You are so busy that you don't have time to fall in love, but you have time to do AI?

2022.4.16 GOODNOON

I have a friend who is in business and is really busy and often runs around.

But he has a hobby, which is to study Ai technology.

He basically devotes his busy time to doing Ai.

But I am still reluctant to spend a little time with my girlfriend.

So, her girlfriend broke up with him because of the accumulated disappointment.

Later, he also admitted that he really didn't love the girl so much.

Okay, here's a paragraph, I made it up.

The purpose is to make you not want to distort my title hahaha.

Now back to the point!

Two days ago, there was a topic on Weibo: #工作忙会妨碍当代年轻人恋爱吗 #

I don't know why someone would ask such a ridiculous question.

Isn't it true that the people who are in love all day long are either students or unemployed vagrants?

I think that busy work never prevents young people from falling in love.

Love is a feeling, busy is a state.

It is normal to be busy during the struggle period, and it is also a good thing, and it is the most terrible thing to have nothing to do when you are young.

But being busy is by no means an excuse to ignore your other half, nor is it a reason to be in love without time.

The so-called busy to have no time to fall in love,

In fact, he didn't meet anyone who made him want to devote the time he had left after his busy time.

At the beginning of my business with Mu mu, I was working 3 jobs at the time, and she was in an accounting firm.

We were all busy, especially Mu Mu basically had to work overtime every day until the early hours of the morning to get home.

But at that time, busyness never affected our relationship management.

It can even be said that because we are busy, we cherish each other's few companionship times every day.

In those busy times, I often shared our lives on Weibo.

On weekdays, I would occasionally stew some soup for Mu mu.

Late at night, when Mu Mu is almost home, I will serve it first, and as soon as she arrives home, she can drink soup with moderate temperature.

Watching her gobble up her drink, I also went to the bath with a sense of accomplishment,

And she hurried to the shower.

When she's done in the shower I often blow her hair and she takes time to surf the Internet.

After blowing our hair, we always talk for a little while, and sometimes we forget to stay up until three or four o'clock in the morning when we are talking.

Then we will laugh similarly and say hurry up and go to sleep, and I guess we will be trapped as dogs again tomorrow.

If we are free on weekends, we often cook a more exquisite dinner together.

The two of us ate together while watching movies that I always had prepared in advance.

Or just go out to dinner and stop by a movie or go shopping.

And when there are three or five days of vacation for a busy period of time,

We either have to take a vacation, or we have the arrogance to go out and eat a meal of 1,800 yuan to treat ourselves.

In fact, to put it bluntly, no one is too busy to spend a maximum of time to pay attention to the other half.

We are just busy, not limited, just whether you have this awareness or not.

As long as you have the other party in mind, when you have lunch, when you take the subway, when you go to bed, you really don't have time?

Why some people would rather brush social platforms, watch movies, play games,

Nor is it willing to take a little time out of these so-called personal likes to spend with each other.

Is it really too tired to talk to anyone?

It's never just an excuse to be lazy or careless.

Mumu and I were very busy at that time, and the daily working hours were.

We can all smoke for 10 minutes every now and then to fight each other.

So, as long as each other's mentality is correct,

Understand that each other is for the sake of the house in order to enter a relatively stable state of life as soon as possible.

We never make a fuss when we are idle and the other party is busy.

It is to give each other warm hugs and care.

Maybe speaking of this, some people will extend to another question: should we start a family or start a business first?

It's a topic that's always been discussed.

Some people feel that only by starting a family can they have a heavier sense of responsibility to establish a business.

Some people feel that karma is the foundation of the material foundation of the family.

But I have always felt that everyone's situation, conditions and current situation are different.

It is impossible to unilaterally judge whether to start a family or start a business first.

If it is a period of rapid career growth, it is completely possible to focus on promotion.

When the career reaches a relatively stable stage, it is more worry-free to give the home.

But if the career does not have a greater chance of rising for the time being,

And it is also the right age to meet the right people, why not take advantage of the career gap to set up a good family?

All this, more importantly, must be judged according to the current situation of the individual,

Because there is no conflict between starting a family and starting a business.

The biggest influencing factor is whether the couple can understand each other in small things, discuss each other on big things, support each other in life, and support each other in their careers.

Mutual understanding and mutual pity, marriage is only a testimony, the most important thing is timing.

On the contrary, there is a lack of mutual understanding and mutual pity, and marriage is just a task.

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