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01. Preface
Life is in a hurry, but for decades. When people reach the age of fifty, they must learn to slow down and save their strength in case of future emergencies.
When people reach the age of fifty, they live a little purer, do not have to participate in more right and wrong, rest themselves, and harvest more peace and tranquility.
Learn to make friends, no longer try to please others, but be yourself. Love and hate follow fate, go with the flow.
People are over fifty years old and no longer wantonly squander money. When people get older, you will understand a truth: on many occasions, money can come in handy.
On the road of life, you don't have to be generous to everyone.
When a person is over fifty years old, he must know how to do what he can. Stop engaging in low-quality socializing, look down on fame and fortune, listen to your own inner voice, and return to a plain life.
People over fifty, do not have to be generous to everyone, as soon as away from the "three people".
02, in the face of wine and meat friends, put away your generosity
After getting old, the lonely time is more and more.
Without busy work, the pressure suddenly decreases, and the society seems to have reduced a lot of intersection.
Some people will become overwhelmed, like to be friends with wine and meat, and want to use this false prosperity to enrich their lives.
In fact, after the bustle, it will make people more and more sluggish.
People are old, leave their wine and meat friends, don't be generous to them anymore, don't always be the one who invites guests to dinner. In their old age, people learn to spend money in more valuable places, and they will have a better life.
You can exercise more, maintain a good schedule, read more books, and learn to be quiet with yourself.
A person can actually do a lot of things to make their lives better and better.
Life, in fact, there is not a lot of time for their own, to use limited energy, to complete their dreams, to try those unfinished challenges.
People are old, away from wine and meat friends, away from false hilarity. Learn to be quiet, do something more meaningful, and feel that the life of aging is so colorful.
03, in the face of vanity, put away the generosity to yourself
People get old, learn to reduce their desire to consume, do not squander money, put away excessive generosity to themselves.
When people are old, don't let that frivolous heart stir up. When people are old, in order to compete for fame and profit, it is not a good thing to waste too much money.
Life is hurried, the resources in hand are limited, let the heart calm down, will know where the money should be spent.
When people are old, don't compare, don't always compete, don't be too vain, don't let yourself easily consume your savings.
When people are old, they must pay attention to maintaining themselves, and they must learn to keep their original intentions and money.
In this world, a mountain is always higher than a mountain. A person, at what level, does not rely on spending money to package, can be looked up to by others.
People are old, calm and calm life, do what they like, do not waste money, in invalid purchases.
In old age, people wear comfortable clothes, eat healthy food, and live a life calmly, which is a kind of happiness. You don't have to eat and drink every day, and you don't have to compare yourself with others.
A person's best attitude towards life is actually to remain indifferent, keep the original intention, and live calmly.
04, do not go to the generous to please everyone, it is not worth it
In life, don't please all the people around you, just learn to please yourself.
Liang Shiqiu wrote in "Life Is Just Like That": "The fun of middle age lies in knowing life quite well, knowing yourself, so as to do what you can do and enjoy the life you can enjoy." ”
When people are old, they don't have to care too much about other people's eyes and don't live for others.
There are too many people in this world, and you don't have the energy to please everyone. Learn to reconcile with yourself, and from then on learn to cherish yourself, take care of yourself, and please yourself.
In this life, the most precious thing is time, don't waste it on dispensable people.
In particular, in their old age, people should no longer please anyone, but know how to live their lives richly and colorfully, and let their spiritual world be full and abundant.
Cherish the people who bring love and warmth to themselves, live a simple and frugal life, but can harvest plain happiness and happiness.
In life, ask yourself what you want, satisfy yourself well, and learn to live like you like, in order to have a life without regrets.
05. Summary
On the road of life, put away your generosity, use money reasonably, and use your time and energy.
Wilde said: "When I was young, I used to think that money was the most important thing in the world, but now that I am old, I find out that it is. ”
People are old, put away your "generosity" and don't please anyone. Don't waste money, time, and energy doing something that is laborious and unflattering.
Learn to face your own heart and face your own life, in order to live a happier and more decent life.
In life, you need to have a few like-minded friends, drink tea and chat together, and live a leisurely life.
In old age, there is no need to swing in front of people, and people who are really rich are disdainful of showing off. You don't have to please anyone, people who really care about you and love you don't need to please.
People over fifty, reasonable look at money, look at friends, look at time, look at themselves, in order to better have the rest of their lives.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.