I have a small cotton jacket at home, and my family has two opinions on the issue of the upbringing of girls.
One is that girls should have the appearance of girls, should be gentle, quiet, well-behaved, obedient, children are often reprimanded when they are naughty and mischievous, is: "How to be naughty like a boy, girls should be obedient, obedient!" ”
One is to think that girls and boys are no different, can be mischievous, can say no, can have their own preferences and opinions, and encourage all kinds of destructive behavior when children explore.
These two opinions correspond to two camps, the former one is held by the elders headed by grandparents, and the holders of the latter opinion are our new era parents.
I believe that these two phenomena exist in many families, girls really should be gentle, quiet, obedient, my answer is no, girls can grow into anything.
In the book "Pippi Longstocking", the famous fairy tale master Astrid Lindgren gave us a sample, and the protagonist of the book, Pippi Longstocking, a little girl full of personality, let me see the countless possibilities of girls growing up.
She was a little girl in long stockings named Pippi.
Pippi Longstocking is a little girl with infinite strength, you see, she can lift a pony with one hand, she can throw the sharks in the sea far away, and she can also throw pirates full of bad intentions on the ship and roll far away.
Pippi's money for the long socks was kept by her mother, who had a whole bag of gold coins, and she could raise a little monkey named Nilsson.
Pippi, a stocking, moved into the Villekula hut alone, doing everything herself, and she became good friends with her neighbor, Dumi and Anika.
Together, they went shopping, treasure hunts, adventures, entertained the town's children to the cottage to party, and even went to the island to visit Pippi's father...
Through the story of Pippi Longstocking, you will find that the growth template of a girl is no longer synonymous with being well-behaved, quiet, and ladylike, but can be full of strength, wisdom, humor and bravery.
Pippi Longstocking is written by Swedish children's literature writer Astrid Lindgren, winner of the International Hans Christian Andersen Prize. Known as the "Master of Fairy Tales", Lindgren's works have been translated into more than 100 languages and sold more than 140 million copies worldwide.
What is the concept of 140 million volumes? It's just stacking the books for sale together, which can be as tall as 175 Eiffel Towers, and lining them up in rows can circle the earth for a full 3 times.
One of Astrid Lindgren's most famous works is Pippi Longstocking, which has been translated into 77 languages to date.
As a master of fairy tales, Lindgren has won numerous awards such as the Swedish National Prize, the International Hans Christian Andersen Children's Literature Writers Award, the Swedish Academy Gold Medal and the Peace Prize of the German Booksellers' Federation. In 2002, the Swedish government established the "Lindgren Literature Prize", which is the world's largest children's literature award in honor of Lindgren.
The "Long Stocking Pippi Special Edition" published by Nanhai Publishing Company has a total of 7 volumes, namely "Do You Know Pippi", "Pippi Visits the Store", "Pippi Moves into the Park", "Looking for Spencer", "Pippi's Birthday", "Pippi Island Adventure", and "Pippi's New Year's Party".
Among these stories, my little girl's favorite is "Phi Phi Island Adventure", which tells the story of Pippi and his friends Dumi and Anika to Hortondu Island.
Pippi's father, who was king on HortonDu Island, sent her a letter inviting her to stay on the island. So, she and her friends set off together.
On the island, they meet black friends, play with pearls as marbles, live together in a straw hut, meet greedy pirates, work together to play pirates and drive them out of HortonDu Island...
The whole story is thrilling, imaginative and educational.
For example, in the story, Dumi and Anika brothers and sisters are infected with measles and are locked up in the house, and Pippi will make them grimaces through the window glass, chat with them, and make them happy.
Another example is that they can't eat anything and complain about the cereal porridge cooked by their mother. At this time, Pippi incarnated as a little teacher and said, "If you don't eat, you won't grow tall, and you won't have a sharp weapon." If you are neither tall nor strong, when you have children later, you will not be able to force them to eat cereal porridge. That's not okay. ”
Although he is the same age, he has set an example among his friends, using a very humorous way to persuade his unappetizing partners to eat more.
To tell the truth, my girl read the story and ate half a bowl of porridge. This kind of vivid life education is hidden in every story, and it can be said that in the process of reading the story, it is to give the children a subtle example, do education, and get more in one fell swoop.
Fairy tales allow our children to grow wings of imagination and also let our children learn bravery, wisdom and humor. Whether it is boys or girls, we should not give them a template for growth, but guide and help them become unique selves.