I can get through all these things, I'm a child, but I'm really too hard. In Hangzhou, Zhejiang, a 42-year-old pregnant woman suddenly broke down after giving birth, bluntly saying that she was a mother of three children, but the family situation made her shed tears without controversy.
The pregnant woman said: there is a sick husband and 2 children in the family, most of her salary has to be sent home, even the first day of giving birth to the child is still at work, now after paying the hospitalization fee, there are only 200 yuan left on the body, eating in the hospital is a problem, after giving birth to a child on the same day, or the nurse looks at her poorly, gave 3 pieces of bread, which is also her meal for the day.
For this matter, many netizens have expressed sadness and sympathy. However, there are also places that do not understand, since there are already children, the family economy is not trapped, why should we have one more, bitter children and tired adults.
In fact, when this issue is discussed, it will be said that the question of "whether the poor should have children" has always been the problem of their own views on this issue.
I think that having children or not, like buying a house somewhere, is a personal act and a natural law. If a couple feels that their financial ability is not enough, can not support the pressure of having a child, can temporarily not consider childbearing, this is reasonable, no one can interfere.
In other words, having a child is not an irresistible thing, it is completely predictable, and this time she is lucky, and there are public security sub-bureaus and hospitals and other units that have reached out to her. But the child is her own, and the future days will need to be carried by herself, and perhaps this is what she will face next.
When a child is born, the first problem, and arguably the biggest problem, is survival. It is conceivable that in the current situation of a woman, it is still difficult to do the same as the children of other families, but I believe that through her words, she can overcome the difficulties.
You can be a material poor person for a while, but don't be a mental poor person for a long time. Material abundance, there are always children who can understand, but if you give your children a poor mentality, don't blame everyone for looking down on you. And the growth of children is not only a material need, but more importantly, a spiritual and moral level.
There is no choice in the birth of a child, but his behavior habits will be influenced and influenced by the family. The poor have the way of life of the poor, and the rich have the circle of the rich. As long as the child's character is not a problem, it has nothing to do with poverty and wealth. But this will take time to investigate.