A flower of friendship that has lasted for a long time
Text/Sun Jinghui
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Thirty or nearly five years old, along the way, ignorant, tired but real, dialectical wisdom of survival and life. Life from the previous vigorous youth to the later proud blossom happiness, and now the calm maturity, some tired ordinariness, in addition to the trivialities, after the children are busy cleaning up the housework, in the silence of the night, they can find their own existence. But in the face of the self under the night sky, it is often dazed and does not know what the meaning of life is. Along the way, there have been many gains and losses, and those youth and dreams, passions and hopes, have become more and more faded at some point, and the loss is like a bird that occasionally crosses the sky, and the taste in the heart is indescribable. In addition to the loss, but very fortunate, in the days of youth, those who knew those who knew in their youth have always been around and have not left; the friendships that began in those youths have always been hidden in the heart, and the heart of the thought is happy and has lasted for a long time.
Li Hui is a kind and gentle woman, from the first time she saw her to today, it has always been like a white gardenia, quietly blooming between a thick green; not gorgeous, but always emitting a fragrance that cannot be ignored. There is indeed a fate between people and people. I remember the first time I saw this gentle and beautiful girl was in the half-old corridor of the first year of high school. The freshness and discomfort of just entering school had not yet faded, and on that day I went to the office with a stack of compositions, facing the glare of the afternoon sun, and brushing a girl at the office door. At that time, I thought: This girl is so familiar, has she seen it somewhere? Carefully identified, it should not be recognized. But there was still a thought: I wanted to know her, I should know her. Unfortunately, until the second year of high school, there was no chance to know each other, separated by a wall, separated for two years. It's just that there should always be fate, the third year of high school is finally assigned to a class, the two people quickly met, became good friends, and the feelings have increased for fifteen years.
In 2004, we were admitted to the university in Jinan together, although the two universities are next to each other, although they are different. Got free time, shopping together on weekends, looking for food; in a bad mood, injured and dirty with college classmates, went to her dormitory for a few days, managed to eat and drink and do sloths. At that time, Li Hui was pure and warm, but unfortunately, in their school where there were few boys, she did not meet the most romantic love in the most beautiful years, and a handsome classmate began a love that ended without a problem. Faint likes, faint beginnings, faint stories, faint endings, less enthusiasm and impulsiveness. Unconscious beginning, unconscious end, quite regrettable. Fortunately, there is an obsessive son, who has been like a day for her for several years, the right distance, the warm care, the companionship from beginning to end, and finally hugged the beautiful person; after graduating from college, the two returned to their hometown to live an enviable sweet little life. Li Hui has a quiet personality, the temperament of a virtuous wife and mother, gets along well with her in-laws, and her own work is relatively leisurely; her husband's family is solid, there is no burden on the economy, she is loyal and down-to-earth, and she is also very good. Married for 8 years, with two lovely princesses, life is happy and happy.
I rarely go back once a year in a foreign country, I am afraid that I will become a hometown in a foreign country in the future, but every time I go back to my hometown, as long as time permits, we always want to meet. Usually there are also a lot of contacts. The unsatisfactory in life, some small attachments that are difficult to let go, and the small sadness brought by some memories, all talk to each other and encourage each other. I am very fortunate to have such a friend, Sanguanzheng, with tolerance and kindness, with little demand for people, regardless of gains and losses, with the breath of spring often soothe my sensitive and thoughtful heart.
Husbands and wives are the reliance of a lifetime of mutual cooperation, and friends are the channels for the release of personal emotions and comrades-in-arms on the road of self-redemption. The longer the time, the older the age, the more topics between friends of the same sex, in the corners of the heart that family affection and love cannot reach, friendship precipitates and ferments, mellow and overflowing, intoxicating the whole life.
【About the author】Sun Jinghui, a native of Yanggu, Shandong, is a lover of literature.