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I have a friend who is stubborn bronze when it comes to falling in love.
Waiting for two hours in the cold wind, just to send the cherry picked by himself to the person he likes, only to exchange for a cold "thank you", not even a superfluous expression.
Already a little disheartened, the other person turned his head and gave her a smile. This laugh was enough to make her happy for a week, and she felt that everything she had given was worth it.
At Christmas, friends asked her out to dinner, and she refused because she wanted to spend time with someone she liked. As a result, I waited until 10 o'clock in the evening, but waited for a sentence of "I don't go to you today, I went home first."
Originally, there were 10,000 grass and mud horses galloping by, because the reason given by the other party was that overtime was too tired, so they ordered him a takeaway supper.
After taking a bus for several hours, I crossed most of the city to meet my favorite people, but the other party was afraid that others would know their relationship, and they walked hundreds of meters.
I deliberately wore new clothes, hoping to make his eyes shine, and when we first met, I heard "What the hell are you wearing?" At that time, I was very angry, but I felt that there was no need to lose my temper because of a sentence.
Waiting for a date in the true sense of the word, clumsily working for hours in order to learn to cook, my hands were scalded with hot oil and two large blisters.
As a result, the other party saw her cooking and laughed at it as a dark dish that would eat dead people. At that time, I just smiled along, but I was actually very sad.
Until one day, she found that she was just a fish raised by the other party in a glass jar, and she didn't even bother to feed it, so she was reluctant to give up.
Until one day, a person who really liked her suddenly appeared. She knew that there was also a simple pattern of love, sweeter than tears.
No longer have to look at a person's face and act, no longer have to suffer from gain and loss, self-deception, caution.
02
In my high school days, there was a popular QQ signature, "If you love, please love deeply, if you abandon it completely, don't be ambiguous, hurt others and hurt yourself."
In terms of the mature concept of love, it is when you can't see hope in a person, and then give up decisively. Every abandonment by adults is because interests are affected and harmful to physical and mental health.
Take star chasing, when you are young, you will be impressed by beautiful looks and people. However, the so-called do not care about gains and losses, instinctive liking, but from the exuberant secretion of dopamine.
If you eat too much, you will inevitably be disappointed, we like her fresh and pure in front of the camera, and in actual life, she may have abortion and promiscuity, from the executive director to the producer.
We like that in front of the camera, he is honest and responsible, but in real life, he is a master of time management, and he eats both men and women.
Fans take idols as heroes, but idols use fans as tools to make money.
When you realize this, look at the scenes in front of the camera, you feel bored.
Back in reality, liking someone is the same thing.
If the person you like has always treated you as a tool person, never really cared about and respected you, and the two of you did not really like each other because you really liked each other, it would definitely be bad for you, and this mode of getting along would only hurt you.
Most girls have a cat sex.
When the kitten is spoiled or does something wrong, it needs the comfort and guidance of others, and if the owner hits it at this time, it will remember it fiercely and will not do it again.
Girls decide to break up, and many times it is the disappointment of small things, which is caused by the accumulation of bit by bit.
Repeated quarrels, cold violence, like to blame her in life, escape when there is a problem, etc., will become the last straw that crushes the camel.
People are emotional, and everyone has the potential to lose themselves in the world of feelings.
Only by experiencing pain can we understand what love is, only by experiencing separation can we know how to cherish, and only by falling down a few times can we mature.
03
Feelings are never a one-sided effort, but the result of the joint efforts of both parties.
A person's kindness to you is not something that can be seen immediately. You may blame him for not being careful, but in your daily life, you can feel his concern for you everywhere.
A good relationship is not to move you to the point of dizziness at once, but to spoil you with a long stream of water. When the payoff is not proportional to the return, even if it is a pity to give up, there is no point in continuing.
Giving up a person who has been liked for a long time will be like a knife in an instant, and a thought will be like a relief. Because from now on, there is no need to go to great lengths to find a topic, please whom, and do not have to anxiously wait for someone to give a little love.
One person's loneliness is freedom, and the loneliness of two people together is not even free. Losing is sometimes more solid than having, so some people prefer to be alone rather than be let down in the midst of gain and loss.
There is a saying that I love you, but I don't like you anymore.
It means that you still make me feel good and excited, but I don't have the strength and courage to hug you anymore.
This sentence makes me feel particularly touched, as if you are still in my mind, still in my heart, occupying a particularly important position, but I no longer have any illusions about you.
I can't control my unforgettable memories of you, but I have no expectations for everything about you. Although I still miss you, it is no longer necessary for you.
You are still my weakness, but no longer my armor. You are a cup when I hold you, and you are glass slag when I let go.
So you go, I give you all my reluctance, my heart, my unforgettable, my willfulness, and all my expectations for the future.
Nine points of like, one point of dignity, I can like you very much, or I can not have you.