After marriage, many women will be spawned, for the matter of having children, every woman has a different view, some people want to have children as soon as possible, some will choose to have children later, everyone has their own concerns, having children is not so simple, not giving birth to children can be, you must consider the problem of raising children, so every woman should take a long-term view, be prepared before having children, if you do not have the confidence to raise children, then do not easily have children, so as not to increase the burden on yourself and children, There is a difference between having children early and having children later.
Xiao Han and Xiao Xu are a pair of the same age hair small, grew up together, after marriage, the contact is slowly less, Xiao Han married at the age of 23, after marriage gave birth to a child, and Xiao Xu married 8 years after giving birth to a baby, when Xiao Xu was 33 years old. Two people in the street when they were 40 years old but almost did not recognize each other, Xiao Han already has white hair, the whole person is tired, and Xiao Xu is better maintained, looks much younger than Xiao Han, the two met to talk about the child, Xiao Han said that he was young at the time, no experience, taking care of the child's busy hands, and her husband often quarreled, and now that the child is older, he still has to worry about the child's examination. Xiao Xu said that he did not encounter so many difficulties in raising children, although he was tired, but the child was very obedient.
What is the difference between having a child early and having a child later? These differences are reflected in both children and parents, and having a baby is an inseparable two things, it is not difficult to give birth to a child, and it is difficult to educate a good child. Many parents do not think so much before becoming parents, and they are particularly flustered after the birth of the child, so no matter what age they have a child, parents should be prepared in all aspects and do not easily choose to have a baby.
Mental preparation.
The challenges in the parenting process must be unencumbered before, and many problems are unexpected, so if you want to become a qualified parent, you must be mentally prepared and confident to deal with all challenges. Parents should support and encourage each other, jointly cope with possible problems, and provide good conditions for the birth of their children.
Financial preparation.
If there is no economic foundation, there will be many difficulties encountered in the process of child-rearing, and it may also affect family relations, resulting in a crisis in the relationship between husband and wife and parent-child relationship. Therefore, before the birth of the child, the husband and wife must lay a good economic foundation and prepare for the raising of the child.
Educational readiness.
Children need to receive a good education from an early age, especially family education, so parents must be prepared for education, improve their own quality, change their roles as soon as possible, assume their parenting responsibilities, actively educate their children, and let their children grow up in a good family environment.
When giving birth to a child, you must not be impulsive, if you can be prepared, parents will be very relaxed, the child's growth will be healthier, so the husband and wife must negotiate well to prepare for the growth of the child.
What do you think is the difference between having a baby early and having a baby later? How can parents create a good living space for their children?