In the long course of time, everyone has switched between different roles, and this 44-year-old woman has completed a major change in her life. She not only upgraded from mother-in-law to grandmother in a short period of time, but also gave birth to a second child, upgraded to a mother, this year, her life label has undergone earth-shaking changes, since then, she has a special identity - grandmother and mother.
The identity of "grandma and mother" is undoubtedly a new challenge for her. She has to take care of her grandson at the same time, but also care about her son's life. This dual identity allows her not only to have a tolerant heart, but also to be patient enough when facing family trivialities.
Parenting is a common phenomenon in many families today. This kind of family relationship stems from the grandparents' love for their grandchildren, and also from the fact that they have found a rare family affection in their busy lives. This kind of relationship sometimes puts grandma and mother in a dilemma when dealing with family conflicts.
On this day, she witnessed the scene of her grandson bullying her son. Her heart was full of anger, but there was nothing she could do. This emotion made her fall into deep confusion, and she didn't know how to face the situation.
Watching her grandson bully her son, anger ignited in her heart. She wants to stand up for her son, but she is worried that this will make the family conflict more acute. Her heart was full of contradictions and mood swings.
After a long inner struggle, she finally chose to hold back her anger. She understands that as a grandmother, what she needs is tolerance and understanding. She decided to sit down and communicate with her grandson and tell him why he should respect his uncle and why he should know how to share. She also understands that it is a long process that requires her patience and wisdom.
This 44-year-old woman interprets the greatness and tolerance of maternal love with practical actions. On the stage of life, she plays different roles and uses her own way to make the family full of harmony and warmth. Her story allows us to see the extraordinary of an ordinary person, and also makes us deeply appreciate the warmth of family.