not be able to get her cherished.
She will draw a clear line with you, ignore you, and tell you with an indifferent expression that she can't afford to love, and you don't have to pester.
In fact, when a woman becomes particularly desperate, she won't ask you anything anymore.
Even if you realize that you are wrong, want to be good to her again, and make a lot of efforts to keep her, she will not be moved.
Because the enthusiasm that used to love you has long since become cool, and it will not be touched by your current behavior.
All your actions, all the efforts you put in for her, maybe she won't look at it more, she won't care about your feelings at all.
The woman is so desperate, that is, she does not love, she has been hurt before, she will not let herself be hurt anymore, but learned to protect herself.
Once she denies you, she will not easily accept you, even if you really want to save her, you will not get her sincerity.
She will use an indifferent attitude to let you know that she does not love you firmly, and from the moment you give up on her, she is ready to break with you at any time.
Second, put down: quietly precipitate yourself
A woman's true desperation is not to entangle you endlessly, let alone make a big fuss with you, but to let go of all feelings and completely break with you.
She won't consume herself on you anymore, she won't let herself get caught up in unworthy feelings, she'll suddenly grow up.
At this time, she will learn to improve herself, strive to do her own things well, and quietly precipitate her own inner.
Perhaps, before long, she will transform into a better woman, so that you can no longer climb high.
When the right time comes, she will leave your sight, cut you in two, and will not see you again for the rest of her life.
Therefore, if a man does not cherish the woman who loves you, she will not cherish you in the end, and wait until she really grows and becomes better, that is, when she is determined with you.
Someone said: "A woman who has been emotionally injured will often transform into a better self." ”
Indeed, smart women will not consume themselves on people who are not worthy, and they will not cling to painful love.
On the contrary, when they perceive that men are no longer in love, or are hurt by men, they will calm down and completely let go of all the past.
The people she once loved, the beautiful emotions, the moments that were once heartwarming, she would no longer be nostalgic, but would be sealed up and really let go.
Women also understand that only by letting go can they grow, meet more worthy people, and have better happiness.
Therefore, a woman's real desperation is not to argue with men endlessly, nor to think about how to retaliate against men, but that she will let go of everything and quietly precipitate herself.
Wait until she has a strong heart, has enough capital and confidence, that is, she really decided with you.
Leave: Say goodbye to the past
When a woman really breaks up with you, that is, when she says goodbye to the past, she will start a new life and live a more meaningful life.
At this time, she will no longer dwell on the past, nor will she feel self-pity and self-pity, but will meet better love with a more positive attitude.
Everything in the past, she felt that it was not important, the most important thing was that she learned to be indifferent, had better capital, and was able to walk on the road in the future without hurry.
She will do more meaningful things, allow herself to regain spiritual enjoyment, and the soul will be truly sublimated.
She will continue to read and learn, will actively exercise, walk farther, see more beautiful landscapes, and meet better men.
For love, she will not force it, but face it with a natural mentality, getting it is a kind of peace of mind, and if she does not get it, she can face it calmly.
Women in this period, their thoughts and foresight, have a higher pattern, and are particularly attractive in the eyes of the opposite sex.
Therefore, a woman's true desperation is actually the transformation after leaving, living a more quality life, and having a more moving love.
They no longer dwell on the right and wrong of the past, and everything is relieved, even if they have been hurt by men, now it seems that it is not more than that.
In the past, she may have a little hatred for men in her heart, but when she grows up, she will let go and feel that there is no need.
Because, for a person who is not worthy of love, to wronged yourself, meaningless, it is better to leave the unworthy person, in order to get a better life.
The more women see through men, the more they will improve their pattern and will not limit themselves to a narrow field of vision.
When she becomes better and more successful, that is, she really breaks with the past, and will never look at unworthy men again.
As Dong Xiaolei said: "Your own success is the best revenge for betrayal." ”
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Zhou Guoping said: "I have not lost love, I do not understand love; I have not lost my heart, I do not understand life." ”
A truly desperate woman will surely grow up better and transform into a better self.
Because they understand men, they also understand love, and all the hurts they have done are the boosters for their growth.
Therefore, a woman's true desperation generally achieves the following six words: indifference, let go, and leave.
Indifference is to ignore everything about you; to let go, to precipitate a better self; to leave, to say goodbye to the past, and to start a new life.
Such a woman, in the time to come, will surely cross more and more happiness, and you, in the future, can not climb high.
I hope that men can cherish the women around them, if you don't care and live up to her affection, you will never find it back later.
As Murong Xi said, "A hesitation, a betrayal, and an accident are enough to wither love." ”
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.