Some people, you can easily enter his heart, can feel his love.
Some people, no matter how hard you try, can't get close to him, he keeps a distance from you, you want him to love you a little more, take the initiative to take a step closer but find that he took a step back, and when you want to give up the retreat, find that he is enthusiastic again, so repeatedly, so that you can't figure it out.
He gives you the feeling that there are too many "forbidden areas" on your body that you can't ask, understand, and even less touch.
This feeling makes people scratch their hearts, because they love him, want to know everything about him, want to be the only one for him, and save themselves from guessing and guessing.
If a man gives you this feeling, he can only say that he has not let you into his heart, he has not really fallen in love with you, but only verbal love.
In fact, a man, allowing you to step into his "forbidden zone", is really with you.
Allow you to get involved in his money and be willing to share his benefits with you.
As the saying goes, money is a man's guts, and a man can really see his attitude towards a woman for the money spent in a relationship.
A man who doesn't have the will to identify you as a wife will not spend too much money on you.
Juanzi's boyfriend and her relationship, eating and watching movies are all AA-made. If she forgets that she should pay, the boyfriend directly reminds her that she has paid, and the gift is also worth the same, she gave him a gift, he will return the gift to buy a gift for her.
She wasn't sure if her boyfriend loved herself or not, because in addition to money, what he did made her unable to fault.
However, after two years of dating, the boyfriend proposed to break up, saying that he was in love with someone else, spending money like water when pursuing other women, and no longer AA system, she realized that she had not been truly loved.
Men's selfishness about money, many women can not understand, believe that talking about feelings can not mention money, otherwise it is to tarnish feelings.
However, a man who truly loves you will offer to talk to you about money, let you know about his income and assets, and give you confidence in a better life with him.
When a man is willing to spend money for you, although he does not necessarily really love you, but is not willing to spend a penny for you, he is not really sincere with you at all.
Allowing you to get involved in his money is an attitude that he recognizes you and wants to give you better, and it is this recognition that women want, not his money, and when they meet such a man, they must know how to cherish it.
Allow you to get involved in his circle.
Everyone has their own social circle, which involves family affection, friendship, colleagues, etc., but also involves various interests and relationships.
When he doesn't want to marry you, he won't pull you into his circle, for fear that you'll affect his reputation and interests.
The first time a friend brought a female colleague to meet with us, he introduced her and said, "This is my female colleague." We all know that their relationship is not ordinary, but he said that it was a colleague relationship, indicating that he had not yet decided whether to associate with her.
Half a year later, he brought female colleagues to our party again, and before we could ask, he offered to say that it was his fiancée who had already met the parents of both sides.
This circle is everyone's "small world", with people and things related to themselves, their own privacy, if not identified as a person, no one will be willing to let strangers participate in their circle.
If a man does not take you to know his relatives, friends, colleagues, etc. after being with you, then he is playing with you and must have secrets that you cannot touch.
Only if there is only one man who is willing to let you get involved in your circle and defend you in front of others, then he is identifying you and is sincere to you.
Allow you to step into the secrets of his heart.
Everyone has their own little secrets, about privacy or psychological trauma, etc., the average person is not willing to mention it to people, afraid of being pinched or used.
If a man is willing to tell you his inner secrets, it means that he has trusted you very much and thinks that you are the one who can go forward and backward with him.
To tell you the secret of the heart is to open his wrapped heart and give you the right to hurt him.
Knowing that he told the secret, he gave you a sharp blade, but because he really loved you, he was willing to come to you with a knife, even if you might hurt him, he couldn't care less.
Those men who play with women, he has too many secrets in his heart, he will lie constantly when they get along, use a lot of lies to round another lie, often full of loopholes. Many women find out, but are easily fooled by men.
When a man allows you to get involved in his inner secrets, that is, to take you as his own, is to communicate with you, women meet such a man to cherish, do not wait for the loss to know his good.
While everyone has "no-go zones" that no one else can touch, it involves privacy, but it also involves something more important inside.
But, coming with you to real men, will give you special treatment, allowing you to get involved in his money, his circles and inner secrets, which are the most important things in his life, and the love for you is self-evident.
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