As the saying goes, "Thirty-one flowers for men, thirty tofu dregs for women." "In today's society, middle-aged men seem to be more popular. Because men reach middle age, they tend to have richer experiences, more mature personalities, and more eye-catching personality charm.
It seems to have become a more desirable and willing object to associate. And women will be old and yellow in middle age, without the charm and confidence of their youth, and without the appearance of their youth.
And those women who have another half tend to be more dependent on their own families and their other half, and each time they have their own independent thoughts and lives, they become slaves to life and love, losing themselves.
Women are often the passive side in love, waiting for men's love and men's care, and men tend to like the new and tired of the old in a relationship, they always look at the pot, and think about the bowl.
But there are some men who obviously do not love, but are not willing to take the initiative to admit, they still have to evade responsibility, waiting for women to break up first. When people reach middle age, men often do these things, which is tantamount to forcing you to break up
A quarrel is a cold war
Communication in a relationship is often the most important, couples have lived together for a long time, there will inevitably be some contradictions, which is very normal.
But if, after every quarrel, he chooses the Cold War instead of explaining it to you clearly or calmly communicating with you, then there may be a problem between you.
If he doesn't even bother to argue with you, he often says, "I'm tired," "Let's talk about it later." "This kind of performance may be forcing you to break up."
Always say too much socializing
When a man does not love you, he is not willing to spend time for you, even if he is obviously not busy, he will find an excuse to say that he is busy, always taking too much social as an excuse to let you spend alone.
Before falling in love, they will chat with you, even if they talk until late at night, there will be no complaints, and by this time of middle age, the love between you may have deteriorated, and there is no longer the enthusiasm before. Even the topic has changed less.
So they always make excuses that they are busy and socializing, but they are often pretending, not accompanying you for reasons, but just using work as an excuse, and can comfortably alienate you and make you lack companionship. Thus intolerable, proposed to break up.
No small surprises for you
When they love you, they tend to want to give you the whole world, and they'll send you small surprises on time every holiday.
And when they don't love you anymore, they don't want to prepare gifts for you anymore, and they don't even remember some important anniversaries.
It may be a sign that they don't love you anymore, but they are not willing to propose a breakup first, so they use this to make you angry and make you propose to break up first.
Impatient with you
When you let a man love you, they can often tolerate all your little temper and shortcomings, even if you are unreasonable, they also feel cute, no matter what you do wrong, they can tolerate.
And when they don't love you anymore, because of some small things, they may quarrel with you, they will often think that you are redundant, always pick problems in you, and always look at you unfavorably. Whatever you do, they won't be moved or moved anymore.
This kind of man knows that he does not love, but he is not willing to take the responsibility on himself, unwilling to admit that he is a "scumbag", in order to force you to break up may become more aggressive to pick your faults, and when you can't tolerate it, first propose to break up.