All children have an inherent sense of inferiority, which can stimulate the child's imagination and stimulate them to work hard to eliminate this psychological inferiority through the improvement of the situation. It may motivate children to achieve objective achievements, but it can also lead to pure psychological adjustment by the individual, thus widening the gap between the individual's psychological reality and the objective reality.
First, there are three types of children who have a deep sense of inferiority:
(1) Children whose bodies are very weak or whose organs are defective since they were born into this world
(2) Children who are severely disciplined and do not experience the affection of their parents
(3) Children who are overly pampered
All three of these basic situations lead to a certain sense of imperfection and inferiority, and by reacting, an ambition or ambition that transcends the scope of human potential is generated. This ambition is often entangled with personality traits and the temperament of the individual, acting like a constant stimulus, making the individual overly sensitive, always on guard, fearing that he or she will be hurt or trampled. And it behaves as if the mind has been poisoned – making the child feel dissatisfied forever.
Second, this personality type, will make the child develop into such a person?
His intellect remains dormant, and the man, as we call it, becomes "neurotic" or eccentric and unusual. This type of person, if it goes to extremes, ends up being irresponsible or criminal because they think only of themselves and never think of others.
We will find that some of them are avoiding reality, avoiding objective facts, and constructing a new world for themselves, daydreaming and indulging in imaginary illusory worlds, as if these fantasies represent reality. They will eventually succeed in creating peace of mind. But in reality they actually reconcile reality with the mind by constructing reality in the imagery of the mind.
All people who live in the same world of fact shape themselves in different ways. Each person shapes himself according to his or her own views on things, some of which are healthier and some of which are less healthy. We must always pay attention to the mistakes and failures that children make in the process of development, and in particular, we should pay attention to certain misunderstandings caused by children in the early stages, because these misunderstandings tend to dominate later in life.